{"id":7183,"date":"2020-12-02T06:01:18","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T23:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamhoc.org\/2020\/12\/02\/muoi-hai-nhan-duyen-cuoc-doi\/"},"modified":"2020-12-02T06:01:18","modified_gmt":"2020-12-01T23:01:18","slug":"muoi-hai-nhan-duyen-cuoc-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamhoc.org\/trang-chu\/2020\/12\/02\/muoi-hai-nhan-duyen-cuoc-doi\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u01b0\u1eddi Hai Nh\u00e2n Duy\u00ean Cu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"

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M\u01af\u1edcI HAI NH\u00c2N DUY\u00caN<\/span> CU\u1ed8C \u0110\u1edcI<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Th\u00edch \u0110\u1ea1t Ma<\/span> Ph\u1ed5 Gi\u00e1c<\/span>
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\"12nhanduyen\"

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S\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> hay con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 do nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> l\u1ea1i m\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh. Khi nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, qua s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, ch\u1ea5t \u00e1i c\u1ee7a tinh cha huy\u1ebft m\u1eb9, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi th\u1ea7n th\u1ee9c<\/span> ch\u1edd t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>, c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 mong m\u1ecfi<\/span> t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 n\u00ean h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i<\/span> n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0 khi ta u\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ly n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf trong ly \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, tuy n\u01b0\u1edbc trong ly kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t h\u1eb3n m\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n<\/span> trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span>. Ta c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch t\u1ee5<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn h\u00f3a<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> theo nguy\u00ean l\u00fd nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span>. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111un s\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb th\u1ec3 l\u1ecfng qua d\u1ea1ng b\u1ed1c h\u01a1i r\u1ed3i th\u00e0nh m\u00e2y, khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00ed l\u1ea1nh n\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh m\u01b0a v\u00e0 th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n<\/span> v\u00e0o c\u00e2y c\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ea5t c\u00e1t. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> nh\u1ecbp nh\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a con tim v\u00e0 kh\u1ed1i \u00f3c h\u00f2a quy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5t \u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129a. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1edd<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span>. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i d\u00e0i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nhau m\u1edbi b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n<\/span> s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf ph\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. Ai khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t cha m\u1ea5t m\u1eb9 th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i<\/span>, s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a<\/span> khi ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 b\u01b0\u01a1n ch\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span>. Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean<\/span> \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> khi \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, an \u1ee7i<\/span>, v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1<\/span>. Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u1edbn l\u00ean, nhu c\u1ea7u chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nhau c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean nh\u1edd \u00fd ni\u1ec7m<\/span> ham s\u1ed1ng<\/span> s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft<\/span>, s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng<\/span>, c\u1ea7n qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o che th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. <\/b>Trong<\/b> c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng l<\/b>\u1ea9<\/b>n qu<\/b>\u1ea9<\/b>n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span><\/b>,<\/b> nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span><\/b>–<\/b>lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span><\/b>,<\/b> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 ra. <\/b>M\u1ed9t t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n<\/span> kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> m\u00ea l\u1ea7m<\/span> do v\u00f4 minh ho\u1eb7c<\/span> nghi\u1ec7p trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> d\u1eabn kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> th\u1ecd qu\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1eb1ng h\u00e0 sa s\u1ed1<\/span> ki\u1ebfp v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu x\u00e9t qua li\u00ean h\u1ec7<\/span> nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3-duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng nghi\u1ec7p nh\u00e2n<\/span> n\u00e0o trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3, trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> sau khi ch\u1ebft<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u qua vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> n\u01a1i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian<\/span> d\u00e0i, ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra sao th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o Ch\u00e1nh b\u00e1o<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>; mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai th\u1ebf<\/span> n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111ang t\u1ea1o t\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> qu\u1ea3 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au hay h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u1edf t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai khi h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/span> hay l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span>, t\u1ef1 tin ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh tr\u00e1nh d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span>, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span>, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. N\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> d\u00f9 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u mang t\u00ednh v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. Ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> hay m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn 3 c\u00f5i tr\u00ean nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u1eddi, A tu la<\/span>. Ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> trong \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> th\u1ea5p h\u00e8n<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ta \u0111\u1ecda 3 c\u00f5i d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span>, qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u00f3i v\u00e0 s\u00fac sinh<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> c\u1ee7a lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u00e2y chuy\u1ec1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> chuy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb kh\u00e2u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e2u kh\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0<\/span> n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span>, tham gia<\/span> c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span> sinh vi\u00ean c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng lu\u1eadt. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kia v\u00ec th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00ean sinh l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u00edch m\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t sinh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> ch\u1ee9ng minh<\/span> m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>; t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111ang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> ng\u00e0y nay r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> h\u01a1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span>. Cha m\u1eb9<\/span> n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a con c\u00e1i, anh em n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a nhau, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a nhau, h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a nhau, ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> n\u00e0y h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/span> n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u1edbi ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> kia, qu\u1ed1c gia<\/span> n\u00e0y h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/span> n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u1edbi qu\u1ed1c gia<\/span> kia. Cho n\u00ean, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap l\u1eabn nhau trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n nhau n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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V\u00ec th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt trong b\u1ea7u v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> bao la<\/span> n\u00e0y t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 c\u00f3. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> do t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span>, khi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean<\/span> sanh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> do m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5ng th\u1ea7n linh<\/span> th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra. Theo \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> th\u00ec b\u1ea7u v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> bao la<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ec9, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/span>, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt ph\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1edd<\/span> nhau m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh. Hay n\u00f3i<\/span> c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u do nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3. V\u00ec sao g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean”? \u201cNh\u00e2n\u201d l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n tr\u1ef1c<\/span> ti\u1ebfp sinh<\/span> ra m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1t l\u00faa l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n sinh<\/span> ra c\u00e2y l\u00faa. \u201cDuy\u00ean\u201d l\u00e0 tr\u1ee3 duy\u00ean<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch<\/span> tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp hay gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp<\/span> cho v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh; nh\u01b0 ph\u00e2n, n\u01b0\u1edbc, \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u2026 l\u00e0 tr\u1ee3 duy\u00ean<\/span> gi\u00fap cho h\u1ea1t l\u00faa ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh c\u00e2y l\u00faa. C\u00e1c v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n, c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 ”duy\u00ean” v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ra c\u00e1c v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c; nh\u01b0 xi m\u0103ng, c\u00e1t, \u0111\u00e1, g\u1ea1ch, ng\u00f3i, g\u1ed7, s\u1eaft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u2026 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n, c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y duy\u00ean v\u00e0o nhau m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ra c\u00e1i nh\u00e0. V\u00ec c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p tr\u00f9ng tr\u00f9ng<\/span> duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u l\u1edbp l\u00e0m duy\u00ean cho nhau n\u00ean th\u00e0nh ra c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> sai kh\u00e1c. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cV\u00f4 minh\u201d l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, l\u00e0 m\u1ec1 l\u1ea7m, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh<\/span> duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. Do v\u00f4 minh<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u do nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> h\u1ed9i h\u1ee3p gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 sinh ra, v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i do nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> tan r\u00e3 n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean l\u1ea7m nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> ta c\u0169ng cho l\u00e0 th\u1eadt c\u00f3, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 sinh ra ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7<\/span>. V\u1edbi c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng l<\/b>\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n<\/b> c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span><\/b>–<\/b>lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span><\/b>,<\/b> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 ra. <\/b>M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng qua t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n<\/span> nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> m\u00ea l\u1ea7m<\/span> do v\u00f4 minh ho\u1eb7c<\/span> nghi\u1ec7p trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> d\u1eabn kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> th\u1ecd qu\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e2y t\u1ea1o trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ki\u1ebfp<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra sao th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o Ch\u00e1nh b\u00e1o<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> mai sau<\/span> th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. V\u00ec l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> qu\u1ea3 kh\u1ed5 hay h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span>, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00e1i kia c\u00f3, c\u00e1i nay sinh th\u00ec c\u00e1i kia sinh, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y di\u1ec7t th\u00ec c\u00e1i kia di\u1ec7t, chuy\u1ec1n n\u1ed1i nhau t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 \u0111an xen ch\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> trong nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi. Do c\u00f3 v\u00f4 minh<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u1ea1o t\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng (H\u00e0nh) \u1edf c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eddi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> n\u00ean duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> ra t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> (Th\u1ee9c) c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u1ea5y theo nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o<\/span> m\u00e0 duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra danh s\u1eafc<\/span> (h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i<\/span>). Danh s\u1eafc<\/span> duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span> (m\u1eaft-tai-m\u0169i-l\u01b0\u1ee1i-th\u00e2n-\u00fd). L\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span> duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra x\u00fac (x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>). X\u00fac duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra Th\u1ecd (c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn). Th\u1ee9c, danh s\u1eafc<\/span>, l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span>, x\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nghi\u1ec7p nh\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Khi t\u00e2m ch\u00fang sanh<\/span> th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec do s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i<\/span> gi\u1eefa th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh l\u1ea1i sinh ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t; \u01b0a th\u00ec th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>; gh\u00e9t th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf; r\u1ed3i sinh ra luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>. Do c\u00f3 \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t m\u00e0 g\u1eafn b\u00f3<\/span> ta-ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span>. V\u00ec ch\u1ea5p l\u00e0 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 do kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00e2n<\/span> t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> nh\u01b0 huy\u1ec5n<\/span> (kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span>) n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ee7 (ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>). Do c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 huy\u1ec5n h\u00f3a<\/span> l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u1eadt c\u00f3. Th\u00e2n c\u0169ng c\u00f3, c\u1ea3nh c\u0169ng c\u00f3, \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3; r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 sinh ra c\u00f3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span>. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu b\u00e1o th\u00ec khi h\u1ebft th\u00e2n n\u00e0y, nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1eabn d\u1eaft v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 sanh, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 sanh th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft; nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng trong nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 trong t\u1eebng ni\u1ec7m \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n<\/span>. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> do v\u00f4 minh<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd<\/span> duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> nh\u01b0 huy\u1ec5n<\/span> h\u00f3a, kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3 n\u00ean t\u00e2m m\u1edbi kh\u1edfi v\u1ecdng ni\u1ec7m<\/span> ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1ea1o ra th\u00f3i quen<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eddi sau<\/span> ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do ni\u1ec7m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nhau, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhau v\u00e0 g\u00e1 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng<\/span> c\u00f9ng nhau. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 trong m\u01a1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4m \u1ea5p trong v\u00f2ng<\/span> tay th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span>. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i n\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfp vi\u00ean nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng, l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f4<\/span> g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai v\u00e0 con tim \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c<\/span>, rung \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span>. Ni\u1ec7m th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1edfi l\u00ean trong l\u00f2ng c\u00f4 r\u1ea5t m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quen nhau r\u1ed3i y\u00eau nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, ch\u00e0ng trai sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh<\/span>, k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n<\/span> v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n<\/span> x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> \u1ea3o c\u1ee7a x\u00ec ke ma tu\u00fd. C\u00f4 g\u00e1i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e0ng qu\u00e1 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t d\u00f9 bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u1ebfu ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> duy tr\u00ec<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u1ea5y. Ch\u00e0ng trai th\u00ec d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0103n ch\u01a1i<\/span> sa \u0111\u1ecda, c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 r\u1eddi xa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111ang t\u1ef1 h\u00e0nh<\/span> h\u1ea1 l\u1eabn nhau v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f3t y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong d\u1ea1i kh\u1edd, m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span>.\u00a0Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 r\u1ea5t mau v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u00ean oan tr\u00e1i l\u00e0m \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a con trai duy nh\u1ea5t<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span>, hai m\u1eb9 con<\/span> t\u1eeb x\u01b0a nay<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau h\u1ebft m\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u00e1nh b\u1eb1ng<\/span>. T\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng con nh\u01b0 bi\u1ec3n h\u1ed3 lai l\u00e1ng n\u00ean hai m\u1eb9 con<\/span> n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a nhau gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e2y cau v\u00e0 d\u00e2y tr\u1ea7u, ch\u00e0ng trai m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 lu\u00f4n \u00e2n c\u1ea7n<\/span> ch\u0103m s\u00f3c m\u1eb9 chu \u0111\u00e1o. R\u1ed3i th\u1eddi gian<\/span> tr\u00f4i qua<\/span>, m\u1ed9t h\u00f4m \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111i nh\u1eadu v\u1ec1 n\u00f3i n\u0103ng l\u1ea1ng qu\u1ea1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng<\/span> qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd trong men say v\u1eadt v\u1edd<\/span>, \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> khi nghe nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh<\/span> n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu m\u00e0 t\u1eeb x\u01b0a nay<\/span> ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 n\u00ean m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/span> \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 tr\u1eddi gi\u00e1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u00e9 ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 b\u1ecb g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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V\u00f4 minh<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> hay nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> th\u00e0nh ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi ra m\u1eaft gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng<\/span> hai h\u1ecd th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y t\u01a1 h\u1ed3ng<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 nhau. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00ec b\u1ecb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> che l\u1ea5p<\/span> n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c<\/span> c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1ef1c c\u00f3 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> n\u00ean sinh ra luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 tham \u0111\u1eafm. Ta \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c<\/span> v\u1ec1 s\u1eafc th\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 n\u00ean ham th\u00edch<\/span> v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n n\u1eafm gi\u1eef n\u00f3 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i<\/span>. Th\u1ef1c ra<\/span>, t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi<\/span> r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i v\u00e0 mau ch\u00f3ng tr\u00f4i qua<\/span>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u1edbi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> l\u1ea1i. S\u1ee1 d\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ea thi\u1ebfp l\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u00f2ng ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 h\u00e1o s\u1eafc. \u0110am m\u00ea<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, tham \u0111\u1eafm v\u00e0o s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p r\u1ed3i sinh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm gi\u1eef l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> t\u1ea1o duy\u00ean cho s\u1ef1 t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi sau<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y di\u1ec7t tr\u1eeb<\/span> tham \u00e1i<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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M\u01b0\u1eddi hai nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> n\u00e0y li\u00ean quan<\/span> m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, v\u1eeba l\u00e0m qu\u1ea3 cho nh\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u1eeba l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n cho qu\u1ea3 sau, n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> ph\u1ea3i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i<\/span> xoay tr\u00f2n trong v\u00f2ng<\/span> lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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S\u1ef1 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o s\u1eafc th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 \u00fd ni\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d, cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d th\u1eadt c\u00f3, r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tham \u0111\u1eafm, mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ta. Cho n\u00ean, m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng vua ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> sau khi ch\u1ebft<\/span> b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ch\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 con<\/span>, th\u00ea thi\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 c\u00f5i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng c\u00f9ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 an h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn v\u00ec s\u1ef1 tham ch\u1ea5p c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, d\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00f4ng minh<\/span> h\u01a1n n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00f4n theo. V\u0103n minh<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9<\/span> n\u00ean th\u1eddi nay ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u00ec ni\u1ec7m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t m\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong nhau r\u1ed3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o nhau \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh<\/span> lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i-s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00ec c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhau, s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu nhau n\u00ean m\u1edbi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. Th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> b\u00e2y gi\u1edd hay c\u00f3 phong tr\u00e0o<\/span> s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng xa gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> hay s\u1ee3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh<\/span> ph\u00fac. Khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n nhau v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft lo cho nhau th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n nhau n\u1eefa th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd chia tay v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau r\u1ed3i \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ch\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> l\u00e0m \u00fd ni\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>\u00a0\u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d gia t\u0103ng<\/span>, v\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 hay c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e0nh x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan<\/span> g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vung v\u00e3i hay gieo r\u1eafc<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hay bi\u1ebft. