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elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5336057\" data-id=\"5336057\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19e95b9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"19e95b9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>[ad_1]<\/p><h3 class=\"tt-detail box_qc_cen1\">H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u1edf trong t\u1ea7m tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u00f3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, c\u00f3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y theo c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta&#8230;<\/h3><div class=\"f-detail box_f\"><!--<\/p>\n<div class=\"box_f_qc\">\n            \t<img decoding=\"async\" style=\"width:100%; height:auto;\" src=\"http:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Chuong-I-Lich-su-va-hoan-canh-Tay-Tang.png\"\/><\/div>\n<p>--><p>\u00a0<\/p><div>\u00a0<\/div><div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"pic_zoom\" href=\"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Com-soi-nho-lua.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Com-soi-nho-lua.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/div><p>Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i, c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>T\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh nh\u01b0 t\u00e2n &#8211; v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i nhau, k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng nhau nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qu\u00fd l\u00fac m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p &#8211; l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3i th\u00ec d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/p><p>C\u00f3 khi ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ecb tan v\u1ee1. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp l\u1eafng nghe t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb qua nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 h\u1ed9 ni\u1ec7m th\u00e0nh h\u00f4n (<em>l\u1ec5 h\u1eb1ng thu\u1eadn),<\/em> hay qua c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i tham v\u1ea5n cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gi\u00fap r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p><p>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, khi trong ta c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau.<\/p><p>B\u00e0i h\u00e1t C\u00f5i m\u00ea <em>(A crazy world, ABBA, 1976) <\/em>n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c. S\u00e1ng h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111i b\u1ed9 qua nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p><p>\u0110\u1ebfn n\u01a1i, ch\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111i ra b\u00e3i \u0111\u1eadu xe v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e1i xe \u0111i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng c\u0169ng \u0111i ra ti\u1ec5n. Ch\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau s\u1ebd b\u1ecf r\u01a1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p><p>Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau t\u1ec9nh b\u01a1 nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u00ean l\u00ean v\u00e0 la l\u1ed1i r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng y\u00eau n\u00e0ng, sao n\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i quen ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00e0ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i ch\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng hay sao.<\/p><p>C\u00f4 g\u00e1i m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. Anh trai c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 &#8211; ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba m\u1edbi l\u00e1i xe \u0111i &#8211; l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Anh n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i xa m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i v\u00e0 nay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2y sinh s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh trai d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb h\u1edb v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111ang \u1edf trong c\u01a1n m\u00ea, ch\u00e0ng trai ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i th\u1ea7m l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf r\u01a1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p><p>Th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 th\u00e2m s\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec ta kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 tha nh\u00e2n. V\u00e0 c\u1ea3 cho mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa.<\/p><p>Th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do, \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1eadt s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ta thay v\u00ec b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m \u0111i hay b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng l\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n.<\/p><p>Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ec9 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ri\u00eang ta, n\u00ean khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p><p>C\u00f3 khi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng ghen v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c quy\u1ec1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con trai m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00e1 th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u00e2u<em> &#8220;c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec m\u1edbi ghen, kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec ai ghen l\u00e0m g\u00ec&#8221;.<\/em><\/p><p>N\u00f3i v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai vui v\u1ebb g\u00ec khi \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ghen v\u1edbi l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng<em> (khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta y\u00eau c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau kh\u00e1c)<\/em> hay ghen b\u00f3ng ghen gi\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ghen th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghen th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t an. Y\u00ean sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 do.<\/p><p>S\u1ef1 chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ghen ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5. V\u00ec ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ta, ta mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd ta: ph\u1ea3i mang \u00e1o m\u00e0u n\u00e0y, ph\u1ea3i \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n n\u00e0y, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y&#8230;,<\/p><p>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec ta bu\u1ed3n, ta gi\u1eadn. V\u00ec sao m\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean? Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u00e2m t\u00e2m ta khi ta ghen? C\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ghen tu\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 vun tr\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng?<\/p><p>Ta h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n tr\u00ean qua c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a Duy bi\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o.<\/p><p><strong>V\u1eadn h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p><p>\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n qua th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m. Th\u1ee9c, m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ta c\u00f3 s\u00e1u gi\u00e1c quan: m\u1eaft, tai, m\u0169i, l\u01b0\u1ee1i, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 \u00fd.<\/p><p>M\u1eaft ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc cho ta c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u1edf m\u1eaft &#8211; th\u1ea5y, nh\u00e3n th\u1ee9c. Tai ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi \u00e2m thanh cho ta c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u1edf tai &#8211; nghe, nh\u0129 th\u1ee9c. M\u0169i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ta c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u1edf m\u0169i &#8211; ng\u1eedi, t\u1ecb th\u1ee9c. L\u01b0\u1ee1i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi v\u1ecb cho ta c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u1edf l\u01b0\u1ee1i &#8211; n\u1ebfm, thi\u1ec7t th\u1ee9c.<\/p><p>Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m cho ta c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u1edf th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 &#8211; x\u00fac, th\u00e2n th\u1ee9c. \u00dd ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p (<em>c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng sinh l\u00fd, v\u1eadt l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd) <\/em>cho ta c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft \u1edf \u00fd &#8211; nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, \u00fd th\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u1eed xem b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 b\u1ecb h\u00f4n m\u00ea hay kh\u00f4ng, b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eed kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft \u1edf c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan.<\/p><p>C\u00e1c t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, \u00fd v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 m\u1eaft ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c (<em>th\u1ecd, feeling) <\/em>\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t sinh khi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. C\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<em> (l\u1ea1c th\u1ecd)<\/em>; c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu <em>(kh\u1ed5 th\u1ecd)<\/em>; v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu<em> (x\u1ea3 th\u1ecd).<\/em><\/p><p>T\u00e2m ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh<em> (mental formation)<\/em>. C\u00f3 51 t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t (<em>nh\u01b0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, trung th\u00e0nh, bao dung, kh\u00f4ng tham, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t&#8230;),<\/em> t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh x\u1ea5u (<em>nh\u01b0 \u0111a nghi, ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i, ganh gh\u00e9t, tham, gi\u1eadn, ngu si..<\/em>.) v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ecd v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 hai trong s\u1ed1 51 t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh n\u00e0y.<\/p><p>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong t\u00e2m ta t\u1eeb l\u00e2u d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y sang th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5t gi\u1eef \u1edf m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00e0ng th\u1ee9c (<em>c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft c\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a)<\/em>.<\/p><p>Khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u00edch h\u1ee3p th\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh n\u00e0y bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean \u00fd th\u1ee9c <em>(c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n)<\/em>. \u00dd th\u1ee9c d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i trong sinh ho\u1ea1t h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ta. N\u1ebfu ta bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n, nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ta s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m an vui cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p><p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u1ea5y ch\u0103n \u0111\u1eafp cho con khi th\u1ea5y con ng\u1ee7 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eafp g\u00ec. H\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u1edbi t\u1ea9m n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 ch\u1eebng. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi con nh\u1edb ho\u00e0i.<\/p><p>Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem t\u00e0ng th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 kho \u1edf t\u1ea7ng d\u01b0\u1edbi, \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch \u1edf t\u1ea7ng tr\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u0103n nh\u00e0. Khi m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u1edf \u00fd th\u1ee9c, ta kh\u00f4ng xua \u0111u\u1ed5i n\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam.<\/p><p>Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ta t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i, t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd y\u1ebfu d\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng t\u00e0ng th\u1ee9c d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 ta mu\u1ed1n khoe chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7m m\u1edbi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00e0u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn trong ta n\u1ed5i l\u00ean.<\/p><p>Bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i c\u00e1i n\u01a1 th\u1eaft ngang l\u01b0ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang n\u00f3 thon v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p ra. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn trong ta gi\u1ea3m \u0111i. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: <em>&#8220;Ch\u1ed3ng gi\u1eadn th\u00ec v\u1ee3 b\u1edbt l\u1eddi\/C\u01a1m s\u00f4i nh\u1ecf l\u1eeda m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ea&#8221;.<\/em><\/p><p>\u1ede gi\u1eefa t\u00e0ng th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ea1t na th\u1ee9c, c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. C\u00e1i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 n\u00e0y cho r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ta, ch\u1ec9 cho ri\u00eang ta. N\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ee9c m\u00e0n che, l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1eaft, tai, l\u01b0\u1ee1i, th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a \u00fd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1ch quan.<\/p><p>Khi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o, ta c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ta v\u00e0 cho ta. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Hay trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i sinh ho\u1ea1t ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc t\u00ean, ta c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc t\u00ean m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh l\u00edu g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p><p>Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai v\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i. Ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau &#8211; kh\u1ed5 th\u1ecd sinh ra khi m\u1eaft th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3nh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y. V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 anh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, ch\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i ch\u00e0ng &#8211; m\u1ed9t tri gi\u00e1c sai l\u1ea7m <em>(v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em>).<\/p><p>Tri gi\u00e1c sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t sinh nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m h\u00e0nh s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i <em>(s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau<\/em>), gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 nghi ng\u1edd. Kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn, ch\u00e0ng l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng c\u00e3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. C\u00f4 g\u00e1i r\u1ea5t kh\u00e9o, n\u00f3i ngay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 anh trai m\u00ecnh.<\/p><p>C\u01a1n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 nghi ng\u1edd trong ch\u00e0ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t nh\u1edd nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u ch\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n nghe &#8211; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng.<\/p><p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n t\u01b0\u1edbi t\u1ea9m h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf, bao dung c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, mu\u1ed1n cho ch\u00e0ng b\u1edbt ghen v\u00e0 t\u1eadp chia s\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean m\u1edbi n\u00f3i l\u00e0 anh trai c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00e0ng v\u1eady, ch\u00e0ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi anh trai c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng, anh n\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1eafm.<\/p><p>C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00f3 h\u1eadu nh\u1edd ch\u00e0ng trai bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m cho ch\u00e0ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m cho ch\u00e0ng b\u1edbt kh\u1ed5. N\u1ebfu v\u00ec t\u1ef1 \u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng trai b\u1ecf v\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i c\u1ee9 im l\u1eb7ng \u00f4m l\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m \u0111au, r\u1ed3i ghen b\u00f3ng ghen gi\u00f3, th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tan v\u1ee1.<\/p><p>T\u1ef1 \u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111i tr\u1ec5 n\u0103m ph\u00fat l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y anh trai c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m. Ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn, kh\u00f4ng nghe, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y.<\/p><p>Ch\u00e0ng trai n\u00ean c\u00e1m \u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady ch\u00e0ng m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. Phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n n\u1eb1m s\u1eb5n trong ta ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf ngo\u00e0i. \u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn k\u1ef9 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra trong t\u00e2m th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap ta chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ed5 \u0111au.<\/p><p><strong>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd chi ph\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/p><p>Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n x\u1ea3y ra khi ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd. \u0110ang gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn, ta m\u1edbi la h\u00e9t, \u0111\u1eadp ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3.<\/p><p>T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u1ed1i b\u00f4ng, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ed1i b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1eadn c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tho\u00e1t ra ngo\u00e0i.<\/p><p>H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110\u00e1nh xong r\u1ed3i, m\u1ec7t \u0111\u1eeb, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1eadn c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u1edbi t\u1ea9m. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y nay \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng.<\/p><p>N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n trong ta d\u01b0\u1edbi ba d\u1ea1ng: tinh, kh\u00ed v\u00e0 th\u1ea7n. Tinh l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, kh\u00ed l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1i th\u1edf, th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t trung h\u00f2a c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e2n t\u00e2m.<\/p><p>Khi hai lo\u1ea1i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i, ta l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi h\u01a1i th\u1edf, chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1i th\u1edf. T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u01a1i th\u1edf v\u00e0o v\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf ra, \u0111\u1eebng suy ngh\u0129 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t 5, 10 ph\u00fat, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng sao.<\/p><p>An tr\u00fa trong n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a h\u01a1i th\u1edf ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m, gi\u00fap ta kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac &#8211; khi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00fd tr\u00ed &#8211; v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng <em>&#8220;Ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ecf nh\u01b0 vang\/\u0110\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7t v\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 ngh\u1ec7&#8221;.