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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nPh\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i trong m\u1ed9t khe n\u00fai kh\u00f4. Nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 M\u00ea s\u1ea3ng v\u1edbi c\u01a1n s\u1ed1t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u01a1n s\u1ed1t. -Nh\u1eefng T\u1eeb Ng\u1eef Th\u00e1nh Thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Patrul Rinpoche-<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c trong cung c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 xa l\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o ngay g\u1ed1c r\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 hay lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh s\u1ea3n n\u00f3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ec1 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n, t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, th\u1eadt c\u1ea7n y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y \u0111ang b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 kh\u00e1c sinh kh\u1edfi v\u1edbi si m\u00ea th\u1ebf \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed5 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. C\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c tham d\u1ee5c, th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t, t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, ghen t\u1ef5, v\u00e0 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i. Qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u1ea7n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng sai l\u1ea7m, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111ang ch\u1ed3ng th\u00eam v\u00e0o cung c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb tham d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e2m b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y gai, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ra v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y kim, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 xa r\u1eddi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u1ea5y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y k\u00eau g\u1ecdi cho vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u00fd tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec t\u1eadp trung tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t v\u00e0 to\u00e0n gi\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0 Ph\u00e1p X\u1ee9ng n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin [c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh] trong \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb b\u1ecf<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u1ef1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf tham d\u1ee5c, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, v\u00e0 v.v\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Qua vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u1ea5y trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n [Th\u00ec] kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ea1i.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi qu\u00fd v\u1ecb th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i \u2013 v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 – sinh kh\u1edfi t\u1eeb c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u sai l\u1ea7m, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 si m\u00ea nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00dd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu tr\u00ean l\u00fd lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u00eam th\u1eaft [do v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng] v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec t\u1eadp trung tr\u00ean t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh qua thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n. Nh\u01b0 Nguy\u1ec7t X\u1ee9ng, m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a Long Th\u1ecd v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Thi\u00ean n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ea5y v\u1edbi t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sinh kh\u1edfi t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1n s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu (c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e0nh gi\u1ea3 du gi\u00e0 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u00e1nh Thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t v\u00f2ng sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 n\u00e1t.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi g\u1ed1c r\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e2y c\u1ed1i b\u1ecb c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e0nh to, nh\u00e1nh nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0 l\u00e1 b\u1ecb kh\u00f4 h\u00e9o. Trong c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i b\u1ecb ti\u00eau m\u00f2n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c x\u00f3a b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 – h\u00e0nh gi\u1ea3 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 – Long Th\u1ecd, Th\u00e1nh Thi\u00ean, Nguy\u1ec7t X\u1ee9ng, v\u00e0 Ph\u00e1p X\u1ee9ng \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ed3ng th\u00eam [do v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng] l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f2n m\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5y. T\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00eam th\u1eaft \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng qua kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n v\u00e0 qua l\u00fd lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00c0M TH\u1ebe N\u00c0O \u0110\u1ec2 THI\u1ec0N QU\u00c1N \u0110\u1ea6Y \u0110\u1ee6 \u00dd NGH\u0128A<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1eadt thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a sai l\u1ea7m th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n, vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00ec t\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, cho d\u00f9 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb l\u00e0 th\u00e2m s\u00e2u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c r\u00fat lui t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o ch\u00e2n l\u00fd. Qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 si m\u00ea d\u1eabn d\u1eaft ch\u00fang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u1ea5y \u0111ang kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00ec ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch sai l\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con r\u1eafn \u1edf ngay ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda, th\u00ec ch\u1eb1ng l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y xanh \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0; thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con r\u1eafn b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda. Trong c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 do nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o n\u00ean. Ch\u1ec9 r\u00fat lui t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u1ecfi suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec hay suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ed1c r\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean c\u0103n b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u1ea3m \u01a1n