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/span> v\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1eadc Th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> h\u00e3y n\u00ean tu t\u1eadp<\/span> t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> bi \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ecb k\u1ef7<\/span>. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 bao la<\/span>, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> th\u00ec d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m<\/span> th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> ra ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f2n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span>, b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hy sinh<\/span>, bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ebb chia, ngo\u00e0i ra<\/span> c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> cho nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ec9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111em l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> v\u1ec1 cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ebd v\u1eafng b\u00f3ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> khi quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span> lu\u00f4n mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span>, say \u0111\u1eafm<\/span> th\u00e2n n\u00e0y. Ai th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ta th\u00ec ta qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn<\/span>, ai l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i ta th\u00ec ta th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span> m\u00e0 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> n\u1ed5i. M\u1ed9t khi gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u cho nhau th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ebb, r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9c, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn g\u00e2y g\u1ed7<\/span>, c\u00e3i v\u00e3 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh<\/span> s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00ec trong h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb ng\u00e0n x\u01b0a cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> nay, t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 si m\u00ea<\/span> nh\u1ea5t n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> do \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/span> x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0m \u0111au l\u00f2ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n th\u1ebf<\/span>. C\u1ea3nh nh\u1ed3i da x\u00e1o th\u1ecbt l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, con gi\u1ebft cha, m\u1eb9 gi\u1ebft con, v\u1ee3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ed3ng, r\u1ed3i k\u1ebb t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau v\u00ec ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span>. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch do kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> thi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00e2y t\u1ea1o nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 \u0111au cho nhau. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng<\/span> gia t\u1ed9c<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong v\u1ecb k\u1ef7<\/span>, n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201ct\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb9p khi c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf<\/span>, \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ea5t vui khi \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eb9n c\u00e2u th\u1ec1\u201d. Khi m\u1edbi y\u00eau ai c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> che d\u1ea5u<\/span> khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> r\u1ed3i th\u00f3i quen<\/span> x\u1ea5u m\u1edbi l\u00f2i ra, nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eadp kh\u00ed<\/span>. T\u1eadp kh\u00ed<\/span> t\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen<\/span> t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp<\/span>, l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. B\u1edfi hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp<\/span> l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span> chi ph\u1ed1i<\/span>, sai s\u1eed ch\u00fang ta<\/span> d\u00f9 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i<\/span>; nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c<\/span>, ham c\u1ee7a<\/span> l\u1ea1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tan v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u sang<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb<\/span> trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. Th\u1eadt ra, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee7y<\/span> ki\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn nay<\/span>. \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0103n, ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee7, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 th\u1ee5 h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3i ra. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> duy tr\u00ec<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> nh\u1eb1m g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0 s\u0129<\/span> t\u1ea1i gia<\/span> c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3, l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c dan d\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ghen tu\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi<\/span> \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nhau, c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ghen gh\u00e9t<\/span>. Bao nhi\u00eau v\u1ee5 \u00e1n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0m \u0111au l\u00f2ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n th\u1ebf<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc v\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u00fd<\/span> l\u00e0m sao, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ghen tu\u00f4ng trong m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span>. V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, l\u00e0m tan v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sinh<\/span> v\u1eadt cao c\u1ea5p h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n<\/span>, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ri\u00eang t\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 ganh gh\u00e9t<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, tham lam<\/span> s\u1ebd g\u00e2y kh\u1ed5 \u0111au cho nhau. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed<\/span> cao qu\u00fd v\u00ec bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>, n\u1ebfu v\u00ec l\u00f2ng tham cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00f9ng hung c\u1ef1c \u00e1c, n\u1ebfu v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> chung cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng lo\u00e0i n\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> h\u1ed7n h\u1ee3p<\/span>, ai bi\u1ebft tu nh\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ai kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00ec cam ch\u1ecbu<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00ec si m\u00ea<\/span>, sa \u0111\u1ecda. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> hay kh\u1ed5 \u0111au \u0111\u1ec1u do m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o l\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> gi\u00e1ng h\u1ecda<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a bao \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecda ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e2y ra t\u1eeb th\u00e2n-mi\u1ec7ng-\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u00ecnh l\u00e0m ph\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ebd h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>; m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u00e1c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span>. T\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee7y<\/span> ki\u1ebfp ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng trong l\u1ea7m l\u1ea1c<\/span>, v\u00f4 minh<\/span> n\u00ean hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp<\/span> r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f3i quen<\/span> x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 tham lam<\/span>, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 si m\u00ea<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span>, \u0111\u00e0nh cam ch\u1ecbu<\/span> ch\u1ebft ch\u00ecm<\/span> trong t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>. Th\u1eadt ra, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng tham \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 ra v\u00ec s\u1ef1 kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ebd o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span> nh\u1eefng ai \u0111em \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span>, do b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> c\u00e1i ta \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> ho\u1eb7c ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span>, g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u xa<\/span>, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>, ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i; nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hy sinh<\/span> v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb cho nhau, ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ef1 tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh<\/span> d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> cu\u1ed3ng si trong tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> n\u00ean con gi\u1ebft cha, v\u1ee3 h\u1ea1i ch\u1ed3ng, m\u1eb9 gi\u1ebft con, anh gi\u1ebft em v\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> s\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>. Mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nghe m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng hai trong thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span> lu\u1eadn b\u00e0n<\/span> nh\u01b0 sau: M\u1ed9t \u00f4ng vua trong l\u00fac cao h\u1ee9ng m\u1edbi h\u1ecfi ho\u00e0ng h\u1eadu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng hay \u00e1i khanh y\u00eau ai nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y?\u201d \u201cTi\u1ec7n thi\u1ebfp y\u00eau b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ee9 c\u00f2n ai.\u201d Vua h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao \u00e1i khanh y\u00eau tr\u1eabm?\u201d \u201cV\u00ec b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 \u0111\u00e3 ban cho<\/span> th\u1ea7n thi\u1ebfp h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. V\u1eady b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u1ea7n<\/span> thi\u1ebfp hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201cTr\u1eabm y\u00eau \u00e1i khanh nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi.\u201d \u201cB\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 n\u00f3i thi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201cTr\u1eabm n\u00f3i thi\u1ec7t m\u00e0, \u00e1i khanh kh\u00f4ng tin sao?\u201d \u201cB\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 n\u00f3i cho vui l\u00f2ng<\/span> ti\u1ec7n thi\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 cho ti\u1ec7n thi\u1ebfp n\u00f3i kh\u00e1c \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u00e1i khanh c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i!\u201d \u201cMu\u00f4n t\u00e2u th\u00e1nh th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, thi\u1ebfp ch\u1ec9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> th\u1ea7n thi\u1ebfp m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.\u201d\u00a0Nh\u00e0 vua b\u1ea3o: \u201c\u00c1i khanh n\u00f3i nghe sao l\u1ea1 qu\u00e1!\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1edd v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng<\/span> m\u00e0 \u00edt ai ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u1ebf gian<\/span> x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ee5 \u00e1n gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, v\u00ec ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span> m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i nhau. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span>, m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng vua c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 h\u00e0ng kh\u1ed1i cung phi<\/span> m\u1ef9 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m vua m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> th\u00ec mau ch\u1ebft s\u1edbm<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> c\u00e1c cung phi<\/span> m\u1ef9 n\u1eef cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u00f4ng vua ph\u1ea3i t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn thi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft c\u00e1c quan th\u00e1i gi\u00e1m<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u1ecd ph\u1ecfng tay tr\u00ean. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span>, ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span> c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ai dan d\u00edu<\/span> v\u1edbi th\u00ea thi\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a vua th\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u1ea1ng<\/span> d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 b\u1ecb ch\u00e9m \u0111\u1ea7u trong t\u00edch t\u1eafc v\u00ec ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u0129 di\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u1ee7a vua. Vua l\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft, vua c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0103n tr\u00ean ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span>, vua l\u00e0 thi\u00ean t\u1eed<\/span> t\u1ee9c con tr\u1eddi, thay tr\u1eddi tr\u1ecb v\u00ec thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span> n\u00ean vua mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a vua, ai \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ch\u01a1i, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u0169ng b\u1ecb l\u01b0u \u0111\u00e0y<\/span> bi\u1ec7t x\u1ee9<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1eadt ra, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span> v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n cho th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft cho \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn<\/span>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho l\u1ea1i ta. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u cho nhau th\u00ec t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng em em \u0111i, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng anh anh b\u01b0\u1edbc. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i trong h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> lu\u00f4n mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i th\u00fac<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nhau nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span>. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng cho ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ea5y, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u00e2y g\u1ed7<\/span>, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp nhau ho\u00e0i v\u00ec ghen tu\u00f4ng, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span>, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> ly d\u1ecb<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ea3nh tan nh\u00e0 n\u00e1t c\u1eeda, con c\u00e1i b\u01a1 v\u01a1. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hy sinh<\/span> v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecf nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u00f3i quen<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam n\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> n\u00ean th\u00edch chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t, s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 theo th\u00f3i quen<\/span> m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> \u201cch\u1ed3ng ch\u00faa v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i\u201d. Cho n\u00ean, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> th\u1eddi x\u01b0a<\/span> bu\u1ed9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> \u201cg\u00e1i ch\u00ednh chuy\u00ean<\/span> ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng\u201d v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i th\u1edd con, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n t\u00e1i gi\u00e1; \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u201cn\u0103m th\u00ea b\u1ea9y thi\u1ebfp\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra kh\u1ecfi c\u1eeda, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia<\/span> c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, ch\u1ec9 sinh con v\u00e0 lo vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0; nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i sinh con trai \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, n\u1ebfu sinh con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng b\u1eb1ng th\u1eeba v\u00ec g\u00e1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean ph\u1ea3i theo ch\u1ed3ng, n\u00ean trong cung vua t\u1eeb ho\u00e0ng h\u1eadu cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> phi t\u1eed h\u1ec5 ai c\u00f3 con trai th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u \u00e1i<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> c\u1ea1nh tranh<\/span>, ganh gh\u00e9t<\/span> gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c cung phi<\/span> m\u1ef9 n\u1eef r\u1ed3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i nhau \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i<\/span> cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> th\u00ec thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, c\u00f3 thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111a s\u1ed1<\/span> h\u1ecd y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng tai. Ai nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb9<\/span>, t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c, khen ng\u1ee3i ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o th\u00ec d\u1ec5 thu ph\u1ee5c<\/span> tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, d\u00e2n gian th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u1eb9p trai kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng chai m\u1eb7t\u201d l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam d\u00f9 x\u1ea5u trai \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee1 n\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 theo<\/span> \u0111u\u1ed5i r\u00f9 r\u00ec ri\u1ebft c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m xi\u00eau l\u00f2ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef<\/span> c\u00f3 c\u00e2u\u00a0\u201cc\u1ee7i tre d\u1ec5 n\u1ea5u, ch\u1ed3ng x\u1ea5u d\u1ec5 x\u00e0i\u201d c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i<\/span> c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> vua v\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng h\u1eadu lu\u1eadn b\u00e0n<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span>. Ho\u00e0ng h\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u201cth\u1eadt ra, thi\u1ebfp ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> th\u1ea7n thi\u1ebfp, v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> m\u00ecnh n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 ban cho<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i. B\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng, mu\u1ed1n cho th\u00e2n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> n\u00ean thi\u1ebfp ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1. C\u00f3 v\u1eady b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 m\u1edbi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> l\u1ea1i th\u1ea7n thi\u1ebfp v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> nhau \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea7n thi\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>.\u201d Nh\u00e0 vua nghe qua m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u xa<\/span>, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u00e2m t\u01b0, nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nhau. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c<\/span> trong c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, duy tr\u00ec<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, bao dung<\/span>, tha th\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> cho nhau, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> b\u1ecb tan nh\u00e0 n\u00e1t c\u1eeda v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ra o\u00e1n h\u1eadn<\/span>, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng tai\u201d. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1i \u0111\u00fang th\u00f4i v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> v\u1eabn c\u00f3<\/span> th\u1ec3 y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3<\/span> th\u1ec3 y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng tai. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> cho nhau v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 nh\u1ecbp c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span>, l\u1eabn trong c\u00e1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a \u00e1i \u00e2n<\/span>. Khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> y\u00eau nhau m\u00e0 qu\u00e1 b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o th\u00e2n x\u00e1c<\/span>, nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm gi\u1eef n\u00ean d\u1ec5 sinh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u00ean b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span> ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef th\u00ec b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng ngh\u0129a nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Do ch\u00fang ta<\/span> qu\u00e1 b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o th\u00e2n x\u00e1c<\/span> n\u00ean lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 g\u00e1 v\u00e0o th\u00e2n m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>. Th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e3i theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span> n\u00ean khi \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u1eabn b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> trong th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00e2m t\u01b0 trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh<\/span> s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho th\u00e2n x\u00e1c d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. T\u00e2m hay d\u00ednh m\u1eafc s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho th\u00e2n x\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111oan ch\u00e1nh. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi chung th\u1ee7y m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i trong th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1eddi. T\u00e2m ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ngu si<\/span>, m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecda l\u1ea1c<\/span> v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 s\u00fac sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> si m\u00ea<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a, ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nh\u01b0 ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam. S\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c<\/span> qua th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng<\/span> theo nhu c\u1ea7u sinh<\/span> l\u00fd. Mu\u1ed1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi<\/span> s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> s\u1ef1 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00ec b\u1ecb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> che l\u1ea5p<\/span> n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201cta\u201d, l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d. Ta l\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n ch\u1eafc. S\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t<\/span> v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00eam m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span>. T\u00e2m nh\u01b0 d\u00f2ng th\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed5 n\u00ean bu\u1ed3n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1eadn gh\u00e9t c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf ph\u00e1t<\/span> sinh ho\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o d\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9; do \u0111\u00f3, t\u00e2m v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> l\u00e0 \u201cta\u201d. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh nh\u01b0 chong ch\u00f3ng, m\u1edbi th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i gh\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3, m\u1edbi bu\u1ed3n r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i vui, m\u1edbi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n y\u00eau nhau su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i chia tay nhau v\u00ec c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au.<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 ch\u00e0ng trai n\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 th\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, th\u1ea5y n\u00e0ng th\u1eafp nhang<\/span> b\u00e0n th\u1edd Ph\u1eadt<\/span> th\u00ec h\u1ebft l\u1eddi khen<\/span> ng\u1ee3i: \u201cEm \u0111\u1ed1t nhang<\/span> g\u00ec m\u00e0 th\u01a1m th\u1ebf?\u201d M\u1ed9t n\u0103m sau, v\u1ee3 ch\u00e0ng c\u0169ng th\u1eafp nhang<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y anh ta l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i: \u201cEm \u0111\u1ed1t g\u00ec m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1t ho\u00e0i v\u1eady, l\u00e0m \u00f4 u\u1ebf c\u1ea3 gian nh\u00e0.\u201d T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3, khi ch\u01b0a chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c, khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ga l\u0103ng n\u1eefa m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u00ea \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u. T\u00e2m t\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> khi ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng<\/span> nhau, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eefa v\u00ec ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1i th\u1eafm nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho nhau, n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd s\u1edbm l\u1ee5i t\u00e0n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> nhau th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec. S\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng sinh<\/span> con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m. S\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd<\/span> khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ta g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho nhau khi th\u00e2n n\u00e0y gi\u00e0 nua<\/span>, l\u00e3o h\u00f3a. Th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m ta k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t th\u00eam s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> ho\u00e0i m\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 n\u1ee3 cho nhau. Mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t d\u00f2ng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span>. