{"id":7180,"date":"2020-12-02T06:00:47","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T23:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamhoc.org\/2020\/12\/02\/vai-tuong-va-tinh-nhieu-mat-cua-ban-nga\/"},"modified":"2020-12-02T06:00:47","modified_gmt":"2020-12-01T23:00:47","slug":"vai-tuong-va-tinh-nhieu-mat-cua-ban-nga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/2020\/12\/02\/vai-tuong-va-tinh-nhieu-mat-cua-ban-nga\/","title":{"rendered":"Vai Tu\u1ed3ng V\u00e0 T\u00ednh Nhi\u1ec1u M\u1eb7t C\u1ee7a B\u1ea3n Ng\u00e3"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Vai Tu\u1ed3ng V\u00e0 T\u00ednh Nhi\u1ec1u M\u1eb7t C\u1ee7a B\u1ea3n Ng\u00e3<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, n\u00ean n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ea1y \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo\u1ea1i ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng mang h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n<\/span>, v\u00ec lo\u1ea1i ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn<\/span>, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee3i khen<\/span>, kh\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c, hay \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn<\/span> l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tho\u00e1t ly<\/span> kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>; m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ra<\/span> b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u00f3 hai chi\u1ec1u: m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i v\u1eeba s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> s\u1ee3 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u1edf d\u1ea1ng ch\u00ea bai hay b\u00e0i b\u00e1c<\/span>, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> h\u1ecd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1<\/span> cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> \u1edf trong h\u1ecd. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quan t\u00e2m<\/span>. T\u00ednh nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span> v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span> n\u00e0y ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span>, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5y tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m<\/span>, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u<\/span>. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> \u2013 t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 xem m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1 t\u00ednh kia \u2013 \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>, d\u00f9 cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/span> (\u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t!\u201d) hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span> (\u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ch\u1eb3ng ra g\u00ec!\u201d). \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed7i kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t so v\u1edbi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u<\/span>, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb1ng sau kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> mang t\u00ednh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span> l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m mong \u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin, lu\u00f4n ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i<\/span>, \u01b0u vi\u1ec7t<\/span> h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb th\u1ea5p h\u00e8n<\/span>, thua s\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> r\u1ea5t nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span> t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i<\/span> h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng dao \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> gi\u1eefa hai th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c<\/span> n\u00e0y: c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> t\u1ef1 t\u00f4n v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span> t\u1ef1 ti, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c<\/span> v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng hay m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t<\/span> \u1edf trong ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0: khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t<\/span> hay thua k\u00e9m<\/span> ai th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n.
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M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ng\u1ee3i khen<\/span> hay th\u00e1n ph\u1ee5c<\/span> t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m<\/span> t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m<\/span> ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span>, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span>. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb con \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng<\/span> l\u1ed1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span> n\u00e0y, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1n c\u1ed1t ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1c vai di\u1ec5n ti\u00eau<\/span> c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 n\u00e9t h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u201cdi\u1ec5n vi\u00ean\u201d b\u1ecb ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i l\u00ean b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i kh\u1ed5 \u0111au s\u00e2u n\u1eb7ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span>, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111ang v\u01b0\u01a1n m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng d\u1eady, v\u00ec n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u0169 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o th\u00eam nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> g\u00e2y n\u00ean t\u1ed9i \u00e1c<\/span> ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft danh ti\u1ebfng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y tai ti\u1ebfng<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cH\u00e3y cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a\u201d. C\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e1i qu\u00e1<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t vai di\u1ec5n r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/span> l\u00e0 vai l\u00e0m n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m<\/span> m\u00e0 vai n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i<\/span>, hay s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> \u201cc\u1ee7a T\u00f4i\u201d, \u0111\u1ebfn \u201cT\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d. T\u1ef1 xem m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> nh\u01b0 than v\u00e3n<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m<\/span>, b\u1ecb l\u00e0m nh\u1ee5c, v.v. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean<\/span> khi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1n cho<\/span> m\u00ecnh vai tr\u00f2<\/span> l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/span>, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129<\/span> chuy\u00ean khoa t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/span> t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> cho nh\u1eefng \u201cv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1\u201d c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0m n\u00ean t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch<\/span> n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. D\u00f9 cho kh\u00f4ng<\/span> ai mu\u1ed1n nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 trong \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, k\u1ec3 \u0111i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1ecb cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a cho c\u00e1i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u1ede v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n<\/span>, nh\u1eefng vai tu\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> m\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d. \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 anh mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 anh s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p<\/span> ng\u1ea7m m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Tuy v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3ng tu\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00e1c vai tu\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0i l\u00e2u, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. V\u1eady khi c\u00e1c vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y g\u00ec? Kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p<\/span>, b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec che \u0111\u1eady<\/span> c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span> \u0111\u1ea5y: \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i khi b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ecf kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng vai tu\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n<\/span>, c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u1ed1i kh\u1ed5 \u0111au s\u00e2u n\u1eb7ng t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>, c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u \u0111ang b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf<\/span> n\u00ean gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> d\u1eef v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e1o g\u1ee1<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1ea1n n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span> s\u00e2u k\u00edn v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u0103n b\u1ea3n<\/span> b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t \u00e1i t\u00ecnh\u201d h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia hay \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7n h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia trong b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan<\/span> g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng<\/span> h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u00e0o. Ti\u1ebfng T\u00e2y Ban Nha l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef<\/span> ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh<\/span> trung th\u1ef1c<\/span> nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng: \u201cTe quiero\u201d v\u1eeba c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201canh y\u00eau em\u201d v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201canh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 em\u201d. C\u00f2n t\u1eeb \u201cTe amo\u201d ch\u1ec9 mang thu\u1ea7n ngh\u0129a \u201canh y\u00eau em\u201d th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u00edt khi<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> c\u0169ng hi\u1ebfm hoi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.
