{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"T\u00e2m h\u1ecdc","provider_url":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu","author_name":"Tamhoc.org","author_url":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/author\/tamhoc-org\/","title":"Trang ch\u1ee7\n \n \n \n \n \n\t\t\t\t\t\tG\u00f3c suy ng\u1eabm\n \n \n \n \n \n Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m Cha M\u1eb9\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Share link\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Tweet\n\n \n \n \n\n \n \n Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m Cha M\u1eb9 \n \n \n Sanh con ra, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00ean ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9. Ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi k\u00e9o theo s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t, ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 k\u1ecbp chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. Ai c\u0169ng b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c cao c\u1ea3, thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1 d\u01b0ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh hay do h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n? \n \n \n \t\n \n\n\nTh\u1eed h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? Hay v\u1eeba ch\u0103m con v\u1eeba ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c? V\u00e0, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ai bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n g\u00ec, \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi ph\u1ea9m v\u1ecb m\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i x\u01b0a nay lu\u00f4n t\u00e1n th\u00e1n, t\u00f4n vinh?\n\n\u0110\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tri th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng qua tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tri th\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n. Tri th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cha, m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.\n\nSinh con, nu\u00f4i l\u1edbn\n\nV\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt, l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i. Ngay khi con c\u00e1i v\u1eeba nh\u1eadp thai, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean(1) \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a con sinh ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebf th\u1eeba nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i th\u1eafng. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 khi mang thai c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ecdi b\u1ec1. Th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp trong \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c trong t\u00e2m t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ho\u00e0i thai. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con l\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy lu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00ean th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i lo to l\u1edbn m\u00e0 kinh g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 lo \u00e2u l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng (2) v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, mi\u00ean man sau ch\u00edn hay m\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng.(3)\n\nV\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb, ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung cao \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cha. V\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u01a1 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n, th\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe ho\u1eb7c t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u00f9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m ngay. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi v\u1ebft h\u1eb1n n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, do s\u01a1 su\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c do l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, s\u1ef1 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i tr\u0103n tr\u1edf kh\u00f4n ngu\u00f4i cho c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cha mang theo \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.\n\nKinh \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb (4) m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 kh\u00e1 chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c vua T\u1ecbnh Ph\u1ea1n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e1i t\u1eed T\u1ea5t \u0110\u1ea1t \u0110a, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd tham kh\u1ea3o cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai mu\u1ed1n nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. V\u00e0, d\u00f9 qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c hay th\u1ee9 d\u00e2n, th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh th\u00ec x\u01b0a nay kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa m\u1eb9.\n\nKinh v\u0103n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 r\u1eb1ng, khi \u0111\u00e3 sinh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i h\u00e0i nhi \u1ea5y v\u1edbi m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (5), m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, theo lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc Th\u00e1nh, s\u1eefa c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 m\u00e1u (6). M\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, con \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea5p th\u1ee5 t\u1eeb thu\u1edf ban s\u01a1, \u0111\u1ec3 con v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean, v\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\n\nD\u1ea1y con n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi\n\nD\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ch\u00fang v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y trong kinh T\u0103ng Chi (7). T\u1eeb th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi sanh con ra nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u1ee7i nh\u1ee5c, trong kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ec1. “Tr\u1eddi sinh voi sinh c\u1ecf” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y trong kinh.\n\nTrong li\u00ean h\u1ec7 r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n d\u1ea1y con t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Sanh con th\u00ec d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 b\u1edd c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cha.