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp sau<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u1eabn c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> do t\u00ecnh x\u01b0a ngh\u0129a c\u0169, tuy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau nh\u01b0ng khi h\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta s\u1edf d\u0129<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au nhi\u1ec1u trong s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t v\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn cho k\u1ebb \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i trong ng\u1eadm ng\u00f9i<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng trai l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 g\u00e1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau r\u1ed3i ly d\u1ecb<\/span> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ebfn 40% – 50% v\u00ec s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft tr\u00e1i ra hoa nh\u1edd bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, h\u1ecfi han, chia s\u1ebb, chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau th\u00ec m\u1edbi b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba khi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u00f4i ch\u00e8o m\u00e1t m\u00e1i t\u1ea1i v\u00ec<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi t\u00e2m kh\u00e1t khao luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> v\u00ec b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n<\/span> b\u1edfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. L\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua<\/span> t\u1eadn m\u1ea5y n\u0103m th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, h\u00f2 h\u1eb9n r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng ca ng\u1ee3i<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 trong m\u01a1. Duy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i th\u00ec d\u00f9 \u1edf xa c\u00e1ch<\/span> m\u1ea5y v\u1eabn t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y<\/span> nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u1ea1 k\u1ef3<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft Thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n<\/span> th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u do \u201cnh\u00e2n duy\u00ean\u201d qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> c\u1ee7a nhau, ho\u1eb7c gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf nhau nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec n\u1ee3 nhau m\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nhau, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> n\u0103m x\u01b0a. Mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 h\u1ebft n\u1ee3 cho nhau th\u00ec ta ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> s\u1ef1 khao kh\u00e1t luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Gi\u1eefa d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ea5t b\u1eadt<\/b>,<\/b> ng\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u00f4i<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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S\u1ed1ng d<\/b>\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1i \u1ea5m m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> <\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta d\u00e0nh cho nhau ch\u00fat t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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T\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb9p khi c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110\u1eddi m\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u0129a v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong <\/b>s\u1ef1 <\/b>d\u00e0y <\/b>v<\/b>\u00f2 <\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110\u1ebfn <\/b>v\u1edbi <\/b>nhau v\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> t\u00ecnh x\u01b0a.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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V\u00cc SAO TA PH\u1ea2I S\u1ed0NG TRONG \u0110AU KH\u1ed4<\/span> L\u1ea6M M\u00ca\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00ec v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang sai n\u00ean ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>, b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o nhau m\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho nhau. Do kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3 n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o c\u00f3-kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c-m\u1ea5t, n\u00ean-h\u01b0, th\u00e0nh-b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eadt c\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t \u0111i\u00ean b\u00e1t \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span>, ta y\u00eau trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, v\u1eadt v\u1edd<\/span> v\u00ec duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> n\u0103m x\u01b0a. <\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng h\u01a1n 40 n\u0103m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sinh t\u1eadt hay nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 \u0111i tr\u1ec5 v\u1ec1 s\u1edbm b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u phai nh\u1ea1t. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u00edt bao gi\u1edd chung th\u1ee7y d\u00f9 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con xinh do th\u00f3i quen<\/span> h\u00e1o s\u1eafc, ham m\u00ea c\u1ee7a l\u1ea1 v\u00ec quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> th\u1eddi x\u01b0a<\/span> \u201ctrai n\u0103m th\u00ea b\u1ea9y thi\u1ebfp, g\u00e1i ch\u00ednh chuy\u00ean<\/span> m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng\u201d. S\u1ef1 ghen tu\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u tai h\u1ea1i<\/span> d\u00f9 v\u00ec y\u00eau n\u00ean m\u1edbi ghen, \u00edt ai ch\u1ecbu chia s\u1ebb cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi y\u00eau nhau tr\u00e1i tim ta m\u00e0u xanh, khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t<\/span>, ta \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span>. Ta \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span> v\u00ec qu\u00e1 say m\u00ea trong t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span>, khi qu\u00e1 si m\u00ea<\/span> d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u01b0\u1edbn ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1t ax\u00edt k\u1ebb t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch, ho\u1eb7c c\u1eaft c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd<\/span> v\u00ec ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u1ecb h\u1ea5t h\u1ee7i<\/span>, b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, b\u1ecb \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi, ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i gi\u1eefa d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1eadn<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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S\u1ee3i d\u00e2y luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb xi\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n, khi th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u1eef l\u1eafm, c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua; khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u1ebft nhau do m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span>. V\u00f4 minh<\/span> d\u1eabn t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i, d\u1ea1i kh\u1edd v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Do thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn<\/span> n\u00ean sinh ra t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta hay m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> m\u1edbi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> tan n\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, chia l\u00eca, con c\u00e1i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. Do v\u00f4 minh<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang sai d\u1eabn t\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o<\/span> t\u00e1c g\u1ed3m \u00fd suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, mi\u1ec7ng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, th\u00e2n h\u00e0nh<\/span> \u0111\u1ed9ng theo chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c x\u1ea5u. Do t\u1ea1o t\u00e1c l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c<\/span> n\u00ean g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7p, g\u1ed3m \u00fd nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>, kh\u1ea9u nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00e2n nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>. Nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, l\u00e0nh hay d\u1eef t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c<\/span> v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o<\/span> t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi ta suy ngh\u0129<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m<\/span> T\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh v\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ee5c<\/span>, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ta l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ea1i v\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ta b\u1ecb d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129<\/span> x\u1ea5u cu\u1ed1n \u0111i theo<\/span> d\u00f2ng nghi\u1ec7p \u00e1c<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb suy ngh\u0129<\/span> m\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng thi\u1ec7n hay \u00e1c l\u00e0 do ta t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u1ea5y m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> hay \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> tr\u1ea7n gian. Khi ta bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef 5 gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u1ef1 do<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi bao la<\/span>, r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> d\u00f9 nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> ki\u00ean c\u1ed1<\/span> cho ch\u00ednh ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u00e2n n\u00e0y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 sai khi\u1ebfn<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u00fd, \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> t\u1ed1t th\u00ec th\u00e2n c\u0169ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/span> l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, s\u1ebb chia. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> t\u1eeb \u00e1i<\/span>, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng lu\u00f4n \u0111em ni\u1ec1m an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> m\u00ea ho\u1eb7c<\/span> hay \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9c<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch<\/span> h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n<\/span> v\u00e0 mang t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i nguy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c<\/span> t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> hay b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> ti\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh<\/span> cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed, kh\u00f4ng quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed3ng hay v\u1ee3. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng<\/span> s\u1ef1 \u0111oan ch\u00e1nh, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> s\u1ef1 thu\u1ef7 chung. Ta bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> cho th\u00e2n kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh, t\u00e2m an \u1ed5n<\/span> th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> bi\u1ebft bao n\u00ean m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng<\/span> trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng trong s\u1ea1ch<\/span> v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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S\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y, l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eb1m th\u1eafm<\/span> v\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> h\u01a1n. Khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> cho nhau, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebft ch\u1ebf<\/span> trong quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span>, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho nhau. S\u1ed1ng th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i<\/span> trong quan h\u1ec7 khi ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m gi\u1ea5y k\u1ebft h\u00f4n khi\u1ebfn c\u00f3 thai ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n<\/span> s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ta ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0o gi\u1edbi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t khi ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1 thai<\/span>, gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft gi\u1ecdt m\u00e1u y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0 s\u0129<\/span> t\u1ea1i gia<\/span> c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3, l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c dan d\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ghen tu\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi<\/span> \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nhau, c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ghen gh\u00e9t<\/span>. Bao nhi\u00eau v\u1ee5 \u00e1n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0m \u0111au l\u00f2ng<\/span> th\u1ebf nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc v\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u00fd<\/span> l\u00e0m sao c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ghen tu\u00f4ng m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span>. V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> l\u00e0m tan v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span>, do b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> ho\u1eb7c ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span> m\u00e0 g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u xa<\/span>, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>, ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i; nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hy sinh<\/span> v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb cho nhau, ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ef1 tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> cu\u1ed3ng si trong tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> n\u00ean con gi\u1ebft cha, v\u1ee3 h\u1ea1i ch\u1ed3ng, m\u1eb9 gi\u1ebft con, anh gi\u1ebft em v\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> s\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 n\u00ean v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf<\/span> t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi tho\u00e1t t\u1ee5c hay kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i tu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a c\u1eed<\/span> cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh cho l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span> gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>, tr\u00ean c\u1ea7u th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt<\/span>, d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee7 duy\u00ean th\u00ec m\u1edbi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 duy\u00ean tu<\/span> \u1edf ch\u00f9a th\u00ec m\u00ecnh tu v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ta tu \u1edf vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span> v\u00e0 tu trong \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng n\u1eb1m ng\u1ed3i, n\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> d\u00f9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ta c\u0169ng v\u1eabn tu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Mu\u1ed1n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i<\/span> trong vi\u1ec7c tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nam n\u1eef<\/span>. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y n\u1ebfu tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 c\u00e1i th\u1ee9 hai gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nam n\u1eef<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1eafc d\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span>, ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ri\u00eang g\u00ec lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span>, cho n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> xa l\u00eca<\/span> \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi tho\u00e1t t\u1ee5c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu m\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c<\/span> th\u00ec c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 n\u1ea5u c\u00e1t m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u01a1m l\u00e0 v\u1eady.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1i gia<\/span> s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef 5 gi\u1edbi c\u01b0 s\u0129<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1eadp d\u1ea7n B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t \u0111\u1ea1o<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eebng ph\u1ea7n, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> th\u00ec xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n<\/span> ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span>. V\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn chuy\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> g\u00ec th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i t\u00ecnh<\/span>, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd qu\u1ea5n ch\u1eb7t ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con t\u1eb1m t\u1ef1 x\u00e2y k\u00e9n qu\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh, bi\u1ebft bao gi\u1edd m\u1edbi tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 s\u1ee9c y\u1ebfu<\/span> m\u1edbi ng\u1ed3i nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc sao l\u00fac c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng lo tu \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n tu nh\u01b0ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 qu\u00e1 n\u00ean kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i n\u00f3i \u201cl\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 \u0111eo g\u00f4ng v\u00e0o c\u1ed5\u201d, mi\u1ec7ng th\u00ec n\u00f3i mu\u1ed1n xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn th\u00edch \u0111eo g\u00f4ng m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 ch\u1ee9. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3<\/span> xu h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> th\u00edch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hay ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u1ef1 tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c<\/span> m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/span> c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00edch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd<\/span> m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd<\/span> qu\u00e1 ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd, l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span> v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ch\u0103m s\u00f3c qu\u00e1 k\u1ef9 khi th\u1eddi gian<\/span> l\u00e0m g\u00ec, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, \u0111i v\u1edbi ai, ti\u00eau x\u00e0i ra sao \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u00f5 n\u00ean l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ng\u1ed9p th\u1edf<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nhau qua \u00e1nh m\u1eaft n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, qua s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m, qua v\u1ecb tr\u00ed<\/span> s\u1ed1ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, qua m\u1ea1ng internet, qua email, qua l\u1eddi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u<\/span> hay qua m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng chat \u1ea3o. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> \u1ea3o tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> d\u1ec5 h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eadt<\/span> v\u00ec khi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ee9 kh\u1ecfa l\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> nh\u01b0ng n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c c\u00f3. S\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f9 h\u1eadn khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ea5p tay g\u1ed1i. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> ng\u00e0y nay, 50% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh<\/span> ph\u00fac v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ee7y chung<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u1eadt, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi v\u00f4 minh<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 mang d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span><\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span><\/b>.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span><\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd h\u1ebft m\u1ea7m s\u1ed1ng.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta c\u00f3 nhau su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/b>,<\/b> <\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1eef m\u1ea7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span><\/b>.<\/b><\/span> <\/address>\n
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V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi<\/b> nhau,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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M\u1ea5y<\/b> ai gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span><\/b>?<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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V\u00cc SAO CON NG\u01af\u1edcI<\/span> C\u1ea6N PH\u1ea2I<\/span> Y\u00caU TH\u01af\u01a0NG<\/span> NHAU<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00e1 c\u1eafn c\u00e2u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 g\u1ee1<\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Chim v\u00e0o l\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebft thu\u1edf n\u00e0o ra<\/b>.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Th\u01b0\u01a1ng anh th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ee3i n\u0103m ch\u1edd<\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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C\u00f9ng nhau ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i m\u1edbi v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng<\/span> nhau.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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\u00c1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n xa r\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t \u201c\u00e1i\u201d nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam g\u1ea5p tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam th\u00ec c\u00f3 \u201cd\u1ee5c\u201d ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi hai ch\u1eef n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gh\u00e9p l\u1ea1i th\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5t l\u1eeda l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>, n\u1ebfu t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi ch\u00fang ra th\u00ec c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con c\u00e1 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y mi\u1ebfng m\u1ed3i ngon li\u1ec1n nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u1edbp l\u1ea5y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o<\/span> suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, mi\u1ebfng m\u1ed3i ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp nu\u1ed1t v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng th\u00ec c\u1ed5 h\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ec9 m\u00e1u b\u1edfi l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00e2u oan nghi\u1ec7t, con c\u00e1 c\u00e0ng v\u00f9ng v\u1eaby bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn<\/span> b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau. Con m\u1ed3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng con giun hay m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i c\u00f4n tr\u00f9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng con c\u00e1 l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u1edfng mi\u1ebfng m\u1ed3i ngon n\u00ean \u0111\u1edbp l\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ecb m\u1eafc c\u00e2u. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra b\u1edfi luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft b\u1edfi s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span>. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ebft \u0111i s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i<\/span> tri\u1ec1n mi\u00ean<\/span> trong d\u00f2ng l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y th\u00f4i d\u1ee9t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> xa l\u00eca<\/span> \u00e1i d\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian<\/span> tham th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng tham, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian<\/span> m\u00ea th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span>, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00edch. \u00c1i d\u1ee5c<\/span> nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1eaft nh\u1ed1t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean \u00e1i d\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 ng\u1ee5c t\u00f9 ki\u00ean c\u1ed1<\/span> hay c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00e2u c\u00f3 mi\u1ebfng m\u1ed3i th\u01a1m ngon nh\u01b0ng \u0103n v\u00e0o th\u00ec m\u1eafc ngh\u1eb9n, nu\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 ti\u00eau h\u00f3a<\/span> c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng xong. <\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu v\u00ec ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t<\/span> \u00e1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft y\u00eau qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh do nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn<\/span> th\u00ec coi ch\u1eebng<\/span> v\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng. Ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t<\/span> \u00e1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> men say t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span>, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u. Ta s\u1ebd cho\u00e1ng v\u00e1ng, s\u1ebd \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, s\u1ebd h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, s\u1ebd ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi, ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i, l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng gi\u1eefa d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang<\/span>, cao qu\u00fd. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 g\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1eady<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ta g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> ta s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0103n, m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh<\/span> g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ta c\u1ee9 ng\u01a1 ng\u01a1, ng\u00e1o ng\u00e1o, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> xanh xao, \u1ed1m o, g\u1ea7y m\u00f2n<\/span>, b\u1ecf b\u00ea h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 nam t\u00ednh, b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh, r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 n\u1eef t\u00ednh<\/span>, d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng<\/span>, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn<\/span>, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng bao dung<\/span>, c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Lu\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/span> nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span>, nh\u01b0 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span> ph\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o nhau m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 chung m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i lo l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 gi\u00e0, s\u1ee3 x\u1ea5u, s\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 kh\u00e1c. Do s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> nhau \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfa l\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i \u0111ang d\u00e0y v\u00f2 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed<\/span> m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng theo ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady; n\u1ebfu xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> sau n\u00e0y gi\u00e0 nua<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, khi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt th\u00ec ai s\u1ebd ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb mi\u1ec7ng \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch<\/span> \u201cc\u00f4 m\u00e0 \u0111i tu th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y gi\u00e0, b\u1ec7nh, kh\u1ed5 th\u00ec ai lo cho\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n