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Khi v\u0103n h\u00f3a<\/span> b\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c ph\u00e1t<\/span> tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n minh<\/span> c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e2n h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh<\/span> nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3: k\u1ebb cai tr\u1ecb, gi\u00e1o s\u0129<\/span>, binh l\u00ednh, n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n<\/span>, nh\u00e0 bu\u00f4n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng,\u2026 H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng<\/span> giai c\u1ea5p<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh. Ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft l\u00e0 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span>. N\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch<\/span> ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai trong c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2<\/span> nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2<\/span>: N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay \u00edt ra l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ebfm hoi nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> hay Ch\u00faa Jesus l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p, giai c\u1ea5p x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> r\u1eb1ng khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Ng\u00e0i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> r\u1eb1ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1m<\/span> b\u1ee3 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m che m\u1edd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n chi\u1ebfu soi \u1edf trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u00e0y nay, c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 b\u1edbt kh\u1eaft khe h\u01a1n, b\u1edbt b\u1ecb quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span>. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> b\u1edfi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ecb giao ph\u00f3<\/span> m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111i k\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch<\/span>. Th\u1eadt ra, trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 g\u00ec, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 g\u00ec, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ai.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fac m\u1eebng<\/span> khi nghe m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea5y th\u00fa th\u1eadt<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span>, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ai n\u1eefa. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean<\/span> khi h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i: \u201c\u00d4ng b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span>, v\u00e0 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t?\u201d. T\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u<\/span> h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, xem s\u1ef1 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span> \u1ea5y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec. V\u00ec c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng<\/span> bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span>. B\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span> l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng<\/span> bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i n\u00ean bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng<\/span> bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? Hay n\u00f3i<\/span> kh\u00e1c \u0111i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> s\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00f4i \u0111i t\u00ecm ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh qua suy t\u01b0? Khi b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean hay c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea5t th\u1ea7n b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Khi b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng<\/span> bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> y\u00ean b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf<\/span>, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh dung<\/span> ra. D\u00f9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span> ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.