\n\n\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u01b0u \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi tr\u1ebb con, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tu\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 d\u1eaft d\u1eabn. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh Ch\u1eadu n\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea9n v\u00e0 C\u00e1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt vi\u1ec7n d\u1eabn trong kinh Trung B\u1ed9 (8) \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y cho La H\u1ea7u La l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. \u0110\u00f4i khi v\u1edbi con, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i xem nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n con, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc hi\u1ec3u con v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn chia s\u1ebb.\n\n\u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 kinh g\u1ecdi: B\u1ea1n \u1edf nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 (9) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, l\u00e0m cha. V\u1edbi con, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, c\u1ea7n g\u00ec khi con c\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u01b0u \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng. Th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t mai, khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1: cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 con, t\u1ee9c khi \u1ea5y, \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, trong vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, con c\u1ea7n g\u00ec, th\u00ec li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n.\n\nTh\u01b0\u01a1ng ai b\u1eb1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng con,(10) tuy ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Tr\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng con l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o. Kinh T\u1eeb Bi c\u0169ng c\u0169ng x\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 bao la: Nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9\/ \u00d0\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\/ Tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi lo che ch\u1edf\/ Con \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh sinh (11).\n\nTuy nhi\u00ean, th\u01b0\u01a1ng con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c chi\u1ec1u con, ho\u1eb7c dung d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con khi con ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, tuy nhi\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb m\u1eafc d\u1ecb v\u1eadt v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1ea5y d\u1ecb v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 ra b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n.\n\nTrong kinh Trung B\u1ed9, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed V\u00f4 \u00day: N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00edt n\u00e0y, do s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd c\u1ee7a v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed, hay do s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00fa h\u1ea7u, th\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i que hay nu\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o trong mi\u1ec7ng, v\u1eady v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec? – B\u1ea1ch Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, con ph\u1ea3i m\u00f3c cho ra. B\u1ea1ch Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u00f3c ra l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, th\u1eddi v\u1edbi tay tr\u00e1i con n\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi tay m\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y ng\u00f3n tay l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i m\u00f3c, con s\u1ebd m\u00f3c cho v\u1eadt \u1ea5y ra, d\u1ea7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u. V\u00ec sao v\u1eady? B\u1ea1ch Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, v\u00ec con c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb (12).\n\nC\u0169ng v\u1eady, trong kinh T\u0103ng Chi, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 v\u00fa h\u1ea7u. Theo \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, d\u1eabu r\u1eb1ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u00e0y c\u00e1c T\u1ef7 kheo, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00fa h\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n l\u1ee3i \u00edch, v\u00ec t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00ec l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00ec l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb m\u1eabn (\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb) (13) . Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho roi cho v\u1ecdt v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ph\u1eadt cho ph\u00e9p, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00f9y t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh?\n\nL\u1eadp gia th\u1ea5t v\u00e0 cho con th\u1eeba t\u1ef1\n\nC\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho con; \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi trao c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 cho con (14) l\u00e0 hai tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n khi con \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Trung Qu\u1ed1c, vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp gia th\u1ea5t cho con, cha m\u1eb9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 to\u00e0n quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.\n\nNg\u00e0y nay, b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed5i thay, trai g\u00e1i t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i, v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n.\n\nKinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 gia ch\u1ee7 Nakula \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi l\u1ea1i trong kinh T\u0103ng Chi, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t nhau trong \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t nhau trong \u0111\u1eddi sau (15) l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u1eefu \u00edch, v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau c\u1ea7n ghi nh\u1edb. \u1ede ng\u00e0y nay, b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o tham v\u1ea5n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1eddng quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\n\nNh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, cho con t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n k\u1ec1 th\u1eeba d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o. Ngay nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, trong chuy\u1ebfn tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0ng cung l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, La H\u1ea7u La n\u1eafm tay Ph\u1eadt c\u1ea7u xin c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 hoan h\u1ef7 ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1edd T\u00f4n gi\u1ea3 X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i Ph\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t gia cho c\u1eadu ta. V\u1edbi b\u1eadc Th\u00e1nh, c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 Ch\u00e1nh ph\u00e1p(16). V\u1edbi th\u1ebf gian, c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n.