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V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1. Do ph\u1ea3i \u0103n u\u1ed1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i b\u1ed5<\/span> th\u00e2n n\u00e0y n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u con v\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ec7nh \u0111au th\u00ec than tr\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 tham \u0111\u1eafm v\u00e0o th\u00e2n v\u00ec x\u00e1c th\u00e2n n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau g\u00ec c\u0169ng gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u00f4i qua<\/span> l\u00e0 ta \u0111ang g\u1ea7n k\u1ec1 v\u1edbi th\u1ea7n ch\u1ebft, th\u1eddi gian<\/span> gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft th\u00e2n n\u00e0y trong t\u1eebng s\u00e1t na sinh di\u1ec7t<\/span> n\u00ean n\u1ebfu \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> th\u00e2n th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec c\u00e0ng kh\u1ed5 b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau v\u00ec c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> n\u00f3 m\u00e3i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u. Khi t\u00e2m ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, tham ch\u1ea5p th\u00ec th\u00e2n c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt hay kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u1eb9p hay x\u1ea5u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ta \u0111au l\u00f2ng<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng ai \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1edbi sinh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> h\u01a1n v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u00ecnh. Ta x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec l\u1ed7 m\u0169i l\u1ea1i ph\u00ecnh to ra v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nhau v\u00ec s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i n\u00ean m\u1edbi t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nhau v\u00ec \u0111ang c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110i\u00ean d\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 cu\u1ed3ng si nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span>. Kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 theo t\u00ecnh t\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5, ph\u1ee5 t\u00ecnh<\/span> t\u00ecnh theo, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i tr\u00e9o ngoe nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng chung<\/span> m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp nh\u01b0ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trai<\/span> l\u1ea1i \u0111i th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, v\u1eady h\u1eb3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, k\u1ebb m\u1ea5t. Khi v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng n\u00e0y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thi\u1ebft tha vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m v\u00f9i v\u1eadt m\u00ea man<\/span> trong men say t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y n\u00ean th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng<\/span>, d\u00e8 d\u1eb7t trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a bu\u1ed5i ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span>, m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 lao v\u00e0o c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c vui<\/span> ch\u01a1i tr\u00e1c t\u00e1ng<\/span> su\u1ed1t s\u00e1ng th\u00e2u \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ta c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 d\u00ecm ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh trong hoan l\u1ea1c<\/span>, v\u00f4 b\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> trong nay mai ta s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng v\u00e2y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu trong quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00ednh v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng si m\u00ea<\/span> nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho nhau. Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian<\/span> t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y hy sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t<\/span> ch\u1eeba b\u1ecf<\/span> nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/span> th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span> c\u1ef1c. Ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng d\u00ednh v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n chia tay, c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t quan h\u1ec7 th\u00ec h\u1ecda may<\/span> m\u1edbi c\u00f2n con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> s\u1ed1ng; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec anh ch\u00edch x\u00ec ke, em b\u00e1n ma t\u00fay<\/span>, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng t\u00f9 t\u1ed9i. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span>, ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> th\u00ec nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t<\/span> v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chia tay. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 cao h\u1ea1nh th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t cao \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> r\u1ed3i t\u1ea1o nghi\u1ec7p t\u00e0 d\u00e2m<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec l\u00f2ng tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn tan nh\u00e0 n\u00e1t c\u1eeda. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> khi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi qu\u00e1 tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> v\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t ta, th\u00e0nh ra ta c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 con t\u1eb1m l\u00e0m k\u00e9n; cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi t\u1ee9c n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ee1 b\u1edd, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> tan v\u1ee1 v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, c\u00e0ng qu\u00e1 y\u00eau nhau, s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t nhau th\u00ec c\u00e0ng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho nhau. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/span>, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0103n c\u01a1m ho\u00e0i th\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u00e8m ph\u1edf, th\u00e8m h\u1ee7 t\u00edu hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u00fan ri\u00eau ho\u1eb7c b\u00e1nh canh. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3, khi m\u1eb7c ho\u00e0i s\u1ebd s\u1eddn r\u00e1ch \u0111i n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i mua b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 m\u1edbi hay ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span>. V\u00ec sao ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang<\/span> m\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n tranh gi\u00e0nh<\/span> nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft v\u1edbi \u00e1nh m\u1eaft l\u00e0n m\u00f4i, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span>. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e0ng y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec c\u00e0ng kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u, khi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec l\u1ea1i gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf r\u1ed3i mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd<\/span> th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft s\u1ebd ph\u00ecnh to ra b\u1edfi trong ta \u0111ang ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 minh<\/span>. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam n\u1eef<\/span> quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u00f9ng t\u1ed9t v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m duy\u00ean cho nhau \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfp sau<\/span> ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nhau. Suy ngh\u0129<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau qua x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> c\u1ee7a con tim. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 mang nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, chia s\u1ebb. Mu\u1ed1n cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span>, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> th\u00ec khi y\u00eau nhau ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd k\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i, gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u; ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc cho nhau; c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m<\/span> nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n-thi\u1ec7n-m\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1eadt. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft lo l\u1eafng<\/span> cho nhau, bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u01a1i b\u1edbt n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ni\u1ec1m \u0111au, bi\u1ebft vun b\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00eam hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau h\u01a1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> c\u1ee7a hai con tim b\u1eb1ng s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span> ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span>, ti\u1ebft ch\u1ebf<\/span> ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c<\/span> m\u1edbi b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> n\u00ean nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh, n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 l\u1eeda r\u01a1m b\u1eebng ch\u00e1y v\u00e0 t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t nhanh. D\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u00f4 thi\u1ec3n<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u00e1i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span>, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span>. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c b\u1ed7ng ch\u1ed1c phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/span> v\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo ki\u1ec3u thay \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ai ng\u1edd n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> tho\u00e1ng qua m\u00e0 k\u00e9o theo sau<\/span> l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ly d\u1ecb<\/span>, con c\u00e1i b\u01a1 v\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a. S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau c\u0169ng l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> ch\u1ed3ng, ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> ch\u01b0a c\u01b0\u1edbi th\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau l\u1eddi ngon ti\u1ebfng ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u00f4n ra, khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau r\u1ed3i th\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau l\u1eddi \u00e1c ng\u1eef<\/span> c\u1ee9 b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t ra m\u00e3i. T\u1ea1i v\u00ec<\/span> sao? V\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u201cc\u00e1i ng\u00e3\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u00ecnh to ra n\u00ean ta \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng v\u1eady.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi ba nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> thanh t\u1ecbnh<\/span> nh\u1edd bi\u1ebft bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span> d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00ec t\u00e2m ta an nhi\u00ean<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span>. Khi trong suy ngh\u0129<\/span> m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> th\u00ec h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ta ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u0103ng x\u0103ng<\/span>, t\u1eeb suy ngh\u0129<\/span> m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t ra l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y s\u1eafc l\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n, nghe ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n. S\u1ed1ng chung d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i \u1ea5m gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> th\u00ec h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u1ec3 mai n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> n\u1eefa th\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc<\/span>, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 sinh ly<\/span> t\u1eed bi\u1ec7t. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi t\u00e2m ta luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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L\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 \u0111au cho nhau<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ai th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft<\/span> ru\u1ed9t r\u00e0<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ai ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0ng k\u1ebb l\u1ea1<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Nguy\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ba nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> h\u1eb1ng thanh<\/span> t\u1ecbnh<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Lu\u00f4n <\/b>s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi an l\u00e0nh<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU L\u00c0 L\u1ebc S\u1ed0NG<\/span> C\u1ee6A CU\u1ed8C \u0110\u1edcI<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span> nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn<\/span> b\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec trong h\u1ecd c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a, khi m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. \u201cY\u00eau l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> ch\u1ebft trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t \u00edt, v\u00ec m\u1ea5y khi y\u00eau m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> y\u00eau, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng bao nhi\u00eau\u201d. Khi y\u00eau ta hay d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u00e1i \u00e2n<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>, \u0111\u00f4i khi s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ta qu\u00e1 cao n\u00ean ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span>. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span>, \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau, \u0111ang qu\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> nh\u01b0ng trong th\u00e2m t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh x\u01b0a qua l\u00e0n m\u00f4i, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>; do \u0111\u00f3 tuy s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00e2u<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/span> n\u00ean ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ecdn ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> b\u00ean nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> ch\u0103m s\u00f3c h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch trau chu\u1ed1t<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/span> v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c men, th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span>, n\u01b0\u1edbc u\u1ed1ng cung ph\u1ee5ng<\/span> cho vi\u1ec7c t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> sinh l\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> xem \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> n\u00edu gi\u1eef h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. B\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 ra \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> cho nhu c\u1ea7u l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p, ch\u00fang l\u00e0m ta c\u00e0ng th\u00eam d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o th\u00e2n n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00edch trau chu\u1ed1t<\/span> v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00e0o nho\u00e1ng<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00ean ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0o qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, m\u1ef9 ph\u1ea9m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i m\u00e1y. Ta l\u1edbn l\u00ean, l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, sinh con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, ai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee9 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span>, m\u00e0y m\u00f2 m\u00e3i trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ta n\u00ean bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ta v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 vun b\u1ed3i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ean \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ta \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh<\/span>. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf v\u00ec n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> b\u1eb1ng th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng<\/span> hay thu\u1ed1c men ra \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef l\u1eeda trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Th\u1eadt ra, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a m\u1edbi gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e1i \u1ea5m d\u00e0i l\u00e2u. \u00c1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> trong m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Khi c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span>, r\u1ed3i y\u00eau nhau, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 n\u1ee3 v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, n\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e3i m\u00e3i<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i<\/span>, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> tha nh\u00e2n<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady, t\u00e2m Ph\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u00e2m bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> b\u1edfi t\u00ecm c\u1ea3m cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, t\u00e2m ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> th\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> s\u00e2u d\u00e0y trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> s\u00e2u d\u00e0y th\u00ec tr\u00f4i l\u0103n, l\u1eb7n h\u1ee5p trong d\u00f2ng lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> v\u00f4 t\u1eadn<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tu th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 n\u00e3o<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1i gia<\/span> ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4n ngoan s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, tuy c\u00f3 vui trong sinh t\u1eed<\/span> nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft tr\u00e1nh xa \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1eef m\u00e0 hay t\u00edch l\u0169y<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i th\u1eadt l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng l\u00e0m sao, nhi\u1ec1u khi ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u0169 kh\u00f4ng r\u1ee7 c\u0169ng theo l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span> ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> ch\u01b0a h\u1ebft n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 xa nhau<\/span> r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nhau ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c<\/span> trong quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> n\u00ean t\u00ecnh c\u0169 ph\u00e1t sinh. L\u1ea7n t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 hai n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u khi c\u00f2n m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng, tha thi\u1ebft, s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i l\u1ea7n, do ta quen s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i n\u00ean khi m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t \u0111i ho\u1eb7c chia tay th\u00ec m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, tr\u1ed1ng v\u1eafng khi ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span>.\u00a0M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 bao dung<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> nghi ng\u1edd<\/span> v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang y\u00eau v\u00ec c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ecb c\u1eafm s\u1eebng, s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nhau. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng h\u00e0o nho\u00e1ng<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c<\/span>, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o. Ta c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> s\u1ebb chia.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng bao nhi\u00eau v\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 mua b\u00e1n<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00e1c theo ki\u1ec3u c\u00f3 qua c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i m\u1edbi to\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng nhau. V\u00ec ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean d\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau trao t\u1eb7ng l\u1ea1i, khi h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ai n\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111i. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 d\u1ecbch d\u1ee5 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea5y k\u1ebft h\u00f4n gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, qua b\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ai n\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111i, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh l\u1eafm th\u00ec gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec th\u00f4i. Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f4i nam n\u1eef<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ea7ng tr\u0103ng th\u1ec1 non h\u1eb9n bi\u1ec3n, \u201canh th\u1ec1 v\u1edbi em c\u00f3 v\u1ea7ng tr\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng, anh s\u1ebd y\u00eau em su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> d\u00f9 c\u00f3 m\u01b0a gi\u00f4ng b\u00e3o t\u00e1p c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m lay \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00e1i tim anh\u201d; v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u0169ng th\u1ebf<\/span>. C\u00f3 khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c n\u00ean d\u00f9 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 qu\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span>, \u00f4m \u1ea5p nhau th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111i qua nhau, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau v\u00ec b\u1ea3n h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/span> hai b\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eady.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi y\u00eau nhau l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e1 m\u1ecfng manh, kh\u00f3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft. Nh\u1edd ta bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> kham nh\u1eabn<\/span>, bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hy sinh<\/span> n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u1eabn c\u00f3<\/span> th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> khi \u0111\u00e3 k\u00fd k\u1ebft b\u1ea3n h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c<\/span>. H\u1ecd v\u00ec con, v\u00ec ch\u00e1u m\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111i h\u1ebft qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f9ng n\u00f3ng t\u00ednh<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ai ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn ai n\u00ean chi\u1ebfn tranh b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5<\/span>, con c\u00e1i b\u1ea5t an<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span>; cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ly d\u1ecb<\/span>, con c\u00e1i b\u01a1 v\u01a1, l\u1ea1c lo\u00e0i v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu \u0111i v\u00f2ng<\/span> tay \u00f4m \u1ea5p c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 cha. M\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m<\/span> tinh khi\u1ebft<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, chung th\u1ee7y m\u1ed9t l\u00f2ng, bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. Th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m<\/span> c\u1ee7a kh\u1ed5 \u0111au l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft san s\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> nhau. Do ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau n\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i<\/span> m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o c\u1ee7a th\u01b0\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span>, cho n\u00ean t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb9p khi c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf<\/span>, \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ea5t vui khi \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eb9n c\u00e2u th\u1ec1. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span> v\u00e0 lo toan th\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh cho nhau nh\u1eefng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y \u00eam \u00e1i<\/span>, ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, h\u00e0 c\u1edb g\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ghen gh\u00e9t<\/span> v\u00ec ch\u1ea5p gi\u1eef cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. S\u1edf d\u0129<\/span> ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> con tim v\u00e0 kh\u1ed1i \u00f3c. Ta b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7<\/span>, ta c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>. Kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 do ta ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi n\u00e0o l\u00e0m cho ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>. Ta h\u00e3y t\u01b0 duy<\/span>, h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ta bi\u1ebft an ph\u1eadn<\/span>, b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y d\u00f9 sao ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee1 h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 \u00edt \u1ecfi, v\u00e0 ta s\u1ebd b\u00ecnh y\u00ean khi bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ta kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau g\u00ec c\u1ea3 m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em cho ta c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> nh\u1edb nhung, luy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfc. Th\u1eadt ra, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> trong nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> trong n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nh\u1edb. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i<\/span> nh\u01b0ng sau 60 n\u0103m cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1eed nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i xem; t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 sinh con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean, r\u1ed3i h\u1eddn gi\u1eadn<\/span>, r\u1ed3i ghen tu\u00f4ng, r\u1ed3i kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c th\u1edf than<\/span>, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> l\u00e0 gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i theo<\/span> ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n<\/span> bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i mu\u00f4n thu\u1edf<\/span> khi s\u1eed s\u00e1ch lu\u00f4n ca t\u1ee5ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span>, t\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/span> b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft<\/span>, t\u00ecnh th\u1ea7y tr\u00f2 c\u00f3 nhau, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> ta c\u1ee9 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng b\u1edfi luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> trong t\u1eebng t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1i kia s\u1ed1ng, c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> nhau kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9. T\u1eeb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> sinh ra h\u00e0nh r\u1ed3i duy\u00ean th\u1ee9c, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o<\/span> t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m \u00fd. \u00dd th\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp<\/span>, th\u1ee9c t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> trong ba c\u00f5i<\/span> s\u00e1u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> b\u1edfi t\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n hay \u00e1c. Trong kho ch\u1ee9a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o b\u1edfi v\u00f4 minh<\/span> th\u00ec g\u1eb7p qu\u1ea3 kh\u1ed5, c\u00f2n ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n \u00edch th\u00ec s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p qu\u1ea3 vui. N\u1ebfu hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng quy\u1ebft ch\u00ed tu h\u00e0nh<\/span>, c\u00f9ng ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>, bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> th\u00ec duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> n\u0103m x\u01b0a d\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n<\/span> h\u01a1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fac h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u0103m n\u0103m h\u1ea1nh<\/span> ph\u00fac, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>.\u00a0\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng chung \u1ea5y thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> th\u00ec nguy c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> r\u1ea5t cao. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m c\u00f9ng chung<\/span> m\u1ed9t ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> hay m\u1ed9t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7p l\u1ef1c<\/span>, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span>, nh\u1edd v\u1eady ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span>.\u00a0\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec sao? V\u00ec s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, san s\u1ebb cho nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 d\u1ee5c l\u1ea1c<\/span> \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> chung th\u1ee7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>; c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00e2y n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng lu\u00e2n l\u00fd<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span>. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0 \u201cph\u00eda sau s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 – Ph\u00eda sau nh\u1eefng bi k\u1ecbch<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0\u201d.\u00a0Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1eddi v\u0103n minh<\/span> hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1edfi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span> trong ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>, quan h\u1ec7 nam<\/span> n\u1eef.\u00a0X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> theo l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y<\/span> c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span>, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> nhau, chung th\u1ee7y m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng, bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i<\/span> r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean trong h\u1ecd \u0111ang kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span>, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 che m\u1eaft thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span>. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng v\u1ecb tha<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> s\u00e2u s\u1eafc gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. <\/span><\/p>\n

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_ M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 coi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha lu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi<\/span> h\u1ea1n, lu\u00f4n tr\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng bao dung<\/span>, hy sinh<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i khi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf<\/span> n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng suy s\u1ee5p<\/span> tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> l\u1eabn th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c. L\u00fac \u1ea5y<\/span>, vai tr\u00f2<\/span> c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i qua vai tr\u00f2<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha bi\u1ebft hy sinh<\/span> qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, an \u1ee7i<\/span>,\u00a0v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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_ Hai l\u00e0 coi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi em lu\u00f4n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng<\/span> anh ch\u1ecb<\/span>, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> \u00f4n h\u00f2a<\/span>, bi\u1ebft coi tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u00fd mu\u1ed1n<\/span> c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb<\/span>. M\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3ng vai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1<\/span> bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/span> l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> an t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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_ Ba l\u00e0 coi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n<\/span>, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, h\u00e2n hoan<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n<\/span> s\u1ef1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng<\/span>, d\u1ecbu hi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat t\u00ecnh t\u1ee9 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi h\u01a1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

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_ B\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 t\u1ef1 xem m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1edb. C\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p l\u00fac m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/span> trong c\u01a1n n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi, th\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u00e2n h\u1ea1 c\u1eb3ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau. H\u00e3y v\u00ed nh\u01b0<\/span> m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1edb b\u1ecb ch\u1ee7 n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c r\u1ea7y la<\/span> n\u00ean v\u1eabn vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n gi\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd gi\u00fap hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1ea5t tr\u1eafc trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> theo l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t \u1ea5m \u00eam, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, tr\u00ean thu\u1eadn d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00f2a v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft chan h\u00f2a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> cho nhau. L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng tham lam<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 tham lam<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt m\u00e0 th\u00f4i v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng tham lam<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. V\u00ec y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang<\/span> m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u0103ng hoa cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u<\/span> s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> v\u1ebb vang<\/span> v\u00e0 hy sinh<\/span>, c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn<\/span> h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1edbi t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>, s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y th\u00f4i d\u1ee9t; c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o thai r\u1ed3i ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn qu\u1ea3 bu\u1ed3n-th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1eadn-gh\u00e9t trong y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, r\u1ed3i gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> c\u00f3 l\u1eafm c\u00e1i ng\u1ed9 ngh\u0129nh<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1eafc c\u01b0\u1eddi, khi ch\u01b0a y\u00eau th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, khi y\u00eau r\u1ed3i th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t ra nh\u01b0ng tho\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1t n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1i th\u00ec c\u00e0ng u\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00e1t h\u01a1n. D\u1eabu bi\u1ebft trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u1eafm l\u00fac kh\u1ed5 \u0111au m\u00e0 ta v\u1eabn th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00f9i m\u00ecnh trong c\u01a1n \u0111au \u1ea5y. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed3i nh\u1edb m\u00e3i m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00ec t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean b\u1edfi n\u00f3 trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ghi l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m bu\u1ed5i s\u01a1 khai<\/span> ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng<\/span> b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea7u. Cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh th\u1ee9 hai l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span>, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ee9 ba, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0ng n\u00e0ng v\u1eabn nh\u1edb m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Theo l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y<\/span>, th\u00e2n v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i th\u00e2n l\u00e0m sao b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tan r\u00e3 theo quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ta s\u1ebd b\u1edbt ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1<\/span> x\u1ea3y ra. T\u00e2m ta c\u0169ng v\u1eady, l\u00fac th\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng, khi th\u00ec gh\u00e9t n\u00ean c\u0169ng v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. T\u00e2m v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb c\u00e1i t\u00e2m c\u0169ng s\u1ebd v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 s\u1edbm n\u1eafng chi\u1ec1u m\u01b0a. T\u00e2m lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng theo \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i thay n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span> m\u00e3i m\u00e3i<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 duy\u00ean g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> nhau th\u00ec h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd, g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> trong t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 mai kia<\/span> khi duy\u00ean n\u1ee3<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft d\u00f9 c\u00f3 xa nhau<\/span> ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc<\/span> v\u1ec1 nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00ean l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>, t\u1ef1 do<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> xa l\u00eca<\/span> \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span>. Mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> kh\u1ecfi s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u00e1ng<\/span> th\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> s\u1ebd s\u00e1ng trong, m\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u00e1ng trong th\u00ec s\u1ef1 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> \u00e1i d\u1ee5c<\/span> m\u00e0 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Do c\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> n\u00ean th\u1ee9c bi\u1ebft l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra thi\u00ean h\u00ecnh v\u1ea1n tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. M\u1eaft th\u1ea5y s\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>, ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span>. \u0110\u1eb9p th\u00ec \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef l\u1ea5y; x\u1ea5u th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e1n b\u1ecf. Tai nghe ti\u1ebfng th\u00edch s\u1ef1 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, \u00eam d\u1ecbu n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. Hai c\u0103n th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 nghe l\u00e0 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u<\/span> ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu<\/span> cho th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. T\u1eeb khi m\u1edf m\u1eaft<\/span> th\u1ee9c d\u1eady<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 n\u1ebfu ta th\u1ea5y nghe trong hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span>. \u00dd th\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u00e0 c\u01a1 quan<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e3o qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 sinh ra \u01b0a v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng th\u00edch y\u00eau n\u00ean \u0111ang y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau, do \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd hay m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. <\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> khi ch\u01b0a y\u00eau th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhau r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00f4 v\u00e0n v\u1ec1 nhau. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u1ea1t phai theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng v\u00ec v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng kh\u00f3 phai. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y m\u1ea5y ai bi\u1ebft h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 n\u00ean c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu gieo m\u1ea7m gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, s\u1ebb chia. Quan t\u00e2m<\/span> nhau, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nhau, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhau, \u00e2n c\u1ea7n<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 cho nhau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau; v\u00ec c\u1ea7n nhau ta m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, lo l\u1eafng<\/span> cho nhau. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng quan t\u00e2m<\/span>, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c chu \u0111\u00e1o<\/span> cho m\u00ecnh; nh\u01b0ng ta l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f4ng sinh th\u00e0nh<\/span> d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c<\/span>, mang n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebb \u0111au, ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn khi ch\u1ebft m\u1edbi l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1m gi\u1ed7 linh \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat s\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1edf ra b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7c trong khung tr\u1eddi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hy sinh<\/span>, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7n si\u00eang n\u0103ng, ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>. Ta \u0111i l\u00e0m ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span>, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 th\u1ee7y chung<\/span>, l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u1eadt, t\u00ednh bao dung<\/span>, s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft s\u1ebb chia v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n g\u1ea5p v\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim d\u00e0i nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eadp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft d\u00e0y c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn trang, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n so \u0111o, khi y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> \u201canh y\u00eau em v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec?\u201d N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/span> \u201canh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft anh y\u00eau em v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, anh ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 anh y\u00eau em th\u00f4i.\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau. C\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau v\u00ec v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i m\u00f4i xinh, l\u00e0n da tr\u1eafng, m\u00e1i t\u00f3c \u0111en d\u00e0i \u00f3ng \u1ea3, th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh<\/span> duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh<\/span>, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/span>. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu sau n\u00e0y m\u00f4i em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xinh, l\u00e0n da tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u0103n nheo, m\u00e1i t\u00f3c \u0111en b\u1ea1c<\/span> m\u00e0u, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> x\u1ea5u x\u00ed<\/span>, gi\u00e0 nua<\/span> th\u00ec anh c\u00f3 c\u00f2n y\u00eau em n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh d\u00e0nh cho em s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, t\u00ednh to\u00e1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd phai nh\u1ea1t theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y ra s\u00f4ng t\u1eafm s\u1edbm r\u1ed3i m\u1eb7c y \u00e1o v\u00e0o. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb thi\u00ean n\u1eef<\/span> xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y: \u201cTh\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb, t\u00f3c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n xanh. Gi\u1edd n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd<\/span> th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i x\u00f4ng \u01b0\u1edbp h\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> th\u01a1m, trang \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00e2u b\u00e1u<\/span>, \u0111eo tr\u00e0ng hoa<\/span> th\u01a1m m\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 5 th\u1ee9 d\u1ee5c l\u1ea1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span> nh\u01b0 ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, danh v\u1ecdng<\/span>, \u0103n ngon<\/span>, m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i<\/span>. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea7y l\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng, quay l\u01b0ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u1ea1o b\u1ecf r\u00e2u t\u00f3c, kho\u00e1c \u00e1o c\u00e0 sa<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u1ea7u gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span> gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. T\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y l\u1ea1i b\u1ecf h\u1ebft c\u00e1c l\u1ea1c th\u00fa<\/span> tr\u1ea7n gian m\u00e0 \u0111i t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf?\u201d V\u1ecb th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 b\u1ecf l\u1ea1c th\u00fa<\/span> hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111i t\u00ecm l\u1ea1c th\u00fa<\/span> phi th\u1eddi<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ea1c th\u00fa<\/span> phi th\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm t\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span>, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u00edch t\u1eeb Kinh \u201cTu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb & H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d. \u0110o\u1ea1n Kinh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1p<\/span> gi\u1eefa v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 c\u00f4 thi\u00ean n\u1eef<\/span> xinh \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> l\u1ea1c th\u00fa<\/span> phi th\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o 5 th\u1ee9 ng\u0169 d\u1ee5c<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span> nh\u01b0 s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, \u00e2m thanh<\/span> \u00eam d\u1ecbu, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m, v\u1ecb ngon, th\u00e2n x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> hay ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, danh v\u1ecdng<\/span>, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng<\/span>, ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 trong c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i y\u00eau ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 sai tr\u00e1i<\/span> nh\u01b0ng m\u00e3nh l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y<\/span>, d\u1eabn t\u1edbi qu\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 sau ch\u00ednh c\u00f4 g\u00e1i n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ki\u1ebfp ch\u1ed3ng chung trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1edd v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> tri\u1ec1n mi\u00ean<\/span> nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i gi\u1eefa sa m\u1ea1c hoang v\u1eafng<\/span>, n\u1eafng ch\u00e1y kh\u00f4 kh\u1ed1c s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00e1t<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span> trong v\u1eadt v\u1edd<\/span>. Do \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> v\u1edbi s\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng<\/span> \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> th\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>. Ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 ph\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu trong c\u00e1i ph\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ee9c th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ph\u1ea1m gi\u1edbi<\/span> t\u00e0 d\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00ec \u00edt ai ch\u1ecbu d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Th\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cdanh\u201d, danh g\u1ecdi t\u00ean hay nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> s\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>; nh\u01b0 cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span> n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9. N\u00e0ng n\u1ea5u cho ch\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n ngon m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>, m\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 c\u00f3 m\u00e0u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>, \u01b0\u1edbp th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>, chi\u1ec1u l\u00f2ng ch\u00e0ng \u0111i t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u01b0a th\u00edch\u2026; v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ee3p th\u1ec3 n\u0103m U\u1ea9n<\/span>, c\u1ea3 n\u0103m U\u1ea9n<\/span> n\u00e0y k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd, nh\u1ecbp nh\u00e0ng t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> g\u1ed3m S\u1eafc-Th\u1ecd-T\u01b0\u1edfng-H\u00e0nh-Th\u1ee9c. S\u1eafc u\u1ea9n<\/span> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> v\u1edbi th\u1ecbt x\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan\u2026 Th\u1ecd u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> vui bu\u1ed3n<\/span>, th\u01b0\u01a1ng gh\u00e9t\u2026, hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span>. T\u01b0\u1edfng u\u1ea9n<\/span> g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span>, \u00e2m thanh\u2026 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung<\/span>, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e0nh u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 suy t\u01b0, t\u00ednh to\u00e1n, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o<\/span>, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch\u2026 Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a H\u00e0nh u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean H\u00e0nh u\u1ea9n<\/span> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 hang \u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span>. Th\u1ee9c u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft. \u201cS\u1eafc\u201d l\u00e0 th\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u201cdanh\u201d l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> Th\u1ecd-T\u01b0\u1edfng-H\u00e0nh-Th\u1ee9c. