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  13\/09\/2012 02:27:00 Ch\u00e2n Ph\u00e1p \u0110\u0103ng<\/a>\u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc: 3675          http:\/\/tamhoc.org\/wp-admin\/Thaidobaodung_files\/like.htmlC\u1ee1 ch\u1eef: <\/a><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 (attitude) c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m phong c\u00e1ch, phong th\u00e1i, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y b\u1edfi c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy, m\u00e0 suy t\u01b0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u00f5 r\u1ebft tr\u00ean th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 th\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. M\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u01b0u \u00e1i, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, bao dung, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00e0y 1 th\u00e1ng 9 n\u0103m 2012<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecb k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0o, m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. C\u1ed1 nhi\u00ean, khi \u0111au \u1ed1m b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111i th\u0103m b\u00e1c s\u0129, b\u1edfi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb. Khi nghe m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y hay tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u kia th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p hay ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, xem th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e1c s\u0129 v\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c men. H\u00e3y thong th\u1ea3 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f2 x\u00e9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u00e2n t\u00e2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f3 g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra trong t\u00e2m c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi th\u00e2n. B\u1ee5t d\u1ea1y: \u201cBa nghi\u1ec7p, \u00fd l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n. \u2018Tam gi\u1edbi duy t\u00e2m\u2019 ngh\u0129a ba c\u00f5i l\u00e0 d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi, s\u1eafc gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1eafc gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eeb t\u00e2m. \u2018V\u1ea1n ph\u00e1p duy th\u1ee9c\u2019 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb t\u00e0ng th\u1ee9c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

       D\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ham mu\u1ed1n, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi lo\u00e0i trong \u1ea5y c\u00f3 lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. S\u1eafc gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, \u00e2m thanh m\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00f4 s\u1eafc gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u00e2m ba, l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng… Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t suy t\u01b0 gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nong n\u00f3ng, b\u1ea5t an trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i. B\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean, m\u1ea1ch tim \u0111\u1eadp m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, m\u00e1u huy\u1ebft k\u00edch th\u00edch ch\u1ea3y m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n li\u1ec1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t suy t\u01b0 tha th\u1ee9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u1ecfe kho\u1eafn trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, b\u1edfi tr\u00e1i tim, m\u00e1u huy\u1ebft, th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00e0 t\u1ebf b\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi suy t\u01b0, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

       Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 (attitude) c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m phong c\u00e1ch, phong th\u00e1i, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y b\u1edfi c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy, m\u00e0 suy t\u01b0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u00f5 r\u1ebft tr\u00ean th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 th\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. M\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u01b0u \u00e1i, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, bao dung, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

       \u01afu \u00e1i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng l\u00e2n m\u1eabn. C\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ea1o ra n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0m cho tr\u00e1i tim b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, m\u00e1u huy\u1ebft b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 an l\u00e0nh th\u00ec t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        C\u1edfi m\u1edf l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean \u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ea bai. C\u1edfi m\u1edf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e1ch suy t\u01b0, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 g\u00ec. M\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh an th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n cho n\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, bu\u00f4ng th\u01b0. C\u1edfi m\u1edf ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p v\u00ec v\u1eady n\u00ean c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn, c\u00e1i nghe th\u1eadt v\u00f4 t\u01b0, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Bao dung l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u00f4m \u1ea5p c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Bao dung xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1edfi m\u1edf, kh\u00f4ng phe ph\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n th\u00f9, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n thi\u1ec1n sinh b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e2y linden. M\u1ed7i khi c\u00e2y n\u00e0y n\u1edf hoa l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec ngh\u1eb9t th\u1edf. V\u00e0o kh\u00f3a th\u00e1ng s\u00e1u n\u0103m nay, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia v\u00e0o gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e0m c\u1ee7a Lang sinh ho\u1ea1t ngay d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y linden n\u01a1i X\u00f3m Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Th\u00e1ng s\u00e1u l\u00e0 th\u00e1ng m\u00e0 hoa linden n\u1edf r\u1ed9, th\u01a1m n\u1ed3ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e2y linden. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n c\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n g\u1eedi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u01b0u \u00e1i, bao dung, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e2y. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i th\u1ea7m b\u1eb1ng suy t\u01b0: \u201cC\u00e2y \u01a1i! T\u00f4i th\u00edch c\u00e2y. T\u00f4i m\u1ebfn c\u00e2y. C\u00e1m \u01a1n c\u00e2y!…\u201d V\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y trong kh\u00f3a tu, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y h\u1ebft b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi hoa linden. Khi b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00f3m ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch th\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

         Bao dung l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng. V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i n\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1n cho n\u00ean c\u01a1n d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe. H\u1ec7 mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch t\u1ed1t do \u0111\u00f3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ea5n hoa, c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc l\u1ea1, c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o vi khu\u1ea9n trong kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bao dung, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00ec m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00ean \u1ed5n, m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00e0ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u00e0ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, c\u00e0ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 b\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

       Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u1eabn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y kh\u00f4ng tin Lang m\u00e0 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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