{"id":17776,"date":"2022-04-07T10:14:12","date_gmt":"2022-04-07T03:14:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/2022\/04\/07\/mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia\/"},"modified":"2022-04-07T10:14:12","modified_gmt":"2022-04-07T03:14:12","slug":"mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/2022\/04\/07\/mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"tt-detail box_qc_cen1\">\n            \u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f9ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, l\u00e0m c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, lu\u00f4n qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u sai m\u00e0 s\u1eeda, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy, lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hy sinh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ee3i \u00edch, an vui cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cao \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ed9t \u201c\u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd ngh\u0129a\u201d.        <\/h3>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"f-detail box_f\">\n        \t<!--\n\n<div class=\"box_f_qc\">\n            \t<img decoding=\"async\" style=\"width:100%; height:auto;\" src=\"http:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Chuong-I-Lich-su-va-hoan-canh-Tay-Tang.png\"\/>\n            <\/div>\n\n--><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align:center\"><em><a class=\"pic_zoom\" href=\"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia.jpg\"><\/a><\/em><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align:justify\"><em>Ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1u sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi<br \/>S\u1ed1ng cho \u00fd ngh\u0129a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi vinh quang<br \/>Th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng<br \/>S\u1ebb chia l\u1ee3i \u00edch an khang gi\u00fap \u0111\u1eddi\u2026\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eadt v\u1eady! M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, khi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea5u r\u00f5, th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5m th\u00eda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng sau:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi<br \/>\u0110\u1ec1u do mang an l\u1ea1c cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c<br \/>T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u00f3 ra tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi<br \/>\u0110\u1ec1u do mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ri\u00eang minh\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>B\u1edfi v\u00ec:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>Ta sinh ra bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo l\u1eafng<br \/>T\u1eeb m\u1eb9 cha b\u00e1c s\u0129 c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<br \/>Lo m\u1eb9 tr\u00f2n con vu\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfe b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<br \/>\u0110\u1ebfn kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<br \/>\u01a0n ngh\u0129a tr\u1ea3 ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng lo th\u1ee5 h\u01b0\u1edfng<br \/>C\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c c\u00f9ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1ecb tha nh\u00e2n\u00a0<br \/>L\u00f2ng khoan dung t\u00f9y h\u1ef7 m\u00e3i chuy\u00ean c\u1ea7n<br \/>Lu\u00f4n chia s\u1ebb n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e2m m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00fang v\u1eady!<\/p>\n<p>Ta n\u1ee3 cu\u00f4c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, t\u1eeb c\u01a1m \u0103n, \u00e1o m\u1eb7c, nh\u00e0 \u1edf, cho \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00fat, t\u1eadp, s\u00e1ch, \u0111\u00e8n\u2026 Cha m\u1eb9, anh ch\u1ecb em, b\u00e0 con th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ta, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 ta, cho ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean trong ph\u1eadn s\u1ef1, t\u1eeb l\u00fac c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, cho \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Ta c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed3i t\u00ednh k\u1ef7 l\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m, c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, cho tha nh\u00e2n? Nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a? R\u1ed3i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y lo \u0111\u1ee7 \u0103n, m\u1eb7c, s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f4ng \u01a1n \u1ea5y to l\u1edbn bi\u1ebft ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o!\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHai tay b\u01b0ng b\u00e1t c\u01a1m \u0111\u1ea7y, d\u1ebbo th\u01a1m t\u1eebng h\u1ea1t, \u0111\u1eafng cay mu\u00f4n ph\u1ea7n\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bao nhi\u00eau c\u00f4ng \u01a1n \u1ea5y, ta kh\u00f4ng lo \u0111\u1ec1n \u01a1n, \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1eafc n\u1ee3 su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 m\u1eafc n\u1ee3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mang ti\u1ebfng <em>\u201cb\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu\u201d<\/em> hay <em>\u201cvong \u00e2n b\u1ed9i ngh\u0129a\u201d<\/em>!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng <em>\u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7\u201d<\/em> lo cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 lo \u0111\u1ec1n \u01a1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc n\u1ee3 r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng lo tr\u1ea3 s\u1edbm, th\u00ec n\u1ee3 s\u1ebd sinh l\u1eddi, c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 c\u1ea5p s\u1ed1 nh\u00e2n l\u00ean, ta tr\u1ea3 h\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ebfp kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9i s\u1eebng, l\u00e0m th\u00e2n t\u00f4i m\u1ecdi, c\u1ef1c kh\u1ed5, t\u1ee7i nh\u1ee5c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Trong Kinh T\u0103ng Nh\u1ea5t A H\u00e0m, Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y: <em>\u201cAi bi\u1ebft \u01a1n th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u01a1n nh\u1ecf c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean, hu\u1ed1ng chi \u01a1n l\u1edbn, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y d\u00f9 c\u00e1ch xa ta ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m hay tr\u0103m ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m, m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng xa ta. V\u00ec l\u1ebd \u1ea5y ta lu\u00f4n ca t\u1ee5ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, tr\u1ea3 \u01a1n, th\u00ec \u01a1n l\u1edbn c\u0169ng qu\u00ean hu\u1ed1ng chi \u01a1n nh\u1ecf. K\u1ebb \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u1ea7n ta, ta kh\u00f4ng g\u1ea7n k\u1ebb \u1ea5y. K\u1ebb \u1ea5y d\u00f9 m\u1eb7c ph\u00e1p y v\u00e0 \u1edf ngay b\u00ean tr\u00e1i hay b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ta \u0111i n\u1eefa. C\u0169ng v\u1eabn xa ta\u201d.