r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh ph\u00eda c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng qu\u00fd v\u1ecb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m y\u1ebfu d\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang g\u00e2y n\u00ean. V\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, n\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u1ecb l\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ef1 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1edbng qua l\u00fd lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n BA C\u00c1CH C\u1ee6A VI\u1ec6C TH\u1ea4Y NH\u1eeeNG \u0110\u1ed0I T\u01af\u1ee2NG<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 ba ki\u1ec3u m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a thao t\u00e1c tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1- <\/em>T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 si m\u00ea \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 2- <\/em>Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 3- <\/em>Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu hay s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00e0.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ngay c\u1ea3 khi qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu, c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 si m\u00ea l\u00e0m, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu, c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c h\u00e0nh ho\u1ea1t, v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong c\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 ba. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1c h\u1ecda m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111ang l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh l\u1ed7i l\u1eabm n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee7 ti\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c si m\u00ea. S\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb c\u01b0\u1edbp trong th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 sau khi k\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o r\u1eebng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi si m\u00ea \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb s\u1ebd nh\u1ed5 g\u1ed1c nh\u1eefng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00eam l\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang th\u1eadt c\u00f3. R\u1ed3i th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o kh\u00e1c \u2013 tham d\u1ee5c, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, ghen t\u1ef5, hung h\u0103ng, v\u00e0 v.v\u2026c\u00f3 si m\u00ea nh\u01b0 g\u1ed1c r\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. Khi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00fai gi\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng [nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o] c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb n\u1eefa. R\u1ed3i th\u00ec s\u1ef1 sinh v\u00e0 t\u00e1i sinh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t trong v\u00f2ng sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i b\u1ecb d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb (kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng, v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n n\u00e0y v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng cho qu\u00fd v\u1ecb, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ch\u00e2n l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng sai ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. Khi qu\u00fd v\u1ecb th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n vi\u1ec7c qu\u00fd v\u1ecb th\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0 th\u00e1o g\u1edf kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft cung c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0. N\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eadp tan ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi qu\u00fd v\u1ecb. Nh\u01b0ng khi qu\u00fd v\u1ecb th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb x\u00f3a b\u1ecf, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Quan t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1- <\/em>Si m\u00ea \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i (hay t\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u00eam v\u00e0o) t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, x\u1ea5u x\u00ed, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 2- <\/em>S\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn tham d\u1ee5c, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, ghen t\u1ef5, hung h\u0103ng, v\u00e0 v.v\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 3- <\/em>Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec5m \u00f4 b\u1edfi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 4- <\/em>Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi [nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o] n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 sinh v\u00e0 t\u00e1i sinh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t trong v\u00f2ng sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i v\u00e0 l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc trong r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 5- <\/em>X\u00f3a b\u1ecf si m\u00ea l\u00e0m ti\u00eau m\u00f2n s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c; \u0111i\u1ec3u n\u00e0y c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t tham d\u1ee5c, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, ghen t\u1ef5, hung h\u0103ng, v.v\u2026 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec5m \u00f4 b\u1edfi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m, do th\u1ebf k\u1ebft th\u00fac s\u1ef1 sinh v\u00e0 t\u00e1i sinh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t trong v\u00f2ng sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 6- <\/em>Tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u00edch t\u1eeb quy\u1ec3n How to See Yourself as You Really Are c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1t Lai L\u1ea1t Ma Th\u1ea5u Hi\u1ec3u S\u1ef1 Th\u1eadt L\u00e0 C\u1ea7n Thi\u1ebft 29\/03\/2015 00:41:00 \u0110\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1t Lai L\u1ea1t Ma, Tu\u1ec7 Uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef\u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc: 1914 http:\/\/tamhoc.org\/dulieu\/giaophap\/duyenkhoi\/Thauhieusuthatlacanthiet_files\/like.htmlC\u1ee1 ch\u1eef: Ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ed1ng\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1927,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[66],"tags":[],"td_series":[],"class_list":["post-1926","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-duyen-khoi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1926","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1926"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1926\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1928,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1926\/revisions\/1928"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1927"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1926"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1926"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1926"},{"taxonomy":"td_series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/td_series?post=1926"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
Tu\u1ec7 Uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"