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D\u0129 nhi\u00ean<\/span> l\u00e0 tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t<\/span> hay tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> \u2013 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c<\/span>, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c<\/span> \u2013 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh<\/span> ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> g\u00ec tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3 chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> l\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u1ed9t vai di\u1ec5n hay kh\u00f4ng? Khi \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c<\/span>. Khi b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai g\u00ec, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 vai di\u1ec5n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u00fat kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do<\/span>, tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi vai di\u1ec5n. Khi b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi vai di\u1ec5n, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu h\u00e0nh x\u1eed b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean thi\u1ebfu uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e1n vai di\u1ec5n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng<\/span> v\u1edbi vai di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb b\u00e1c s\u0129<\/span> m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi vai di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n hay m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p<\/span> l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u00edt kh\u1eaft khe h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a<\/span> c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> hay vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c l\u1eadp s\u1eb5n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span>, xa l\u1ea1<\/span> v\u00e0 phi nh\u00e2n<\/span> t\u00ednh. Nh\u1eefng vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c l\u1eadp s\u1eb5n \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c<\/span> b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh \u1edf trong \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef trong m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc nh\u01b0 qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i, gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i<\/span>, hay c\u00e1c t\u1eadp \u0111o\u00e0n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh<\/span> nh\u1eefng vai di\u1ec5n. Quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh qua m\u1ed9t vai di\u1ec5n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n m\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh: vai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp trung l\u01b0u<\/span> (v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh<\/span> d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y), vai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1eafn r\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7y nam t\u00ednh, vai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> \u0111a t\u00ecnh<\/span>, vai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 \u201cl\u1eadp d\u1ecb\u201d, ho\u1eb7c vai m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 \u201cv\u0103n h\u00f3a\u201d (vai n\u00e0y kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/span> \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u), nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00edch ph\u00f4 di\u1ec5n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u1ecdc<\/span>, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c<\/span>, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt,\u2026 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta khoe m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1eb9p hay m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n. K\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/span>. Khi b\u1ea1n di\u1ec5n vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb<\/span> v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span>. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean<\/span>, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui s\u1ed1ng trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9<\/span> qua vai di\u1ec5n n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Phong tr\u00e0o<\/span> hippi xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec3u bang ph\u00eda T\u00e2y n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 trong th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 1960 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 lan ra kh\u1eafp c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/span> c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, nh\u1eefng vai di\u1ec5n, nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u0169 k\u1ef9<\/span>, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng khung,\u2026 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac kinh<\/span> t\u1ebf v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean<\/span> b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb th\u1eddi \u1ea5y t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3ng nh\u1eefng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t cho h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 phong tr\u00e0o<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p<\/span> v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh<\/span> v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 trong cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam<\/span>, trong \u0111\u00f3 h\u01a1n 57.000 thanh ni\u00ean Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ec7t m\u1ea1ng<\/span>, khi\u1ebfn cho s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> g\u00e2y chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y r\u00f5 cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> m\u1ee5c k\u00edch<\/span>. Trong khi v\u00e0o th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 50, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7<\/span> ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc trong \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 60 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u00fat ra kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch suy t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 v\u00ec t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9<\/span> qu\u00e1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span>. Phong tr\u00e0o<\/span> hippi t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng<\/span> cho s\u1ef1 n\u1edbi l\u1ecfng c\u00e1c c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u kh\u1eaft khe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Tuy phong tr\u00e0o<\/span> n\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> c\u0169ng tho\u00e1i h\u00f3a<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda kh\u00f4ng<\/span> ri\u00eang cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tham gia<\/span> phong tr\u00e0o<\/span>. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho c\u00e1c t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh<\/span> ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f4ng th\u00e2m nh\u1eadp<\/span> v\u00e0o ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu<\/span> trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u.
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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c<\/span>, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t<\/span> c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t vi t\u1ebf<\/span> trong c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span>, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span>,\u2026 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c<\/span> v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> th\u00ec b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n, sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y<\/span> \u1edf trong ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c so v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao c\u00f4ng. C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. T\u1ea1i sao? L\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang di\u1ec5n m\u1ed9t vai tu\u1ed3ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch hay v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao c\u00f4ng, hay v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng, nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng, ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u00ecnh \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span>. Khi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0103n n\u00f3i v\u00e0 x\u1eed s\u1ef1<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, th\u00ec c\u00f4 b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng hay anh b\u1ed3i b\u00e0n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e3i<\/span> b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng<\/span>, v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111ang di\u1ec5n nh\u1eefng vai t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng<\/span> v\u1edbi vai m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang di\u1ec5n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra gi\u1eefa hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp n\u00e0y. Thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00e1c khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> \u0111\u00e3-\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c-kh\u00e1i-ni\u1ec7m-h\u00f3a \u0111ang giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vai di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n l\u01b0u gi\u1eef trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span>, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t<\/span> trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang giao ti\u1ebfp. V\u00ec th\u1ebf \u201cb\u1ea1n\u201d kh\u00f4ng \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. \u1ede ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1<\/span>, v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u1ecdi quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ta v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean<\/span> khi ta th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u xung \u0111\u1ed9t<\/span> trong c\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 v\u00ec trong \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c.
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Kasan, m\u1ed9t Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0<\/span> \u0111ang l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1m tang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t cao qu\u00fd. Khi ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee3i \u00f4ng Ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch t\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c s\u1eafc kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn, ng\u00e0i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111ang r\u01b0\u01a1m r\u01b0\u1edbm m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i. Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau ng\u00e0i cho g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn<\/span> l\u00e0 ng\u00e0i ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Ng\u00e0i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch<\/span> v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u0103n xin hay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng vua. Ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> gi\u1eefa m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Sau \u0111\u00f3 ng\u00e0i r\u0169 \u00e1o ra \u0111i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ecd gi\u00e1o<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y kh\u00e1c. T\u00e1m n\u0103m sau, ng\u00e0i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 c\u0169, l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>.