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00f9ng c\u1ed9ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ta c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00ean ta mang ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng \u0111ang l\u00e0 mang ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1ea1i cho ta.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1t s\u1eafng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec trong v\u00f2ng hai th\u00e1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 hai n\u0103m c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(Dale Carnergie)<\/p>\n<p>Tri\u1ebft gia Alfred Adler n\u00f3i:<em> \u201cK\u1ebb n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1eddi, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.<\/em><br \/>\u00a0<br \/>\u0110\u00fang v\u1eady! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf <em>\u201cb\u1ea3n ng\u00e3\u201d <\/em>qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, khi <em>\u201cb\u1ea3n ng\u00e3\u201d<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Xem ta l\u00e0 h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi ta, ph\u1ea3i c\u00fai lu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ta!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf, lo vun v\u00e9n t\u01b0 ri\u00eang, hay c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, danh l\u1ee3i, cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. D\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn xem nh\u1eb9 vi\u1ec7c chung, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7t h\u1ea1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5c, hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, t\u00ecm ho\u1eb7c d\u1ef1ng l\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00eau x\u1ea5u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ea7u che c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, oan tr\u00e1i, h\u1eadn th\u00f9 x\u1ea3y ra.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy, trong khi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ecf d\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n l\u00ean, l\u1ea5n \u00e1t h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng hoa th\u01a1m, tr\u00e1i ng\u1ecdt, nguy h\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9c, h\u1ebft ph\u01b0\u1edbc c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, nh\u01b0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi, r\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng minh. \u1ede \u0111\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ta nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu ta ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1ebfn ta, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ta, l\u1eafm l\u00fac c\u00f2n h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 trao cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201c\u00dd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n nhi\u1ec7t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d <\/em>&#8211; R\u00f4bins\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ed1n li\u1ebfng, hay quy\u1ec1n uy, danh v\u1ecb, m\u00e0 ta ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi h\u1ecfi th\u0103m ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi giao ti\u1ebfp, hay khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, l\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, v\u00ec khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m m\u1ebfn, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 ta.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft <em>\u201ct\u00f9y h\u1ef7\u201d<\/em> tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cao \u0111\u1eb9p, \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i \u00edch, ph\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c, t\u1ea1o th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t n\u1eefa. Hay l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ta kh\u00f4ng hao t\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u chi, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00ean g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 do n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 \u0103n \u1edf, \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf, bi\u1ebft khi\u00eam cung, l\u1eafng nghe, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta. Th\u00e1nh hi\u1ec1n c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y:<em> \u201c\u0110\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi do kh\u00f4ng mong c\u1ea7u, Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi do kh\u00f4ng v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d <\/em>hay <em>\u201cTrong t\u00e2m khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n l\u00e0 C\u00f4ng, ngo\u00e0i h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c\u201d (Ph\u00e1p B\u1ea3o \u0110\u00e0n Kinh, L\u1ee5c T\u1ed5).