\n\n\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng, c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 cho con kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u1ea5y. Trong hai ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n th\u1eeba t\u1ef1, vi\u1ec7c trao cho con th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 sinh k\u1ebf m\u00e0 kinh g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p(17), l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, tuy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i ngh\u1ecbch t\u1eed, th\u00ec gia s\u1ea3n m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng ti\u00eau vong.\n\nKinh T\u0103ng Chi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea3 \u00e1i (18). Do v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho con c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i. Cho nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, cho v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng bao nhi\u00eau… c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o t\u1eebng bi\u1ec7t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con v\u00e0 t\u00f9y t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 B\u00e0 la m\u00f4n Mah\u00e0s\u00e0la19, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i ph\u00fa h\u00e0o, sau khi chia c\u1ee7a cho c\u00e1c con, ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady xin \u0103n v\u00ec c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\n\nH\u01b0\u1edbng con v\u1ec1 n\u1ebbo thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh\n\n\u0110i qua g\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee3t b\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 hay ch\u01b0a? V\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1c; khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n (20) m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng con quy y Tam b\u1ea3o.\n\n\u0110\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea7n k\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t n\u1eef D\u1ea1 xoa khi ru d\u1ed7 con kh\u00f3c, m\u1edbi th\u1ea5m th\u00eda l\u00e0m sao \u00fd ngh\u0129a gieo m\u1ea7m Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p t\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n \u1eb5m ng\u1eeda, n\u1eb1m n\u00f4i: … \u00d0\u1eddi \u00e1i l\u1ea1c con m\u00ecnh\/ \u00d0\u1eddi \u00e1i l\u1ea1c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh\/ Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u00e1p\/ M\u1eb9 \u00e1i l\u1ea1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.\/ Con hay ch\u1ed3ng d\u1ea7u th\u00e2n\/ Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee9u ta tho\u00e1t kh\u1ed5\/ Kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nghe di\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p\/ Ch\u00fang sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u00e1t kh\u1ed5\/ Trong \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u1eddi sau\/ D\u00ednh li\u1ec1n gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft\/ Ch\u00e1nh ph\u00e1p Ng\u00e0i gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9\/ Gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi gi\u00e0 ch\u1ebft\/ M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n nghe ph\u00e1p \u1ea5y\/ H\u00e3y n\u00edn \u0111i con \u01a1i\/ N\u00e0y Punabbasu (21).\n\nXuy\u00ean qua nhi\u1ec1u ph\u00e1p tho\u1ea1i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt t\u00f9y nghi ch\u1ec9 b\u00e0y trong kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f4i ch\u1ed7 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i soi s\u00e1ng th\u00eam ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c t\u1eeb th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n tri th\u1ee9c cho nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y nay. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y cao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi. Trong kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed s\u00e1ng ch\u00f3i nh\u01b0 Ph\u1ea1m thi\u00ean.\n\n\u00dd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, tri th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, l\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ebf t\u00edch c\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean ph\u1ea9m v\u1ecb thi\u00eang li\u00eang: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi.\n\u00a0\n\nCh\u00fac Ph\u00fa\n\n\u00a0\n\nghi ch\u00fa\n\n1 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 3, Kinh Hy h\u1eefu v\u1ecb t\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu ph\u00e1p, s\u1ed1 123. 2 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 1, \u0110\u1ea1i kinh \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1eadn \u00e1i, s\u1ed1 38. 3 Kinh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn. 4 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng Ba ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m S\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a Tr\u1eddi, Kinh \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb. 5 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 1, \u0110\u1ea1i kinh \u0110o\u1ea1n t\u1eadn \u00e1i, s\u1ed1 38. 6 Kinh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn. 7 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng ba ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m S\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a Tr\u1eddi, Kinh Ngang b\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi Ph\u1ea1m Thi\u00ean. 8 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o gi\u1edbi La H\u1ea7u La \u1edf r\u1eebng Am B\u00e0 La, s\u1ed1 61. 