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\u201cC\u1eadu kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, \u201c\u1ed2 t\u1edb th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/span> n\u1eefa\u201d. Li\u1ec7u c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng? trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vai m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch th\u00f4i, v\u00ec \u0111\u1eb1ng sau v\u1ebb t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i<\/span> \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au n\u1eb1m \u1edf b\u00ean trong. Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, suy s\u1ee5p<\/span> tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> th\u00e1i qu\u00e1<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra khi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che \u0111\u1eady<\/span> d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ebb t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i<\/span> \u2013 khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 d\u1ed1i m\u00ecnh d\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh<\/span> ph\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cT\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafm!\u201d l\u00e0 vai di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/span> \u1edf M\u1ef9 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c (nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed1n kh\u00f3 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9<\/span> v\u1ebb kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 \u1ea5y ra h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> h\u01a1n). C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u01a1i ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i nghe r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i th\u1ee7 \u0111\u00f4 m\u1ed9t n\u01b0\u1edbc B\u1eafc \u00c2u, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb b\u1eaft<\/span> gi\u1eef nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/span> say r\u01b0\u1ee3u, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 \u00fd<\/span> m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p \u1edf tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1.<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn<\/span> l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh\u201d. V\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan<\/span> g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u1ede trong t\u00f4i, l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf\u201d. R\u1ed3i suy g\u1eabm<\/span> xem t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 hay b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap cho m\u00ecnh tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201c\u00c0, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> n\u00f3 \u0111ang nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ho\u1eb7c t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111ang nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1ef1 chu\u1ed1c kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh\u201d. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3.<\/b><\/i> H\u00e3y \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n. T\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3. N\u00ean bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n trung h\u00f2a<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u00edt ra l\u00e0 trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec th\u00eau d\u1ec7t<\/span> trong \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1eadp ch\u00fa t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> \u201cCh\u1ebft, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1nh ki\u1ec7t\u201d l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u00e2m ly<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n<\/span> b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/span>. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n 50 xu trong t\u00fai\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> kh\u00e1ch quan v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan lu\u00f4n t\u1ea1o cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft<\/span> v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span>. H\u00e3y \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129<\/span> s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t<\/span> s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7<\/span> gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3. \u0110\u1eebng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> hay c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span>, m\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eb1ng sau nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. N\u1ebfu c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra<\/span>, v\u00ec t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. D\u00f9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft, nh\u01b0ng tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft<\/span> b\u1ea1n, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u00eau d\u1ec7t<\/span> n\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u00e2m ly<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3. \u00dd ngh\u0129<\/span> r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t k\u1ebb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh\u201d s\u1ebd che ph\u1ee7 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> an nhi\u00ean<\/span> v\u00e0 thanh b\u00ecnh<\/span> \u1edf b\u00ean trong – ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span> \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n.
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Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb con. H\u1ecd d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f3 nghe. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng<\/span> v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u1ebb con, hay b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m<\/span> h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u2013 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 vai di\u1ec5n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/span> nh\u1ea5t. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh<\/span> v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh<\/span> t\u1ed1t ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> l\u00e0m b\u1ed1, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t vai di\u1ec5n \u2013 hay kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ng\u0103n con ch\u01a1i nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nguy hi\u1ec3m, hay d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang n\u00ean ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, khi ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> l\u00e0m b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m c\u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbc, khi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ra th\u00ec ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> l\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u01b0 ch\u00fang, chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> con kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nguy hi\u1ec3m tr\u1edf<\/span> th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n, g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf<\/span> cho nhu c\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1<\/span> th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o<\/span> con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2<\/span> l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> duy tr\u00ec<\/span> trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian<\/span> kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u, d\u00f9 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n<\/span> ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 qua. Cha m\u1eb9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ngay c\u1ea3 khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd. C\u00f3 khi \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00e3 40 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> suy ngh\u0129<\/span>: \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/span> g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho con\u201d. Vai tr\u00f2<\/span> l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n<\/span> nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Qua vai tr\u00f2<\/span> \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9<\/span> t\u1ef1 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, n\u00ean khi c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 s\u1ebd th\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa th\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c<\/span>, h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu \u00fd mu\u1ed1n<\/span> ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> ho\u1eb7c g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9<\/span> b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf<\/span>, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> x\u1ea3y ra, th\u00ec h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng<\/span> ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch<\/span> hay b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> vai tr\u00f2<\/span> l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1ee9c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i<\/span> th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn con, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng tin l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra<\/span> h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 quan<\/span> t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng quan t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u mang t\u00ednh c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1<\/span> c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5y tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00e9o v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 khi t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n<\/span> h\u01a1n th\u00f4ng qua con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span> m\u00e0 n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span>, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu k\u1ec3 ra \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u1eb1m \u0111\u1eb1ng sau n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9<\/span> hay ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> con c\u00e1i th\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m<\/span> m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sau: \u201cCha mu\u1ed1n con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span>, cha mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t<\/span> d\u01b0\u1edbi con m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 qua con m\u00e0 cha c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t<\/span>. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m cha th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> nh\u00e9. Cha \u0111\u00e3 hy sinh<\/span> qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec con. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a cha v\u1ec1 con l\u00e0 v\u00ec cha mu\u1ed1n con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> con c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t an<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c con ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u<\/span> c\u1ee7a cha. Cha bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/span> con c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Cha th\u01b0\u01a1ng con v\u00e0 cha s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng con, n\u1ebfu con bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng<\/span> cho con\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 m\u00ea m\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft<\/span>, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c<\/span> b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang th\u1eadt ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tha h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> khi nghe t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> \u201cTr\u1eddi \u01a1i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u01b0?\u201d. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span> \u0111\u00f3, l\u00fac n\u00e0y khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu m\u00ea m\u1edd \u1ea5y s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/span>. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n<\/span> m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu ch\u1eb3ng may<\/span> cha m\u1eb9<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang m\u00ea m\u1edd\u201d, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1<\/span>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u00ea m\u1edd h\u01a1n v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7<\/span> h\u01a1n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> \u1edf trong h\u1ecd m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> mang t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> trong c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng<\/span> c\u0169ng tan bi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch di\u1ec7u k\u1ef3 khi trong l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span>. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi cha m\u1eb9<\/span> b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3<\/span> th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> h\u00e0nh vi<\/span> c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng bao dung<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> l\u1ea1i, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng xem \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang<\/span> b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u0169ng n\u00ean \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc ao, mong c\u1ea7u v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u1eb1m sau nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh n\u1ebfp \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u00e0m. H\u1ecd n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d. Th\u1eadt th\u1ebf sao? T\u1ea1i sao cha m\u1eb9<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> b\u1ea1n? S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. M\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span>, m\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0y v\u1eabn \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn<\/span> \u1edf trong h\u1ecd, trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c<\/span> cao h\u01a1n. V\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ly<\/span> kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng. \u201cV\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9<\/span> t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u t\u00f4i\u201d. Th\u1eadt th\u1ebf \u01b0? C\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t cho b\u1ea1n khi h\u1ecd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> hay kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u0103n c\u1ee9 n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111au bu\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span> \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 xem c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y qua \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha hay m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y \u201cM\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1. M\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m n\u00ean tr\u00f2 tr\u1ed1ng g\u00ec c\u1ea3\u201d; ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf<\/span>, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> c\u00e1i gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i vang vang \u1edf trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c ra<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0: m\u1ed9t n\u1ebfp suy ngh\u0129<\/span> c\u0169, b\u1ecb b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c<\/span> b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf<\/span>, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/span> n\u00e0o x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen<\/span> suy t\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng r\u00e3nh m\u00f2n \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> m\u00ea m\u1edd \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ram Dass n\u00f3i: \u201cKhi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>, th\u00ec h\u00e3y d\u1ecdn v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9<\/span> b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean<\/span> ch\u00ed l\u00fd<\/span>. Quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9<\/span> b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c<\/span> cho m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u2013 s\u1ef1 Hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n<\/span> \u2013 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> hay v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o l\u1ed1i suy t\u01b0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> c\u0169 \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n.
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The Power of Now (S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i)<\/a>, Stillness speaks (S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng), A new Earth (Th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh<\/span> m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span> s\u1ed1ng) l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf<\/span> gi\u1edbi v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian<\/span> ng\u1eafn, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch ra h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed1n The Power of Now \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 30 th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng, trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t mang t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1: S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00e1ng 3 n\u0103m 2011, Watkins Review, s\u1ed1 26, \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> trong danh s\u00e1ch 100 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span>. \u0110\u1ee9c Dalai Lama 14 \u0111\u1ee9ng h\u1ea1ng nh\u00ec, H\u00f2a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> Th\u00edch Nh\u1ea5t H\u1ea1nh<\/span> h\u1ea1ng t\u01b0, trong khi Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Vatican Benedict XIV \u0111\u1ee9ng h\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9<\/span> 14.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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