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<\/a><\/div>\n\u00a0V\u1eady h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/p>\n H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 \u00fd, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Cho n\u00ean b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a tinh th\u1ea7n, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n V\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c t\u1eeb kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 sung s\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c. Hay n\u00f3i kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n khi ch\u00fang ta h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c l\u1ea1c, th\u00ec k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh kh\u1ed5 \u0111au l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m n\u00ean ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tre l\u00e1 tr\u00ean r\u1eebng, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 l\u00e0m nh\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5m c\u00fang cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf t\u00e1c nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u1ef7 l\u1ea1c cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 ly k\u1ef3 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn l\u00e0m sao.<\/p>\n V\u1eady khi n\u00f3i t\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 s\u1eb3n trong ta, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft ngay r\u1eb1ng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111ang b\u00e0n l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ebf m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u0129nh l\u1ea1c ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hai.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c n\u00f3 tr\u00ean hai b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 do ch\u00ednh trong d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u201c\u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh\u201d t\u00e1c \u00fd b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta vui bu\u1ed3n s\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u1ed5. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng suy ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh v\u1eady.<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c t\u1eeb c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 th\u1ee9 hai. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u0111a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111au kh\u1ed5, l\u00e0 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00ec c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh sinh ra l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u1ee7 quan y\u00eau gh\u00e9t c\u1ee7a ta. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o tinh th\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta, theo hai ng\u00e3 vui, bu\u1ed3n, h\u1ef7, n\u1ed9, \u00e1i, \u1ed1 lung tung.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111i n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u1eabn nhau th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. V\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3ng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda l\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 gi\u00f3 m\u00e1t tr\u0103ng thanh th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean vui th\u00fa b\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u1eb7t n\u1ed7i t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec lu\u00f4n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu. V\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n \u201cc\u00f3\u201d l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m gi\u1eef n\u00f3 m\u1ec7t mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ebft lu\u00f4n.\u00a0<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng g\u00e2y ra c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t, khi ch\u00fang ta m\u00e3i \u0111i loanh quanh tr\u00ean v\u0169ng l\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra th\u00f4i. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u201ct\u1eadn nh\u00e2n l\u1ef1c, th\u00ec s\u1ebd tri thi\u00ean m\u1ec7nh\u201d. C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi trong nh\u00e2n gian \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u1ed5, v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n, t\u00ecnh, t\u00f9, t\u1eed, danh l\u1ee3i, v\u00e0 s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c. V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u201cc\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/strong>\u201d v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, v\u01b0\u1ee3t ngo\u00e0i c\u1ea3 nhu c\u1ea7u sinh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n sa l\u1ea7y v\u00e0o n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u201cc\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em>\u201d \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tham, s\u00e2n, si, m\u1ea1n, nghi, t\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn m\u00e0 ra th\u00e0nh m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ebft lu\u00f4n.<\/p>\n V\u1eady h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n ra c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5, ch\u00ednh trong tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh v\u1eady. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea7n m\u00f2 m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00e2m d\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh cho m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 khi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m t\u1edbi lu\u00f4n \u0111i.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ebfu x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh theo nh\u1eefng chu\u1eabn m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u201cb\u00e0n lui\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh \u0111i. V\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac do ng\u0169 d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u0169i, so v\u1edbi c\u00e1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ng\u0169 d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u1eafm. V\u00ec r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea5u tranh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p n\u00e0y. V\u00ec r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 khoa h\u1ecdc, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft vui ch\u01a1i gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed cho khoay kh\u1ecfa \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 d\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1eb9t c\u1ee9ng, b\u1edfi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ef1c \u0111oan l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n ra, c\u00e1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n Th\u1eadt ra s\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi. V\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u201cchi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u\u201d v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u00f4i, th\u00ec v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u. Do \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n, l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u201cchi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u\u201d v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n V\u1eady \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111au kh\u1ed5 r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 v\u00ec sao ch\u00fang ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u \u0111au kh\u1ed5 kia, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n V\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00ec hai c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u1eb7p k\u00e8 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0m n\u00ean h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00ec th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt lu\u00f4n cu\u1ed9n v\u00e0o nhau, nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n l\u1ed1c cu\u1ed1n ph\u0103ng t\u1eebng m\u00e3nh \u0111\u1eddi th\u1eadt nghi\u1ec7t ng\u00e3. V\u00e0 do n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi kh\u1ed5. M\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f2n, l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, n\u00ean khi n\u00f3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ebft theo n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 c\u0169ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. N\u00ean ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 m\u00f9 m\u1ecbt qu\u00e1, v\u00e0 ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 hoang mang ch\u1ea3 bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u ra. R\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 suy ngh\u0129 ho\u00e0i th\u00e0nh b\u1ec7nh lu\u00f4n. V\u00e0 khi c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh tinh th\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u1eadp t\u1edbi, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a qu\u00e1 \u0111i.