9 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, Thi\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ec7, T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng ch\u01b0 thi\u00ean, Ph\u1ea9m Gi\u00e0, Kinh B\u1ea1n. 10 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, Thi\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ec7, T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng ch\u01b0 Thi\u00ean, ph\u1ea9m V\u01b0\u1eddn hoan h\u1ef7, Kinh Kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1eb1ng con. 11 Kinh Ti\u1ec3u B\u1ed9, Kinh T\u1eadp, Kinh T\u1eeb Bi. 12 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh V\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed V\u00f4 \u00day. 13 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng N\u0103m ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh h\u1eefu h\u1ecdc, Kinh D\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng. 14 Kinh Tr\u01b0\u1eddng B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o th\u1ecd Thi Ca La Vi\u1ec7t, s\u1ed1 31. 15 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng B\u1ed1n ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m Ngu\u1ed3n sanh ph\u01b0\u1edbc, Kinh X\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f4i. 16 Xem th\u00eam Trung B\u1ed9 kinh, t\u1eadp 1, Kinh Th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1p, s\u1ed1 3. 17 Kinh Tr\u01b0\u1eddng B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o th\u1ecd Thi Ca La Vi\u1ec7t, s\u1ed1 31. 18 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng N\u0103m ph\u00e1p, Ph\u1ea9m Du h\u00e0nh d\u00e0i, Kinh T\u00e0i s\u1ea3n. 19 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng VII, t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng B\u00e0 La M\u00f4n, ph\u1ea9m C\u01b0 s\u0129, Kinh Mahasala: \u0110\u1ea1i ph\u00fa gi\u1ea3 hay y cho\u00e0ng th\u00f4. 20 Kinh Tr\u01b0\u1eddng B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o th\u1ecd Thi Ca La Vi\u1ec7t, s\u1ed1 31. 21 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, Thi\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ec7, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng X, T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng D\u1ea1 xoa, Kinh Punabbasu.\n\n\u00a0\n \n \n \n \n \n \n Tags\n ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 phat day lam cha me tin tuc phat giao hoc phat phat phap thien phat giao phat giao vuon hoa phat giao phat hoc \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Tweet\n\n \n \n \n \n\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n C\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft kh\u00e1c\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Joseph Goldstein: Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Cao nh\u00e2n d\u1ea1y: Tu\u1ef3 ng\u1ed9 m\u00e0 an, tu\u1ef3 duy\u00ean m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Trong ch\u1ed1n b\u1ee5i tr\u1ea7n, ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a th\u00e1ng n\u0103m \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \t\n \tTh\u1ebf gian c\u00f3 cu\u1ed3ng quay th\u00ec l\u00f2ng Ph\u1eadt v\u1eabn b\u00ecnh y\u00ean \n \n \n \t\n \tCao nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng l\u1ed9 t\u01b0\u1edbng, hi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u1eb3ng khoe m\u00ecnh \n \n \n \t\n \tL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi? \n \n \n \t\n \tChung th\u1ee7y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \n \n \n \t\n \tT\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y phong th\u1ee7y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3?","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"
Trang ch\u1ee7\n \n \n \n \n \n\t\t\t\t\t\tG\u00f3c suy ng\u1eabm\n \n \n \n \n \n Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m Cha M\u1eb9\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Share link\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Tweet\n\n \n \n \n\n \n \n Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m Cha M\u1eb9 \n \n \n Sanh con ra, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00ean ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9. Ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi k\u00e9o theo s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t, ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 k\u1ecbp chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. Ai c\u0169ng b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c cao c\u1ea3, thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1 d\u01b0ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh hay do h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n? \n \n \n \t\n \n\n\nTh\u1eed h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? Hay v\u1eeba ch\u0103m con v\u1eeba ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c? V\u00e0, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ai bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n g\u00ec, \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi ph\u1ea9m v\u1ecb m\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i x\u01b0a nay lu\u00f4n t\u00e1n th\u00e1n, t\u00f4n vinh?\n\n\u0110\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tri th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng qua tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tri th\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n. Tri th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cha, m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.\n\nSinh con, nu\u00f4i l\u1edbn\n\nV\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt, l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i. Ngay khi con c\u00e1i v\u1eeba nh\u1eadp thai, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean(1) \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a con sinh ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebf th\u1eeba nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i th\u1eafng. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 khi mang thai c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ecdi b\u1ec1. Th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp trong \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c trong t\u00e2m t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ho\u00e0i thai. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con l\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy lu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00ean th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i lo to l\u1edbn m\u00e0 kinh g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 lo \u00e2u l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng (2) v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, mi\u00ean man sau ch\u00edn hay m\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng.(3)\n\nV\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb, ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung cao \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cha. V\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u01a1 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n, th\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe ho\u1eb7c t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u00f9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m ngay. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi v\u1ebft h\u1eb1n n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, do s\u01a1 su\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c do l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, s\u1ef1 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i tr\u0103n tr\u1edf kh\u00f4n ngu\u00f4i cho c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cha mang theo \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.\n\nKinh \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb (4) m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 kh\u00e1 chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c vua T\u1ecbnh Ph\u1ea1n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e1i t\u1eed T\u1ea5t \u0110\u1ea1t \u0110a, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd tham kh\u1ea3o cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai mu\u1ed1n nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. V\u00e0, d\u00f9 qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c hay th\u1ee9 d\u00e2n, th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh th\u00ec x\u01b0a nay kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa m\u1eb9.\n\nKinh v\u0103n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 r\u1eb1ng, khi \u0111\u00e3 sinh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i h\u00e0i nhi \u1ea5y v\u1edbi m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (5), m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, theo lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc Th\u00e1nh, s\u1eefa c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 m\u00e1u (6). M\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, con \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea5p th\u1ee5 t\u1eeb thu\u1edf ban s\u01a1, \u0111\u1ec3 con v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean, v\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\n\nD\u1ea1y con n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi\n\nD\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ch\u00fang v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y trong kinh T\u0103ng Chi (7). T\u1eeb th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi sanh con ra nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u1ee7i nh\u1ee5c, trong kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ec1. “Tr\u1eddi sinh voi sinh c\u1ecf” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y trong kinh.\n\nTrong li\u00ean h\u1ec7 r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n d\u1ea1y con t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Sanh con th\u00ec d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 b\u1edd c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cha.\n\n\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u01b0u \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi tr\u1ebb con, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tu\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 d\u1eaft d\u1eabn. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh Ch\u1eadu n\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea9n v\u00e0 C\u00e1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt vi\u1ec7n d\u1eabn trong kinh Trung B\u1ed9 (8) \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y cho La H\u1ea7u La l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. \u0110\u00f4i khi v\u1edbi con, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i xem nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n con, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc hi\u1ec3u con v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn chia s\u1ebb.\n\n\u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 kinh g\u1ecdi: B\u1ea1n \u1edf nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 (9) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, l\u00e0m cha. V\u1edbi con, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, c\u1ea7n g\u00ec khi con c\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u01b0u \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng. Th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t mai, khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1: cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 con, t\u1ee9c khi \u1ea5y, \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, trong vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, con c\u1ea7n g\u00ec, th\u00ec li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n.\n\nTh\u01b0\u01a1ng ai b\u1eb1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng con,(10) tuy ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Tr\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng con l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o. Kinh T\u1eeb Bi c\u0169ng c\u0169ng x\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 bao la: Nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9\/ \u00d0\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\/ Tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi lo che ch\u1edf\/ Con \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh sinh (11).\n\nTuy nhi\u00ean, th\u01b0\u01a1ng con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c chi\u1ec1u con, ho\u1eb7c dung d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con khi con ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, tuy nhi\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb m\u1eafc d\u1ecb v\u1eadt v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1ea5y d\u1ecb v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 ra b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n.