<\/em><\/p><p>Khi vui qu\u00e1 &#8211; v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi \u0111\u1ed9i banh m\u00ecnh \u01b0a th\u00edch \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch Euro 2008, th\u00ec m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e1o nhi\u1ec7t xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ta h\u00e9t, \u0111\u1eadp b\u00e0n, \u0111\u1eadp gh\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n m\u1eebng. Khi bu\u1ed3n qu\u00e1 &#8211; v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 &#8211; m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p><p>N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh, c\u00f3 khi khi\u1ebfn ta l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ea1i d\u1ed9t, nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng. Khi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m, m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ee9c x\u00fac xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ta ki\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4m \u1ea5p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd chuy\u1ec3n sang n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p><p>Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng <strong><em>&#8220;t\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam&#8221; <\/em><\/strong>\u0111a s\u1ed1 l\u00e0 do l\u00fd do n\u00e0y. Ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c qua n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00ed v\u00e0 th\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu trong nh\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tu h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, nh\u01b0 b\u00e0i k\u1ec7 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p><p><em>Xin \u0111em n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y,<\/em><\/p><p><em>Chuy\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh tinh t\u1ea5n l\u1ef1c,<\/em><\/p><p>\u0110\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i l\u00ean,<\/p><p>S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p mau ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t.<\/p><p><em>Khi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd chi ph\u1ed1i, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/em><\/p><p><strong>N\u0103m l\u1eddi ph\u00e1t nguy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p><p>H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a v\u1edbi nhau, v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c chung quanh. C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00eam b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p><p>Bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh h\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Khi \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1.<\/p><p>Khi l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 h\u1eb1ng thu\u1eadn theo nghi th\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, c\u00f4 d\u00e2u v\u00e0 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ecdc n\u0103m l\u1eddi ph\u00e1t nguy\u1ec7n (*), trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 hai l\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbi t\u1ea9m s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed theo tinh th\u1ea7n<em> &#8220;t\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh nh\u01b0 t\u00e2n&#8221; <\/em>c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c:<\/p><p><em><strong>Ch\u00fang con nguy\u1ec7n n\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o nhau, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ef1 tin c\u1eady, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.<\/strong><\/em><\/p><p><em><strong><br \/><\/strong><\/em><em><strong>Ch\u00fang con nguy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, s\u1ef1 h\u1eddn gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 l\u00fd lu\u1eadn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m hao t\u1ed5n h\u00f2a kh\u00ed v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec.<\/strong><\/em><\/p><p><em><strong>Ch\u00fang con bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tin c\u1eady m\u1edbi b\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an l\u1ea1c.<\/strong><\/em><\/p><p>\u0110\u1ecdc xong n\u0103m l\u1eddi ph\u00e1t nguy\u1ec7n th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u00ean l\u00e0 n\u00ean c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e1t nguy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp tr\u0103ng tr\u00f2n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi trao nh\u1eabn, c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1y nhau hai l\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p><p>H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u1edf trong t\u1ea7m tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u00f3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, c\u00f3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y theo c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p><p>S\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng trong \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. V\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p><p><strong>Ch\u00e2n Ph\u00e1p Kh\u00e2m<\/strong><\/p><p><em>(*) Nghi th\u1ee9c t\u1ee5ng ni\u1ec7m \u0110\u1ea1i to\u00e0n, \u0111\u1ea1o tr\u00e0ng Mai Th\u00f4n bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n. Ba l\u1eddi ph\u00e1t nguy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c l\u00e0: (1) Ch\u00fang con nguy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y sao cho x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean v\u00e0 n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang con. (2) Ch\u00fang con nguy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y sao cho x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng m\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean v\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i \u0111\u1eb7t n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang con. (3) Ch\u00fang con nguy\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft t\u00e2m l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/em><\/p><div>\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"clear\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><p>[ad_2]<\/p><p>Ngu\u1ed3n : <a href=\"https:\/\/vuonhoaphatgiao.com\/goc-suy-ngam\/com-soi-nho-lua\/\">Source link vuonhoaphatgiao.com<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-688d198 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"688d198\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c5b246a\" data-id=\"c5b246a\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c36050 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2c36050\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"section\" data-elementor-id=\"43704\" class=\"elementor elementor-43704\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e45ae42 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e45ae42\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-de263d9\" data-id=\"de263d9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-759b25d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"759b25d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>C\u1ea9m nang cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng &#8211; T\u00e2m h\u1ecdc 2022 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Online chia s\u1ebb , t\u00f3m l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y , kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft m\u00e0 T\u00e2m h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chung v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u00f3i ri\u00eang.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Home [ad_1] H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u1edf trong t\u1ea7m tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. 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