<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y, ch\u00ednh d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00f4 t\u1eadn trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5, th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac qu\u00e1 tr\u1eddi lu\u00f4n.<\/p>\n V\u1eady cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp l\u00e0m sao, \u0111\u1ec3 tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng co gi\u00e3n \u0111\u00e0n h\u1ed3i cao nh\u1ea5t, th\u00f4ng qua bi k\u1ecbch t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0 khi \u0111ang n\u1eb1m trong bi k\u1ecbch r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u201cb\u1ecf xu\u1ed1ng\u201d c\u00e1i tham v\u1ecdng chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd qua th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7 l\u00e3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng, l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch th\u00e1o g\u1ee1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m sao ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u201cc\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Cho n\u00ean trong chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u201cc\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ea7u\u201d qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ph\u1ee5 tr\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 tay.<\/p>\n V\u1eady b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 duy\u00ean, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu h\u1ebft duy\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 an \u1ee7i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111au kh\u1ed5, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec5n h\u00f3a t\u1eeb \u0111au kh\u1ed5 th\u00e0nh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 bao nhi\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 v\u00f4 minh trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u1eadn, cho n\u00ean trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 xem x\u00e9t tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u00ec h\u00e3y t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y khai th\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 v\u00ec sao ch\u00fang ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ho\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1eefa? L\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111i gi\u1eefa hai c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1eadt v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e3i. V\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1i sinh m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 h\u1ebft. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 “bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/em>” c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i sinh m\u1ec7nh \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng th\u00eam. V\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ea5t hay c\u00f2n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, l\u00e0 \u201c\u00fd ch\u00ed ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/strong>\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u00f4i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf \u0111i \u201cc\u00e1i \u00fd ch\u00ed ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7\u201d \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i th\u00ec m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd qua, m\u00e0 kh\u1ed1i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t kia th\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u.\u00a0<\/p>\n Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf xu\u1ed1ng \u201cc\u00e1i ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7\u201d \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i, h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a kh\u1ed1i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t kia lu\u00f4n. C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111i xa m\u00e3i ngo\u00e0i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y n\u1eefa. V\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 gi\u1ea3, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3. C\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt r\u1ed3i. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e0u nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n V\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, th\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. S\u1edf d\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean h\u1ecd \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ng\u1eadp tr\u00e0n, l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Hay nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5c v\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u00e1nh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i b\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ee5c v\u00e0ng kia c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec, th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. V\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng v\u1eady, n\u00f3 \u0111ang \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb khi m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u1ebft c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3. Hay n\u00f3i kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch quan, trong vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 kh\u00e1c nhau, th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1c nhau t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n V\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tinh th\u1ea7n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi l\u1ef1c h\u00fat c\u1ee7a v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u201cb\u1ea3ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng<\/strong>\u201d n\u00e0y cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00f4m nay, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u201cb\u1ea3ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng\u201d trong tay m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ra s\u00e0i cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 xong.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u1ebft. V\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1eb1ng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u00ec \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00f4ng hoa, n\u1edf ra \u00e2m th\u1ea7m trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. Do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng n\u0103ng thanh l\u1ecdc tinh th\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u. V\u1eady \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1eafng thua nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n V\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu kh\u1ed1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng, th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng t\u1ea1o nghi\u1ec7p kh\u1ed5 \u0111au th\u00eam. M\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y xem n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ph\u1ee5 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u0103ng b\u00f3 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00f4i. C\u00e1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang thu\u1ed1c k\u00eca. V\u00e0 khi h\u1ebft b\u1ec7nh r\u1ed3i th\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7n ra th\u01a1m ng\u00e1t m\u1ed9t v\u00f9ng. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y vi\u00ean ng\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 trong t\u00fai \u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i\u2026<\/p>\n Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng mau m\u1eafn Nh\u01b0 \u00dd C\u00e1t T\u01b0\u1eddng.\u00a0V\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng s\u1ebd t\u1ecfa ra kh\u1eafp nh\u00e2n gian!<\/p>\n \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026.<\/p>\n \u00a0\u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecf ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u00e9!<\/p><\/div>\n