\n\nTrong kinh Trung B\u1ed9, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed V\u00f4 \u00day: N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00edt n\u00e0y, do s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd c\u1ee7a v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed, hay do s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00fa h\u1ea7u, th\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i que hay nu\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o trong mi\u1ec7ng, v\u1eady v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec? – B\u1ea1ch Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, con ph\u1ea3i m\u00f3c cho ra. B\u1ea1ch Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u00f3c ra l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, th\u1eddi v\u1edbi tay tr\u00e1i con n\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi tay m\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y ng\u00f3n tay l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i m\u00f3c, con s\u1ebd m\u00f3c cho v\u1eadt \u1ea5y ra, d\u1ea7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u. V\u00ec sao v\u1eady? B\u1ea1ch Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, v\u00ec con c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb (12).\n\nC\u0169ng v\u1eady, trong kinh T\u0103ng Chi, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 v\u00fa h\u1ea7u. Theo \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, d\u1eabu r\u1eb1ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u00e0y c\u00e1c T\u1ef7 kheo, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00fa h\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n l\u1ee3i \u00edch, v\u00ec t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00ec l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00ec l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb m\u1eabn (\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb) (13) . Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho roi cho v\u1ecdt v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ph\u1eadt cho ph\u00e9p, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00f9y t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh?\n\nL\u1eadp gia th\u1ea5t v\u00e0 cho con th\u1eeba t\u1ef1\n\nC\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho con; \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi trao c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 cho con (14) l\u00e0 hai tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n khi con \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Trung Qu\u1ed1c, vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp gia th\u1ea5t cho con, cha m\u1eb9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 to\u00e0n quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.\n\nNg\u00e0y nay, b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed5i thay, trai g\u00e1i t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i, v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n.\n\nKinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 gia ch\u1ee7 Nakula \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi l\u1ea1i trong kinh T\u0103ng Chi, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t nhau trong \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t nhau trong \u0111\u1eddi sau (15) l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u1eefu \u00edch, v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau c\u1ea7n ghi nh\u1edb. \u1ede ng\u00e0y nay, b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o tham v\u1ea5n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1eddng quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\n\nNh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, cho con t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n k\u1ec1 th\u1eeba d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o. Ngay nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, trong chuy\u1ebfn tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0ng cung l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, La H\u1ea7u La n\u1eafm tay Ph\u1eadt c\u1ea7u xin c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 hoan h\u1ef7 ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1edd T\u00f4n gi\u1ea3 X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i Ph\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t gia cho c\u1eadu ta. V\u1edbi b\u1eadc Th\u00e1nh, c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 Ch\u00e1nh ph\u00e1p(16). V\u1edbi th\u1ebf gian, c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n.\n\n\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng, c\u1ee7a th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 cho con kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u1ea5y. Trong hai ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n th\u1eeba t\u1ef1, vi\u1ec7c trao cho con th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 sinh k\u1ebf m\u00e0 kinh g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p(17), l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, tuy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i ngh\u1ecbch t\u1eed, th\u00ec gia s\u1ea3n m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng ti\u00eau vong.\n\nKinh T\u0103ng Chi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea3 \u00e1i (18). Do v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho con c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i. Cho nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, cho v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng bao nhi\u00eau… c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o t\u1eebng bi\u1ec7t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con v\u00e0 t\u00f9y t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 B\u00e0 la m\u00f4n Mah\u00e0s\u00e0la19, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i ph\u00fa h\u00e0o, sau khi chia c\u1ee7a cho c\u00e1c con, ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady xin \u0103n v\u00ec c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\n\nH\u01b0\u1edbng con v\u1ec1 n\u1ebbo thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh\n\n\u0110i qua g\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee3t b\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 hay ch\u01b0a? V\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1c; khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n (20) m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng con quy y Tam b\u1ea3o.\n\n\u0110\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea7n k\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t n\u1eef D\u1ea1 xoa khi ru d\u1ed7 con kh\u00f3c, m\u1edbi th\u1ea5m th\u00eda l\u00e0m sao \u00fd ngh\u0129a gieo m\u1ea7m Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p t\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n \u1eb5m ng\u1eeda, n\u1eb1m n\u00f4i: … \u00d0\u1eddi \u00e1i l\u1ea1c con m\u00ecnh\/ \u00d0\u1eddi \u00e1i l\u1ea1c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh\/ Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u00e1p\/ M\u1eb9 \u00e1i l\u1ea1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.