\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady ta h\u1ea1 <em>\u201cb\u1ea3n ng\u00e3\u201d<\/em> xu\u1ed1ng, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, v\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n<em> \u201cv\u00f4 ng\u00e3, v\u1ecb tha\u201d <\/em>s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft lo <em>\u201csinh t\u1ed3n\u201d<\/em> v\u00e0 <em>\u201ch\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5\u201d<\/em> n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m <em>\u201c\u00edt mu\u1ed1n, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7\u201d<\/em> \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea5u tranh hay mong c\u1ea7u v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi, v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa. S\u1ed1ng <em>\u201cv\u1ecb tha nh\u00e2n\u201d<\/em>, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 <em>\u201c\u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\u201d<\/em> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9c. Khi c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9c r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ta s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u00ecnh d\u1ecb, h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn t\u00f4n k\u00ednh, qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb, uy quy\u1ec1n, hay ph\u1ea3i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7u, th\u1ecb uy!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng bao dung, \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, <em>\u201ct\u00e2m nh\u01b0 th\u00e1i h\u01b0, l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u00e2u sa gi\u1edbi\u201d<\/em> s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m vui, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed, hay so \u0111o t\u00ednh to\u00e1n, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady dung ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 th\u1ea5y to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u hay, \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t, qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a <em>\u201ct\u00e2m t\u1ed1t\u201d <\/em>c\u0169ng h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh <em>\u201ct\u1ed1t\u201d (v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui c\u1ea3nh ch\u1eb3ng \u0111eo s\u1ea7u)<\/em> hay bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh <em>\u201cb\u00e0i h\u1ecdc\u201d<\/em> cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, trong s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, s\u1ebb chia. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, theo Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, t\u00f9y theo \u201ct\u00e2m t\u1ed1t\u201d m\u00e0 <em>\u201cchi\u00eau c\u1ea3m\u201d <\/em>nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u <em>\u201ct\u1ed1t\u201d.\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cNi\u1ec1m vui lu\u00f4n \u0111i c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi khoan dung, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n s\u00e1nh vai c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef ch\u1eef t\u00edn, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 lu\u00f4n song h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn lu\u00f4n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n b\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng tr\u00e1i tim\u201d. (MP Bes Vi\u1ec7t Nam)<\/em>. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m g\u00ec c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd cho ta ni\u1ec1m vui, th\u00eam <em>\u201c\u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\u201d.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f9ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, l\u00e0m c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, lu\u00f4n qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u sai m\u00e0 s\u1eeda, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy, lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hy sinh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ee3i \u00edch, an vui cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cao \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ed9t <em>\u201c\u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd ngh\u0129a\u201d<\/em>. Tuy th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd b\u00f9 tr\u1eeb x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng: C\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y: <em>\u201cThi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d V\u00f2ng tay m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o, L\u00e0 \u00f4m v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 gom v\u00e0o b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, sau \u0111\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 uy t\u00edn s\u1ebd t\u0103ng, m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n<p><em>S\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<br \/>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y<br \/>\u0110\u1eddi \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e3i \u0111ong \u0111\u1ea7y<br \/>X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u an l\u1ea1c\u2026<\/em><br \/>\u00a0<br \/>Ph\u00e1p Hoa Nam \u00dac, R\u1eb1m th\u00e1ng Ch\u1ea1p, \u0110inh D\u1eadu.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align:right\"><strong><span style=\"color:#008000\">B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft: <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/vuonhoaphatgiao.com\/goc-suy-ngam\/mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia\/\"><span style=\"color:#008000\">&#8220;M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a&#8221; <\/span><\/a><br \/><span style=\"color:#008000\">Th\u00edch Vi\u00ean Th\u00e0nh &#8211; <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/vuonhoaphatgiao.com\"><span style=\"color:#008000\">V\u01b0\u1eddn hoa Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o<\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n<div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>[ad_2]<br \/>\n<br \/>Ngu\u1ed3n : <a href=\"https:\/\/vuonhoaphatgiao.com\/goc-suy-ngam\/mot-cuoc-doi-co-y-nghia\/\">Source link  vuonhoaphatgiao.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[ad_1] \u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f9ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, l\u00e0m c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, lu\u00f4n qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u sai\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17145,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[204],"tags":[],"td_series":[],"class_list":["post-17776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-suy-ngam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17776"},{"taxonomy":"td_series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/td_series?post=17776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}