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\n Jack London \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.\u201d V\u1eady s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? 15 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5, mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. <\/h3>\n

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\nH\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 th\u1eadt h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

1. Tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1eebng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf! H\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u1eefng ai y\u00eau qu\u00fd v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. Tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, n\u00f3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

2. B\u1ecf ngo\u00e0i tai nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n cho ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u00fat ra nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n g\u1eedi v\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n trong t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n b\u1ecb th\u00e2m h\u1ee5t. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch b\u1ecf ngo\u00e0i tai nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ai c\u00f3 c\u00e1i quy\u1ec1n ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p hay kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u00ean t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Jack London \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.\u201d <\/strong><\/em>V\u1eady s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? 15 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5, mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

3. Tha th\u1ee9 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tha th\u1ee9 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 gh\u00e9t m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n khi ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 th\u1eadt h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/p>\n

4. H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201c\u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t v\u00f4 nh\u1ecb\u201d.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong c\u00e1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 n\u00e0y, thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec h\u00e3y can \u0111\u1ea3m gi\u1eef l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ri\u00eang m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd v\u00ec h\u1ecd qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

5. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1i tim<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 can \u0111\u1ea3m. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo l\u1eddi m\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a con tim.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111i thay b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n ni\u1ec1m vui. Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t trao cho b\u1ea1n kinh nghi\u1ec7m. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00ed b\u00e1u.<\/p>\n

6. N\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u0169 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u1edbi. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u00e0 nghi ng\u1edd. Ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

M\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01a1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

7. Ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i, ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng tay c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1. Ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. M\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 hai lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u: m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 hai l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

8. Nh\u1eadn ra ai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ghi nh\u1edb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho h\u1ecd ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu hay g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng.<\/p>\n

9. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u00f9 ch\u00fang hay l\u00e0m r\u1ed1i tung m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 hay b\u1ecb b\u00e0 r\u1ea7y la. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 \u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n tr\u1ec5 gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n

Hay v\u1edbi c\u1eadu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n qu\u00ean tr\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 m\u00e0 c\u1eadu \u1ea5y m\u01b0\u1ee3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u1eady th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

10. H\u00e3y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m h\u00f4m nay quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00edch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

11. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 hai lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u: m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 hai l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m vui h\u01a1n. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c than v\u00e3n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean. C\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

12. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho ni\u1ec1m vui<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn ng\u1eafm cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u201cl\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y\u201d<\/em><\/strong> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. D\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 vui ch\u01a1i, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

13. T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nhoi nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 lo toan \u0111\u00f4i khi khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay nh\u1eefng khi ng\u1eafm ho\u00e0ng h\u00f4n t\u1eeb t\u1eeb bu\u00f4ng xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nhoi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00ec khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n, n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf nhoi ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nhoi c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n

M\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

14. \u0110\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u01b0\u1edbp m\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng sao c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, qu\u00ean \u0111i hay x\u00f3a nh\u00f2a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cho hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

15. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o h\u00e0n g\u1eafn. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Nhi\u1ec1u khi, k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

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