\/ Con hay ch\u1ed3ng d\u1ea7u th\u00e2n\/ Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee9u ta tho\u00e1t kh\u1ed5\/ Kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nghe di\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p\/ Ch\u00fang sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u00e1t kh\u1ed5\/ Trong \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u1eddi sau\/ D\u00ednh li\u1ec1n gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft\/ Ch\u00e1nh ph\u00e1p Ng\u00e0i gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9\/ Gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi gi\u00e0 ch\u1ebft\/ M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n nghe ph\u00e1p \u1ea5y\/ H\u00e3y n\u00edn \u0111i con \u01a1i\/ N\u00e0y Punabbasu (21).\n\nXuy\u00ean qua nhi\u1ec1u ph\u00e1p tho\u1ea1i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt t\u00f9y nghi ch\u1ec9 b\u00e0y trong kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f4i ch\u1ed7 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i soi s\u00e1ng th\u00eam ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c t\u1eeb th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n tri th\u1ee9c cho nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y nay. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y cao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi. Trong kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed s\u00e1ng ch\u00f3i nh\u01b0 Ph\u1ea1m thi\u00ean.\n\n\u00dd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, tri th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, l\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ebf t\u00edch c\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean ph\u1ea9m v\u1ecb thi\u00eang li\u00eang: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi.\n\u00a0\n\nCh\u00fac Ph\u00fa\n\n\u00a0\n\nghi ch\u00fa\n\n1 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 3, Kinh Hy h\u1eefu v\u1ecb t\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu ph\u00e1p, s\u1ed1 123. 2 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 1, \u0110\u1ea1i kinh \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1eadn \u00e1i, s\u1ed1 38. 3 Kinh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn. 4 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng Ba ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m S\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a Tr\u1eddi, Kinh \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb. 5 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 1, \u0110\u1ea1i kinh \u0110o\u1ea1n t\u1eadn \u00e1i, s\u1ed1 38. 6 Kinh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn. 7 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng ba ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m S\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a Tr\u1eddi, Kinh Ngang b\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi Ph\u1ea1m Thi\u00ean. 8 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o gi\u1edbi La H\u1ea7u La \u1edf r\u1eebng Am B\u00e0 La, s\u1ed1 61. 9 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, Thi\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ec7, T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng ch\u01b0 thi\u00ean, Ph\u1ea9m Gi\u00e0, Kinh B\u1ea1n. 10 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, Thi\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ec7, T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng ch\u01b0 Thi\u00ean, ph\u1ea9m V\u01b0\u1eddn hoan h\u1ef7, Kinh Kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1eb1ng con. 11 Kinh Ti\u1ec3u B\u1ed9, Kinh T\u1eadp, Kinh T\u1eeb Bi. 12 Kinh Trung B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh V\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eed V\u00f4 \u00day. 13 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng N\u0103m ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh h\u1eefu h\u1ecdc, Kinh D\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng. 14 Kinh Tr\u01b0\u1eddng B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o th\u1ecd Thi Ca La Vi\u1ec7t, s\u1ed1 31. 15 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng B\u1ed1n ph\u00e1p, ph\u1ea9m Ngu\u1ed3n sanh ph\u01b0\u1edbc, Kinh X\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f4i. 16 Xem th\u00eam Trung B\u1ed9 kinh, t\u1eadp 1, Kinh Th\u1eeba t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1p, s\u1ed1 3. 17 Kinh Tr\u01b0\u1eddng B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o th\u1ecd Thi Ca La Vi\u1ec7t, s\u1ed1 31. 18 Kinh T\u0103ng Chi, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng N\u0103m ph\u00e1p, Ph\u1ea9m Du h\u00e0nh d\u00e0i, Kinh T\u00e0i s\u1ea3n. 19 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng VII, t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng B\u00e0 La M\u00f4n, ph\u1ea9m C\u01b0 s\u0129, Kinh Mahasala: \u0110\u1ea1i ph\u00fa gi\u1ea3 hay y cho\u00e0ng th\u00f4. 20 Kinh Tr\u01b0\u1eddng B\u1ed9, t\u1eadp 2, Kinh Gi\u00e1o th\u1ecd Thi Ca La Vi\u1ec7t, s\u1ed1 31. 21 Kinh T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01afng, t\u1eadp 1, Thi\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ec7, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng X, T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0ng D\u1ea1 xoa, Kinh Punabbasu.\n\n\u00a0\n \n \n \n \n \n \n Tags\n ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 phat day lam cha me tin tuc phat giao hoc phat phat phap thien phat giao phat giao vuon hoa phat giao phat hoc \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Tweet\n\n \n \n \n \n\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n C\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft kh\u00e1c\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Joseph Goldstein: Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Cao nh\u00e2n d\u1ea1y: Tu\u1ef3 ng\u1ed9 m\u00e0 an, tu\u1ef3 duy\u00ean m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Trong ch\u1ed1n b\u1ee5i tr\u1ea7n, ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a th\u00e1ng n\u0103m \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \t\n \tTh\u1ebf gian c\u00f3 cu\u1ed3ng quay th\u00ec l\u00f2ng Ph\u1eadt v\u1eabn b\u00ecnh y\u00ean \n \n \n \t\n \tCao nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng l\u1ed9 t\u01b0\u1edbng, hi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u1eb3ng khoe m\u00ecnh \n \n \n \t\n \tL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi? \n \n \n \t\n \tChung th\u1ee7y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \n \n \n \t\n \tT\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y phong th\u1ee7y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3?<\/a><\/blockquote>