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u01b0a v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t, th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc, gh\u00e9t th\u00ec ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf. Do c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> n\u00ean c\u00f3 danh s\u1eafc<\/span> ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta<\/span> m\u00ea m\u1edd m\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1 b\u1ecb m\u1eafc l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00e2u. Danh v\u00e0 s\u1eafc n\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o nhau m\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n, danh bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n qua s\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1eafc bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n qua danh. Th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m th\u00ec th\u00e2n m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u00ec t\u00e2m v\u00f4 v\u1ecb<\/span>, tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n khi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 n\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o nhau \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh cho nhau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 chi ph\u1ed1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft. Trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0<\/span>, s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u00e1ch m\u1ea5y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u1ea1t phai v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia ly. Khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, kh\u00f4ng k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o danh s\u1eafc<\/span>. \u0110\u1ee7 duy\u00ean th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span>, h\u1ebft duy\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ai n\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111i, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u00ec bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau mai n\u00e0y s\u1ebd nh\u1ea1t phai theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span> n\u00ean b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ngay gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi<\/span> h\u1ea1n trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> kh\u00f4ng so \u0111o, kh\u00f4ng h\u1eddn ghen, kh\u00f4ng o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00edu k\u00e9o v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong h\u1ecd l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 ki\u1ebfp<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> d\u00f9 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ch\u00e2u l\u1ee5c n\u00e0o, h\u00e0nh tinh n\u00e0o, qu\u1ed1c gia<\/span> n\u00e0o hay s\u1eafc t\u1ed9c n\u00e0o th\u00ec v\u1ecb \u1ea5y sinh ra c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> c\u0169ng \u0111ang y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> kh\u00f4ng v\u1ecb k\u1ef7<\/span> trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u1ea1ch<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>, v\u1ecb tha<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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D\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00e0n phai theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhanh nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i chong ch\u00f3ng. Thu\u1edf c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng lo toan, kh\u00f4ng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau v\u00e0 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t con thuy\u1ec1n \u0111i tr\u00ean bi\u1ec3n d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7 nh\u1ecf \u1edf m\u1ea1n thuy\u1ec1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u00ecm c\u1ea3 con thuy\u1ec1n. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa v\u00ec t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> nh\u1edb nhung. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi nhanh nh\u01b0 c\u01a1n b\u00e3o v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i nhanh nh\u01b0 c\u01a1n b\u00e3o. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> l\u00e0m cho ta kh\u1ed5 th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u00f3 sai s\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u01a1n b\u00e3o luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> s\u1ebd tan bi\u1ebfn nhanh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau b\u1edfi h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span>, b\u1edfi ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span>, ti\u1ebfng ca, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, trang ph\u1ee5c, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m.\u201d T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng hoa h\u1ed3ng<\/span> nh\u01b0ng hoa h\u1ed3ng<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 gai, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ta mu\u1ed1n n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb gai \u0111\u00e2m. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> r\u1ec9 m\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0nh, tr\u00e1i tim r\u01b0\u1edbm m\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0nh nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 r\u1ec9 m\u00e1u th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 l\u1eafm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01a1i! Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng nghe n\u00f3i sao, \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n vui nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i v\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n s\u1ea7u\u201d. V\u1eady sao ta v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con ngoan nh\u01b0ng sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u1ea5t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ea1o gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c<\/span> m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3 m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta<\/span> tr\u00f3i ch\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi t\u00e2m th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. C\u00e0ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, ta ham th\u00edch<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong th\u00fa \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, c\u00e1i \u0111au n\u00e0y b\u1edfi do t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> sinh ra. Do ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span>, m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ta c\u1ee9 lao v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Ta khi \u1ea5y b\u1ed1n m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn nhau, y\u00eau nhau v\u00e0 cho nhau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3<\/span> mai sau<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Quy\u1ec1n cao<\/span> ch\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb<\/span> cao sang, ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i danh<\/span> v\u1ecdng, v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con xinh, s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby nh\u01b0ng ta v\u1eabn bu\u00f4ng tay, b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i sau l\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> nh\u1ea5t. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t nh\u01b0ng ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean m\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00f4n ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00e1o t\u00ecm c\u1ea7u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 d\u0129 v\u00e3ng, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n say trong men n\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111ang c\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng v\u1eady, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng v\u00ec ta \u0111ang l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ta, ta h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00e1c \u00f4ng vua ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> cung phi<\/span> m\u1ef9 n\u1eef, v\u00ec tham \u0111\u1eafm s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh n\u00ean cho thi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft m\u1ea5y \u00f4ng quan th\u00e1i gi\u00e1m<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ee3 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ph\u1ecfng tay tr\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay g\u00e2y ra th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda b\u1ecb l\u01a1 l\u1edb, nam ch\u1eb3ng ra nam, n\u1eef ch\u1eb3ng ra n\u1eef, th\u00e0nh ra kh\u00f3 x\u00e0i. H\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1ebfu \u1edf trong ch\u00f9a s\u1ebd h\u1ea1i v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> d\u1ecb t\u00ednh. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng vua v\u00ec tham t\u00e0n<\/span> n\u00ean mau ch\u1ebft s\u1edbm<\/span> v\u00ec \u0111\u1eafm s\u1eafc m\u00ea hoa. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ed1ng th\u1ee7y chung<\/span> m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00e0 d\u00e2m<\/span>, c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span>, ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean. Khi m\u1ed9t con s\u01b0 t\u1eed<\/span> b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo \u0111i ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed3i hay ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> m\u1ed9t con c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c, l\u00fac \u1ea5y<\/span> n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i th\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1edd v\u1eady s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 mau h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> lu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau nhau th\u00ec h\u00e3y chung s\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span>, bi\u1ebft g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> cho nhau b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi t\u00e2m ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span>, v\u1ec1 \u00e2m thanh<\/span>, v\u1ec1 m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u1ec1 v\u1ecb n\u1ebfm, v\u1ec1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m, v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111ang l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ta h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> qu\u00e1n th\u00e2n<\/span> trong th\u00e2n hay qu\u00e1n t\u00e2m<\/span> trong t\u00e2m, th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng<\/span> t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi khi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> n\u00f3i tu th\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0 tu c\u00e1i g\u00ec, ch\u1eb3ng qua l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m gi\u1edbi<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng cung ph\u1ee5ng<\/span> th\u00e2n qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span>, l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span> th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> c\u00e1c t\u00e2m si m\u00ea<\/span> m\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> trong t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 danh s\u1eafc<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ta kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m h\u01b0 h\u1ea1i cho nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhau th\u00ec h\u00e3y khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 nhau gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span>, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta tr\u00f4i l\u0103n trong d\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Th\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00ec th\u00f4i<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> sao \u0111\u00e0nh.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU LU\u00d4N L\u00c0M CON NG\u01af\u1edcI<\/span> KHAO KH\u00c1T V\u00c0 MU\u1ed0N CHI\u1ebeM H\u1eeeU<\/span> <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ea5t nhau r\u1ed3i ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i<\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Khi y\u00eau nhau ta th\u1ea5y g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00ec c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 b\u1eaft tay, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111i, \u0111\u1ee9ng, n\u1eb1m, ng\u1ed3i, h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m.\u00a0Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> trong t\u1eebng t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m<\/span>; nh\u01b0 khi \u0111i th\u00ec ta bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang \u0111i, khi ng\u1ed3i ta bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i, khi \u0103n ta bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang \u0103n, khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ta bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c; nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span>. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 x\u01b0a th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea1y \u201ccon g\u00e1i \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u1ee9\u201d, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e2n \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng ng\u1ea3 nghi\u00eang, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 kh\u1ec9<\/span> chuy\u1ec1n c\u00e0nh. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> cho nhau \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. Trong nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khu v\u1ef1c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m<\/span>, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 cho nhau khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u01b0a \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean<\/span> th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m, lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p<\/span> s\u1ebd ph\u1ea1t t\u00f9 t\u00f9y theo<\/span> m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u1eb7ng nh\u1eb9. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4n ngoan tranh th\u1ee7<\/span> h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 khi th\u00e0nh t\u00e0i c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng danh<\/span> s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t s\u1edbm b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi r\u1ee7i ro<\/span> v\u1ec1 sau. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ee5 \u00e1n l\u00e0m \u0111au l\u00f2ng<\/span> thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span> khi b\u1ecb c\u00e1o<\/span> l\u00e0 con r\u1ec5 v\u00e0 k\u1ebb t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o<\/span> l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u1ee3 d\u00f9 hai \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> hai m\u1eb7t<\/span> con. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i c\u00f3 con khi m\u1edbi 15 ho\u1eb7c 16 tu\u1ed5i v\u00ec con r\u1ec5 l\u00e0m m\u00edch l\u00f2ng<\/span> cha m\u1eb9<\/span> v\u1ee3 n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u1edf t\u00f9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i<\/span> l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 hai \u0111\u1ee9a con. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed5i thay v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. Ta bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec sao t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00f4i qua<\/span> nhanh qu\u00e1, m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 chia tay, m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u00ean nhau n\u1eefa. Ta vui v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ta m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi l\u00e0m cho ta bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n<\/span>, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00ec y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> v\u00ec t\u00ecnh, v\u00ec ngh\u0129a, v\u00ec m\u1eb9 cha, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i mai sau<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p bi\u1ebft bao khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee9 \u0111i ch\u00f9a<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u duy\u00ean, mong g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> m\u00e0 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. L\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span> t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 s\u00e1u ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span>, hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u00e1u c\u0103n m\u1eaft-tai-m\u0169i-l\u01b0\u1ee1i-mi\u1ec7ng-th\u00e2n-\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u00e1u c\u0103n l\u00e0 s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> g\u1ed3m s\u1eafc-thanh-h\u01b0\u01a1ng-v\u1ecb-x\u00fac-ph\u00e1p. Khi s\u00e1u c\u0103n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho s\u00e1u th\u1ee9c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> m\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t, n\u1ebfu \u01b0a th\u00ec th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t, n\u1ebfu gh\u00e9t th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf. Th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00e0m duy\u00ean cho s\u00e1u c\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> c\u1ea3nh. \u00dd th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y, c\u00e1i nghe, c\u00e1i n\u1ebfm, c\u00e1i ng\u1eedi, c\u00e1i x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m, c\u00e1i \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> n\u00ean danh l\u00e0m cho s\u00e1u c\u0103n d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span>, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Lo\u00e0i d\u01a1i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ecb nh\u1edd s\u00f3ng si\u00eau \u00e2m<\/span> n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bay trong \u0111\u00eam t\u1ed1i nhanh v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng bay m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb va ch\u1ea1m<\/span> ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt<\/span>. S\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> th\u00f4ng qua th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m. N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span>, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u00e2m thanh<\/span>; n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00f9i, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u01a1ng; n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 n\u1ebfm, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 v\u1ecb; n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>; n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span>, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ph\u00e1p tr\u1ea7n<\/span>. S\u00e1u c\u0103n c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u01b0 m\u1eaft mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span>, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p; tai mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi \u00e2m thanh<\/span> \u00eam d\u1ecbu, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng; m\u0169i mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m tho; l\u01b0\u1ee1i mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi v\u1ecb ngon ng\u1ecdt; th\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c; v\u00e0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n<\/span> ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi ph\u00e1p tr\u1ea7n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 qua. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span>, nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con tim v\u00e0 kh\u1ed1i \u00f3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gh\u00ea g\u1edbm, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng v\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m n\u00e0y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> hay chung ch\u1ea1<\/span> \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng v\u00ec s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i tai mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> \u00e2m thanh<\/span> quy\u1ebfn r\u0169<\/span> b\u1edfi l\u1eddi ngon ti\u1ebfng ng\u1ecdt d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m xi\u00eau l\u00f2ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ebft v\u00ec m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t m\u00e1 l\u00fam \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n<\/span>. C\u00e1i m\u0169i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m tho c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n n\u00ean ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00f4ng \u01b0\u1edbp v\u00e0o th\u00e2n x\u00e1c n\u00e0y. C\u00e1 lia thia quen ch\u1eadu, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng quen h\u01a1i l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Nhi\u1ec1u khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u00ea c\u00e1i h\u01a1i c\u1ee7a nhau, thi\u1ebfu h\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span>. C\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1ee1i th\u00ec th\u00edch t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> ngon nh\u01b0 s\u01a1n h\u00e0o h\u1ea3i v\u1ecb<\/span>. S\u1ef1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m \u00eam \u00e1i<\/span>, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch<\/span> t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00ea t\u00e1i, m\u00ea m\u1eabn c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau qua m\u1eaft-tai-m\u0169i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span>. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qua c\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00ea m\u00ea h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i v\u0169 kh\u00ed hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. C\u00e1i th\u00e2n n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i, n\u00f3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c<\/span>. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i ch\u1ea1m nh\u1eb9 th\u00f4i c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i nh\u1edb m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa trong vi\u1ec7c \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span>. S\u00e1u c\u0103n l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d, nh\u01b0ng x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang<\/span>, cao c\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t\u201d. Khi h\u00f4n nhau, khi y\u00eau nhau ta nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 th\u0103ng hoa c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> \u00eam d\u1ecbu, kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c, h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng; nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng th\u0103ng hoa n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 l\u1ee5y c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3, v\u1ecb h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i<\/span> nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ng\u1ecdt b\u00f9i, \u0111\u1eafng cay trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u1ecdt b\u00f9i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eafng cay lu\u00f4n \u0111i chung v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nhau. Ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng toan t\u00ednh, so \u0111o m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u1ec3m tr\u1ee3<\/span> \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb d\u00ednh r\u1ee7i ro<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb d\u00ednh kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. R\u1ee7i ro<\/span> kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i<\/span> quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u00ecnh ra th\u00e0nh kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u0169ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng<\/span>, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, c\u0169ng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 lo s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh<\/span> hay kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i c\u00fa s\u1ed1c tan v\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean sinh ra b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n<\/span>, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u00ean lo\u1ea1n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00ean thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> nh\u1ecbp nh\u00e0ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u00ec ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u1edbi trao th\u00e2n g\u1edfi ph\u1eadn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>. Trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 hy sinh<\/span> c\u00e1ch m\u1ea5y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n m\u1ea1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> cho nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ec9, t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau, cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00f3c d\u00e1ng h\u01a1i x\u1ea5u x\u00ed<\/span> nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn d\u00ednh ch\u1eb7t<\/span> v\u00e0o nhau kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 r\u1eddi xa nhau<\/span> n\u1eeda b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec trong h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>.\u00a0Ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au n\u00ean b\u1ecb kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Ch\u00e0ng trai v\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n<\/span> n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> ho\u00e0i r\u1ed3i t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho nhau, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi h\u00ecnh b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u01b0u d\u1ea5u trong tim th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> theo ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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S\u00e1u c\u0103n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> gi\u1edbi ph\u00e1p<\/span> th\u00ec con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> khi th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y. Trong Kinh \u201cGi\u00e1o h\u00f3a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh\u201d, th\u1ea7y X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i Ph\u1ea5t<\/span> d\u1ea1y \u00f4ng C\u1ea5p C\u00f4 \u0110\u1ed9c<\/span> nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cN\u00e0y \u00f4ng C\u1ea5p C\u00f4 \u0110\u1ed9c<\/span>, \u00f4ng h\u00e3y qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> con m\u1eaft n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ta, ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o con m\u1eaft n\u00e0y.\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0 nua<\/span>, t\u00e0n \u00faa theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span>. M\u1eaft nh\u0103n nheo, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb m\u1edd hay m\u00f9 lo\u00e0 v\u00e0 h\u1eb1n nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u00e2m \u0111en. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft tu s\u1ebd qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> c\u1ee7a con m\u1eaft, \u201c\u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ta, ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n cho n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e3i\u201d. Ng\u00e0y nay nh\u1edd c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 ta c\u00f3 b\u1ecf ti\u1ec1n ra \u0111\u1ec3 thay h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ea1ng th\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u0169ng s\u1ebd m\u1edd d\u1ea7n. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft l\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, th\u00f4ng tu\u1ec7<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft m\u1edd \u0111\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft. Do ch\u00fang ta<\/span> hay qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a s\u00e1u c\u0103n m\u1eaft-tai-m\u0169i-l\u01b0\u1ee1i-th\u00e2n-\u00fd m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> sinh t\u00e2m c\u1ed1ng cao<\/span> ng\u00e3 m\u1ea1n<\/span>, khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb h\u00e0o nho\u00e1ng<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00ean c\u00e1c th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 vi\u1ec7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span> ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> cho s\u1eafc th\u00e2n<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>. Nh\u1edd gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i<\/b>,<\/b> l\u1ea1c l<\/b>\u00f5<\/b>ng<\/b>,<\/b> c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> <\/b>m\u00e3i <\/b>m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau <\/b>v\u0129nh c\u1eedu<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng y\u00eau <\/b>ta l\u1ea1i <\/b>c\u00e0ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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T\u1ea0I SAO CH\u00daNG TA<\/span> C\u00d3 NH\u1eeeNG C\u1ea2M X\u00daC<\/span> VUI BU\u1ed2N<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> khi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> mu\u1ed1n ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. N\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> k\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i<\/span>, b\u1ecb l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh<\/span> ph\u00fac. G\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a m\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn<\/span>. S\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n vui b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, n\u1ebfu th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> th\u00ec vui c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea3o m\u00e3n th\u00ec bu\u1ed3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span>, ni\u1ec1m vui ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111i qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> t\u00f9y theo<\/span> s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vui-bu\u1ed3n. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> k\u00e9o d\u00e0i qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 khi bu\u1ed3n ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00ec sao. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bu\u1ed3n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00ec r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t, h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1<\/span> ta da di\u1ebft. Ta bu\u1ed3n ta bi\u1ebft ta \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n th\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span>, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> ta s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft v\u00ec nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201ct\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb9p khi c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf<\/span>, \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ea5t vui khi \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eb9n c\u00e2u th\u1ec1\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 khi c\u00f2n \u0111ang trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau, qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn<\/span> nhau, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n l\u00f2ng<\/span> nhau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang y\u00eau. Khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau r\u1ed3i th\u00ec m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c v\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ta, ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n mong mu\u1ed1n, b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 hay ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>, d\u0129 v\u00e3ng \u0111\u1eb9p khi \u0111ang t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> nhau. Khi \u1ea5y ai c\u0169ng lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> nhau. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eddi gian<\/span>, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee9 tr\u00f4i qua<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> hay ch\u1ebft m\u00f2n<\/span> ch\u1ebft m\u1ecfi trong nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> vu v\u01a1<\/span>. \u00d4m \u1ea5p n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ta th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u1ecb h\u1ea5t h\u1ee7i<\/span> ch\u00ednh v\u00ec ch\u1ea5p m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt c\u00f3. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7m nh\u1ea5m<\/span> ta da di\u1ebft, l\u00e0m ta h\u00e9o hon, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ea7u kh\u1ed5<\/span>. Khi ta c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00ec n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, ta kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ta \u0111ang vui v\u00e0 vui trong t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span>.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ea5t b\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ta \u0111i trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, v\u1eadt v\u1edd<\/span>, \u0103n trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5, lo \u00e2u<\/span> ho\u00e0i; b\u1ed7ng g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n vui v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Y\u00eau nhau sao th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 qu\u00e1 nh\u01b0ng ta th\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, khi h\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u1ecfe m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai ch\u1ecbu ng\u1eebng y\u00eau hay th\u00f4i y\u00eau h\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> ni\u1ec1m vui tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp, nh\u1edd v\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> n\u00e0y ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, m\u1edf mang b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef 5 gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng trong n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i ch\u1ee3t \u0111i v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, v\u00ec v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> n\u00ean ta luy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfc, nh\u1edb nhung, bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00fa \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> l\u00e2y nhi\u1ec5m l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt<\/span> khi \u0103n c\u1ecf r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i nh\u1ea3 ra \u0111\u1ec3 nhai l\u1ea1i n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 lo\u00e0i nhai l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 con tr\u00e2u, con b\u00f2 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. Ta nhai \u0111i nhai l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y n\u00ean ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> x\u1ea5u mang t\u00ednh ganh gh\u00e9t<\/span>, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span>, ta c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p<\/span> r\u1ed3i b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh<\/span> tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> th\u00eam gia t\u0103ng<\/span>. Bao nhi\u00eau v\u1ee5 \u00e1n cha gi\u1ebft con, v\u1ee3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ed3ng, k\u1ebb t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i nhau t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> \u0111au bu\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta<\/span>. Chuy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n, chuy\u1ec7n \u0111au ai m\u00e0 ch\u1ea3 c\u00f3. Ta t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u khi d\u0129 v\u00e3ng, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 qua m\u00e0 ta c\u1ee9 \u00f4m ch\u00fang v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft gi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ch\u1ebft l\u1ea7n ch\u1ebft m\u00f2n<\/span> trong t\u1eebng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat. <\/span><\/p>\n

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S\u1ef1 c\u1ed1<\/span> ch\u1ea5p \u1ea5y c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh do th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> m\u00e0 ta t\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh trong \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng \u0111i chung m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span>. Ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ta v\u00ec trong ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cthu\u1eadn v\u1ee3 thu\u1eadn ch\u1ed3ng t\u00e1t bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n.\u201d C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef<\/span> n\u00e0y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span>, bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb cho nhau nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> ni\u1ec1m vui. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, con c\u00e1i, chia s\u1ebb c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> hai b\u00ean, \u1edf ri\u00eang hay \u1edf chung\u2026 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c, th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn<\/span>, s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chu \u0111\u00e1o, h\u00e0i h\u00f2a th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1eb3ng xong. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, n\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bu\u1ed3n vui th\u00ec c\u0169ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span>, nh\u1edd v\u1eady cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> lu\u00f4n b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e3i nhau<\/span> trong nh\u00e0 r\u1ed3i d\u1eabn nhau ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e3i ti\u1ebfp n\u00ean c\u1ea3 x\u00f3m \u0111\u1ec1u nghe nh\u01b0 \u0111ang xem phim t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3i \u01b0\u1edbt \u00e1t<\/span>. Chuy\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ta n\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda<\/span> d\u1ea1y nhau, khi ch\u1ed3ng gi\u1eadn th\u00ec v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eddi, khi v\u1ee3 n\u00f3ng th\u00ec ch\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>. Ch\u00e9n \u00fap trong s\u00f3ng c\u00f2n khua, hu\u1ed1ng h\u1ed3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e0m phu<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u1ecd. Khi khuy\u00ean d\u1ea1y nhau ta n\u00ean n\u00f3i ngon n\u00f3i ng\u1ecdt, n\u00f3i cho c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u00fd.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> nh\u01b0 khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u00e2u y\u1ebfm<\/span> nhau m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c c\u0103n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u00e1c tr\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0 m\u1eaft x\u00fac h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span>, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt; tai x\u00fac \u00e2m thanh<\/span> l\u1edbn nh\u1ecf, \u00eam d\u1ecbu hay ch\u00e1t ch\u00faa; m\u0169i x\u00fac h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb th\u01a1m tho hay h\u00f4i th\u00fai; l\u01b0\u1ee1i x\u00fac v\u1ecb ngon ng\u1ecdt hay \u0111\u1eafng ch\u00e1t, chua cay; th\u00e2n x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m \u00eam \u00e1i<\/span>, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng hay n\u00f3ng b\u1ee9c<\/span>; v\u00e0 \u00fd x\u00fac v\u1edbi ph\u00e1p tr\u1ea7n<\/span> m\u00e0 sinh t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> hay gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf. M\u1eaft nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec t\u00e2m \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span> n\u1ed5i l\u00ean mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t. M\u1eaft v\u00e0 s\u1eafc t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau t\u1ea1o n\u00ean c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> hay ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t<\/span>. Do m\u1eaft c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t n\u00ean s\u1eafc c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 s\u1eafc th\u00ec m\u1eaft c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Khi tai nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> \u00e2m thanh<\/span> th\u00ec gi\u1eefa tai v\u00e0 \u00e2m thanh<\/span> ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, mu\u1ed1n th\u00edch nghe ho\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00e1n; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c<\/span>, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda c\u00f9ng kh\u1edfi l\u00ean s\u1ef1 ham th\u00edch<\/span> nh\u01b0 nhau, nh\u01b0 m\u0169i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u00edch x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m v\u1edbi h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, th\u00e2n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m l\u1eabn nhau t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> trong kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng. X\u00fac ch\u1ea1m d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> d\u1eabn t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00eca xa v\u00e0 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu d\u1eabn t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf; hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y khi ta u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span> m\u1eaft th\u1ea5y, tai nghe, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi tr\u1ea7n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> n\u00ean bu\u1ed3n vui l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n<\/span>, c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> d\u00e2ng tr\u00e0o t\u1ea1o n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu hay th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>. Th\u1eadt ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ecd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. V\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> v\u00ec th\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i. \u0110\u00e3 n\u00f3i th\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u00ec nh\u01b0 huy\u1ec5n<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c c\u00f3, ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i; v\u1eady kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 vui c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. C\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u1ef1c th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f2n ho\u00e0i v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a \u01b0u s\u1ea7u<\/span>, bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u1ea3nh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p hay n\u00ean th\u01a1 c\u00e1ch m\u1ea5y c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 v\u00ec \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3nh c\u00f3 vui \u0111\u00e2u bao gi\u1edd.\u201d C\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i th\u01a1 nh\u01b0ng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> c\u1ee9 x\u00e2m chi\u1ebfm t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/span> ta th\u00ec c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p kia c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/span> g\u00ec. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi ta \u0111ang vui v\u1edbi c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a Ch\u00e1nh ph\u00e1p<\/span>, ta th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y, ta nghe ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nghe th\u00ec ta-ng\u01b0\u1eddi-ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> nh\u01b0 nh\u1ea5t. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, nh\u1edd v\u1eady ta m\u1edbi duy tr\u00ec<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> khi hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 con v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. \u0110\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 k\u1ebft tinh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9a con gi\u00fap cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00eam m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eb1m th\u1eafm<\/span>. Nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u1edbn l\u00ean theo t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng, bi\u1ebft l\u1eadt, bi\u1ebft b\u00f2, r\u1ed3i bi\u1ebft \u0111i t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng<\/span>, bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i, bi\u1ebft c\u01b0\u1eddi, bi\u1ebft g\u1ecdi ba m\u1eb9, r\u1ed3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, \u0111i l\u00e0m, \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng tr\u00ean hai \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a hai b\u1edd vai cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span>, c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> n\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 trong m\u01a1. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> hay nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi<\/span> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00ec h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m l\u00fd do<\/span> th\u00ec h\u1ecd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o? C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec xem s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>. D\u00f9 sao \u0111i n\u1eefa th\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span> c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span>, ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. Do v\u1eady, nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cy\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng xa l\u00eca<\/span> kh\u1ed5\u201d n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> kh\u00f4ng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm c\u1ea7u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1ebf gian<\/span>. V\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng ra sao? H\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> m\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, l\u1eeda, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbp l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3ng l\u1ea1nh t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt Th\u00edch Ca M\u00e2u Ni<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> c\u00f3 cung v\u00e0ng \u0111i\u1ec7n ng\u1ecdc, v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con ngoan, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i \u00edt c\u00f3 ai v\u1edbi t\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu trong \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n 49 n\u0103m gi\u00e1o h\u00f3a<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c<\/span> m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, ai cho g\u00ec \u0103n \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh an<\/span> n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i th\u00ec l\u00e0m g\u00ec Ng\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf? Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span>, \u0111\u1ea1m b\u1ea1c<\/span> v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/span> tham-s\u00e2n-si tan h\u00f2a v\u00e0o h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng hai t\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt Th\u00edch Ca M\u00e2u Ni<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c<\/span> m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con xinh, ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i danh<\/span> v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea7n d\u00e2n thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span> v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh cao nh\u1ea5t? Th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> khi \u1ea5y c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb n\u00ean n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa<\/span> Da Du \u0110\u00e0 La<\/span> m\u1edbi sinh cho ch\u00e0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con trai b\u1ee5 b\u1eabm, kh\u00e1u kh\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng cha nh\u01b0 khu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fac. Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1eb1ng x\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1eb1ng th\u1ecbt nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n<\/span> g\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u1ee1 \u0111ang t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e0nh \u0111o\u1ea1n b\u1ecf \u0111i trong khi ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 n\u00e0ng \u0111ang trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng, tha thi\u1ebft. \u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n, sung m\u00e3n<\/span> nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> th\u00ec th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> v\u1eabn quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i sau l\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tuy trong l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n luy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfc, nh\u1edb th\u01b0\u01a1ng. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean \u01b0\u1edbc ao ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu hay hoa h\u1eadu<\/span> th\u00ec s\u00e1ng mai d\u00f9 c\u00f3 b\u1ecb x\u1eed b\u1eafn c\u0169ng vui v\u1ebb<\/span> ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span>, b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta ai c\u0169ng kh\u00e1t khao, th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span>. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1edf d\u0129<\/span> m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ra s\u1ee9c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span> l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3<\/span> b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00eam c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i danh<\/span> v\u1ecdng, v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con ngoan. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span> chung c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>, \u00edt ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> \u1ea5y. <\/span><\/p>\n

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V\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> S\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1t Ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u0169ng m\u00e3nh<\/span>, can \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, d\u00e1m hy sinh<\/span> t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ra \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u1ea7u ch\u00e2n l\u00fd<\/span> s\u00e1ng ng\u1eddi<\/span> cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> m\u1ed9t khi ai c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i g\u1ea7n g\u0169i n\u00f3 th\u00ec kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng l\u00eca b\u1ecf<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng ngu ch\u1ebft d\u1edf c\u0169ng v\u00ec n\u00f3. N\u0103m nay t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 54 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 trong l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t<\/span> th\u1ee9 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9ng<\/span>, v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span>, tranh h\u01a1n tranh thua \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat x\u00edu \u00e1i \u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> b\u1ecf h\u1ebft t\u00ecnh ri\u00eang v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00f2n h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t th\u1eadt<\/span> ra c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eafng cay v\u00e0 chua x\u00f3t l\u1eafm v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ki\u1ebfp<\/span> tu t\u00e2m<\/span> t\u1eeb r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf, mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra<\/span> ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c v\u00e0 th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/span> gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi<\/span> sinh-gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft. Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cao c\u1ea3<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> m\u1edbi tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i, l\u00eca bu\u1ed9c r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ra \u0111i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ea1o gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. N\u1ebfu Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m nguy\u1ec7n<\/span> cao c\u1ea3, l\u1edbn lao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> kh\u1ecfi chi\u1ebfc l\u01b0\u1edbi luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con xinh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec l\u1edbn lao, quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cao c\u1ea3<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span>. Ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft b\u1ecf t\u00ecnh ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c chung. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span>, v\u00ec khi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> h\u1ecd c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i an vui, l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p<\/span> h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh d\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> x\u1ea3 th\u00e2n<\/span>, hy sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng<\/span> c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i xa l\u00eca<\/span> \u00e1i d\u1ee5c<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec hu\u1ed1ng h\u1ed3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> S\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1t Ta khi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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D\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ed9i B\u1ed3 \u0110\u1ec1<\/span> v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 lo\u1ea1i<\/span> ma uy hi\u1ebfp, kh\u1ee7ng b\u1ed1<\/span> tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> nh\u01b0ng th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> v\u1eabn b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u00f9 qu\u1ef7 qu\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u0103m d\u1ecda<\/span> kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t. Ngay \u0111\u1ebfn tuy\u1ec7t chi\u00eau cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00faa ma l\u00e0 h\u00f3a hi\u1ec7n<\/span> ra h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c cung phi<\/span> m\u1ef9 n\u1eef v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa<\/span> Da Du \u0110\u00e0 La<\/span> th\u1eadt xinh \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t<\/span> Ng\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t trang tuy\u1ec7t s\u1eafc<\/span> giai nh\u00e2n s\u00e0 v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng \u00f4m ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y Ng\u00e0i m\u00e0 k\u1ec3 l\u1ec5, kh\u00f3c than trong n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> nh\u01b0ng Ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng lay \u0111\u1ed9ng. N\u1ebfu gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed<\/span> l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> t\u00ecnh x\u01b0a ngh\u0129a c\u0169 hay kh\u00f4ng? Hay ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> quay g\u00f3t<\/span> tr\u1edf v\u1ec1<\/span> theo ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi<\/span> con tim \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span> m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cao c\u1ea3<\/span> tr\u00ean c\u1ea7u th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt<\/span>, d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh? N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f9ng s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p nghi\u00eang th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed5 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh \u00e2u y\u1ebfm<\/span>, ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 ai ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i m\u00e0 l\u00e0m ng\u01a1. V\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eabn b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/span>, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> th\u1ea5u r\u00f5 h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> n\u00ean ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn nh\u01b0 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span>, m\u1eb7c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, van xin<\/span>, n\u0103n n\u0129 \u1ec9 \u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t ph\u00e0m phu<\/span> b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> sao c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> ngo\u1ea3nh m\u1eb7t l\u00e0m ng\u01a1 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 y\u00eau \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ea5p tay g\u1ed1i thu\u1edf n\u00e0o, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn h\u00f3a<\/span> t\u00e0i t\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u1ee7a ma v\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. L\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, kh\u00f4ng gian<\/span> nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ecdng, v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u im l\u1eb7ng<\/span> ch\u1edd xem th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft<\/span> ra sao. \u201c\u0110i \u0111i, ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u00e3y da h\u00f4i th\u00fai.\u201d Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i m\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u0169 ma th\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. V\u1eady l\u00fac \u1ea5y<\/span> th\u00e1i t\u1eed<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng<\/span> tuy\u1ec7t chi\u00eau g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> \u1ea5y? Ng\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng c\u00e2y cung Thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> c\u00f9ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i ki\u1ebfm tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e9t s\u1ea1ch<\/span> m\u1ecdi ma m\u1ecb trong t\u00e2m, do \u0111\u00f3 ma qu\u1ef7<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp<\/span> n\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/span> \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t v\u00f4 nh\u1ecb<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng hai tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span>. Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y: \u201cTrong \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 hai h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1n th\u00e1n<\/span>, ca ng\u1ee3i<\/span> v\u00e0 cung k\u00ednh<\/span> c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. H\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng vi ph\u1ea1m<\/span> l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m<\/span>, l\u1ea1i hay th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span>, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. H\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, hay l\u00e0m c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u xa<\/span> t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1eadt; nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd nh\u1edd g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c thi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu tri th\u1ee9c<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u0103n n\u0103n<\/span>, s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i<\/span> ch\u1eeba b\u1ecf<\/span> nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn t\u1ed1i t\u0103m<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u00e1p<\/span> Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cung v\u00e0ng \u0111i\u1ec7n ng\u1ecdc, v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con ngoan, th\u1ea7n d\u00e2n thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span>, quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh cao nh\u1ea5t trong tay nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn hi\u00ean ngang<\/span>, d\u0169ng m\u00e3nh<\/span> v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i d\u1ee5c<\/span> khi tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi \u0111ang sung m\u00e3n<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay ta t\u00f4n k\u00ednh<\/span> Ph\u1eadt, th\u1edd Ph\u1eadt<\/span>, l\u1ea1y Ph\u1eadt<\/span> su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> su\u1ed1t ki\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span>, tu t\u1eadp<\/span> cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng Ph\u1eadt m\u1edbi th\u00f4i. Th\u1eadt ra, ta \u0111i tu hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd<\/span> \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span>. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y tu tr\u1ebb th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4m gi\u1eef, ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> trong l\u00f2ng. V\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> th\u1ea7y tu nh\u01b0 b\u00f4ng xo\u00e0i, th\u1ea5y th\u00ec d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi th\u00e0nh tr\u00e1i xo\u00e0i th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y tr\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 s\u1ef1 si m\u00ea<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c ng\u0169 d\u1ee5c<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i \u00e2n<\/span>, chi\u1ebfc l\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng<\/span>, m\u1ed9t khi ai \u0111\u00e3 d\u00ednh v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u1edbi n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u00f3 b\u1ec1 tho\u00e1t ra.\u00a0Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u00e2m mu\u1ed1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i bu\u1ed9c r\u00e0ng th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00e0o Tam b\u1ea3o<\/span>, tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 ch\u00ed nguy\u1ec7n<\/span> tho\u00e1t ly<\/span> sinh t\u1eed<\/span>, c\u00f3 th\u1ea7y l\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> gi\u1edbi lu\u1eadt<\/span>, oai nghi<\/span>. K\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5c<\/span> ngay n\u01a1i t\u00e2m \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 thanh l\u1ecdc n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/span>, d\u1eb9p h\u1ebft t\u00e2m ma<\/span> b\u00ean trong th\u00ec t\u00e2m ma<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp<\/span> n\u1ed5i. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap nhau<\/span> h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i c\u00e1c phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, khi hi\u1ec3u nhau th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhau th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 nhau l\u1eabn nhau. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 ta bi\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ni\u1ec1m \u0111au. S\u1ed1ng chung th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp hay nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. Ch\u1ec9 l\u1eafng nghe th\u00f4i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> cho nhau. Chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng y\u00eau nhau ta c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> tranh c\u00e3i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n theo ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng, ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phai nh\u1ea1t. L\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean ai bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> trai l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00ec d\u1ef1ng v\u1ee3, g\u00e1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00ec g\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, m\u1ed9t khi \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i chinh ph\u1ee5c<\/span> cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u00e0ng trai th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0o hoa, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span>. Do v\u1eady, d\u00e2n gian th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u201cl\u1eafm m\u1ed1i t\u1ed1i n\u1eb1m kh\u00f4ng\u201d. V\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u1edf v\u1edbi ai l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>, thay t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 thay \u00e1o th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ta mang ti\u1ebfng<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0o hoa nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra<\/span> ch\u1eb3ng h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m ta th\u00eam gian d\u1ed1i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span>, l\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. S\u1ed1ng chung th\u1ee7y m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. Ki\u1ebfp ch\u1ed3ng chung hay n\u0103m th\u00ea b\u1ea9y thi\u1ebfp l\u00e0 do l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta m\u00e0 ra. V\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> c\u00f3 g\u00ec vui \u0111\u00e2u? Vui tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i vui suy \u0111\u1ed3i<\/span> nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span>, c\u00e1i vui \u1ea5y x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ao ch\u1ee9a n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed1c h\u01a1i v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t \u0111i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> tu t\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>. Do ki\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng con qu\u00e1 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i<\/span> l\u00e0m v\u1ee3. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, ch\u00e1u ch\u1eaft<\/span> c\u1ee7a nhau. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan n\u00e0y m\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, v\u1eadt v\u1edd<\/span> s\u1ebd l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 \u0111au cho nhau m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nh\u00ecn h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt th\u00ec m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nghe ti\u1ebfng chim h\u00f3t ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng chim h\u00f3t, x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m v\u1edbi th\u00e2n n\u00e0y th\u00ec ta bi\u1ebft n\u00f3ng l\u1ea1nh, tr\u01a1n nh\u00e1m. Ta ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n<\/span> t\u1eebng t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>. Khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p hay ch\u00e0ng trai d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi<\/span>, ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1edb nhung h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span>. S\u1ef1 nh\u1edb nhung hay m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00ec \u00fd \u0111ang n\u1eafm gi\u1eef v\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean hay l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian<\/span> t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> nhau, ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhau, ch\u01b0a s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> nh\u1edb nhung. Khi ch\u01b0a l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> ta ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0, m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00f4i m\u00e0 t\u00e2m ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec y\u00eau l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t \u00edt.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1eaft ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00ec ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y. Ta th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt trong hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p t\u00ednh<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho ta d\u00ednh m\u1eafc khi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>. Th\u00e2n x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m c\u00e1c v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> \u0111ang c\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span>, do \u0111\u00f3 ta kh\u00f4ng tham c\u1ea7u c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m<\/span>. \u00dd ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi ph\u00e1p tr\u1ea7n<\/span> ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, nh\u1edb ngh\u0129 v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, an nhi\u00ean<\/span> gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. Ta h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> hay nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span> b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1n<\/span> chi\u1ebfu hay ch\u00fa t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> h\u1ed7n h\u1ee3p<\/span> d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ea1o. Khi \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> ch\u00f9a th\u1ea5y s\u01b0 c\u00f4<\/span> hay qu\u00fd th\u1ea7y n\u00e0o hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh<\/span>, ch\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t th\u00ec l\u1ea1i sinh t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n se duy\u00ean k\u1ebft t\u00f3c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> l\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00e0m ni\u1ec1m vui ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> l\u00f4i k\u00e9o luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang<\/span>, n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a T\u0103ng th\u00e2n m\u00e0 t\u1eadp h\u1ea1nh bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span>, s\u1ebb chia. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu m\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y b\u1ecb ma b\u1eaft v\u00ec ma trong t\u00e2m ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5c<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> l\u1eddi con tim r\u00e9o g\u1ecdi<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian<\/span> nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu v\u00ec \u00e1i \u00e2n<\/span> ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0 s\u0129<\/span> t\u1ea1i gia<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n trong t\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9<\/span><\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ni\u1ec1m vui n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> <\/b>khi\u1ebfn <\/b>l\u1ec7 tu\u00f4n r\u01a1i<\/b>.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta \u0111i qua trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span><\/b> \u0111au bu\u1ed3n,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. <\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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TRONG TH\u01af\u01a0NG Y\u00caU<\/span> C\u00d3 H\u1ea0NH PH\u00daC<\/span> V\u00c0 KH<\/b>\u1ed4 \u0110AU<\/b> <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 trong c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> kh\u1ed5 trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t \u00edt. \u201cN\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ta y\u00eau nhau c\u00f3 v\u1ea7ng tr\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng, b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u sao s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00eam nay, nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3\u2026\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9ng m\u01a1 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 hay v\u1ebd l\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed s\u1eddn l\u00f2ng, trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 lu\u00f4n song h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> nh\u01b0 \u0111ang n\u1eafng r\u1ed3i m\u01b0a. Sau nh\u1eefng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft bao lo toan v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.\u00a0Khi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ta th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p, r\u1ed3i ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span>, ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh<\/span> m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0nh. N\u1ebfu k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec ta ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec ta bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i trong kh\u1ed5 h\u1eadn \u01b0u s\u1ea7u<\/span>. Nh\u1edb ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p khi\u1ebfn ta \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> hay \u0111au bu\u1ed3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap s\u1ee9c cho ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng duy\u00ean ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a gi\u00f4ng t\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> gi\u1eefa hai nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con tim nh\u01b0 m\u00f3n \u0103n h\u1ee3p kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb, ch\u01b0a c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0ng ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ec7t n\u00ean gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 xa r\u1eddi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> r\u1ed3i s\u1ed1ng trong \u1ea3o m\u1ed9ng<\/span> h\u00e3o huy\u1ec1n<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> th\u00ec c\u0169ng h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0103n nem th\u00ec c\u0169ng m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui kh\u00e1c. Nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> khi\u1ebfn ta \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean lo\u1ea1n. Ngh\u0129 tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ee3 b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span>, bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5, kh\u00f3c than, r\u1ed3i m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> b\u1edfi ta d\u1ec7t m\u1ed9ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> t\u1eadn tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e2y th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ed5. Khi \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau th\u00ec c\u1ee9 y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ngo\u00e0i \u00e1i \u00e2n<\/span> ra c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c lo l\u1eafng<\/span> cho cha m\u1eb9<\/span> hai b\u00ean\u2026 M\u1ed9t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9<\/span> ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh m\u1eaft tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn<\/span>, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u an \u1ee7i<\/span>, v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1<\/span> c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u00f9a xu\u00e2n<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta thi \u0111ua nhau c\u01b0\u1edbi, ta v\u1eabn ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn<\/span> b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi trong v\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5m th\u00eda t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eddi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf suy tho\u00e1i khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y trong kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> do \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y r\u00e1ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. L\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng con c\u00e1i nhi\u1ec1u khi ta c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e3i n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m<\/span> ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nhau chu \u0111\u00e1o. Trong s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n ra \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft bao ng\u1eadm ng\u00f9i<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t<\/span> ta m\u1edbi ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> nhanh ch\u00f3ng m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang c\u00f3.\u00a0C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ta v\u1edbi b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0ng ta d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe th\u00ec s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb<\/span> l\u1eafm. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 than v\u00e3n<\/span> \u201csao m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1c b\u1ebdo \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf, sao m\u00ecnh c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d v\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> ai ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1edfi m\u1edf l\u00f2ng<\/span> ra m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00ec c\u00f3 g\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> n\u1eefa? Trong kh\u1ed5 \u0111au ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1edbi v\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng<\/span> g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> th\u00eam l\u1edbn.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nhi\u1ec1u di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn<\/span> v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span> kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9<\/span> hay \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc ta ph\u1ea3i g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> 5 gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, kh\u00f4ng t\u00e0 d\u00e2m<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i<\/span> g\u00e2y say s\u01b0a, m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span>. Trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nhau t\u00ecm ra<\/span> gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef l\u1eeda trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn<\/span> v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/span> l\u00e0 tranh lu\u1eadn<\/span> v\u00ec th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn<\/span> gi\u00fap n\u00e2ng cao<\/span> hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, tranh lu\u1eadn<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u hay so \u0111o d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. C\u00f3 b\u1ed1n y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phai nh\u1ea1t trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span>, ta hay \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho nhau; do mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u00ean l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do<\/span> c\u1ee7a nhau, ta hay ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ngh\u1eb9t th\u1edf; do thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> n\u00ean l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1eadp khi\u1ec5ng, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> tan n\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, n\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> c\u0169ng s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a kh\u1ed5 \u0111au th\u00ec h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1edbi th\u00eam \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 ch\u00fat kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ta m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd k\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, m\u1edbi th\u1ea5m th\u00eda cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed5i thay, m\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> d\u00e2ng tr\u00e0o khi hai tr\u00e1i tim bi\u1ebft h\u00f2a quy\u1ec7n v\u00e0o nhau mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> hay c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n trong kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c. L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai ch\u1eb3ng th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c, khi ta ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> v\u1edbi tr\u1eddi xanh m\u00e2y tr\u1eafng, n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y th\u00f4ng reo, ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> an l\u1ea1c<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. S\u1ef1 an l\u1ea1c<\/span> n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span>, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a \u00e1i d\u1ee5c<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, khi ta \u0103n m\u00f3n y\u00eau th\u00edch kho\u00e1i kh\u1ea9u th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> ngon mi\u1ec7ng; tr\u1eddi n\u00f3ng th\u00ec m\u00ecnh b\u1eadt m\u00e1y l\u1ea1nh l\u00ean r\u1ed3i nghe b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> s\u1ea3ng kho\u00e1i, l\u00e2ng l\u00e2ng; bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 xe c\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span> chen ch\u00fat, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ta l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> y\u00ean t\u0129nh, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m x\u00e2y n\u00ean c\u0103n nh\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Suy ngh\u0129<\/span> v\u1ec1 k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> v\u00e0 hay ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 b\u1edfi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng xu\u00f4i ch\u00e8o m\u00e1t m\u00e1i \u0111\u00e2u, cho n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ta hay ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm<\/span> trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> hay qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i th\u00ec ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> vui s\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> h\u1ea3 h\u00ea v\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1eabn quay l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m ta ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi, ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i b\u00ean b\u1edd h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng. D\u0129 v\u00e3ng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m cho tr\u00e1i tim ta b\u1ecb co th\u1eaft, c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u01b0u bu\u1ed3n s\u1ea7u n\u00e3o<\/span> l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean l\u00e0m com tim ta r\u1ec9 m\u00e1u. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat th\u0103ng hoa trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi\u1ebfn ta m\u00ea m\u1ea9n, t\u00ea t\u00e1i c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/span>, ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 di\u1ec7u k\u1ef3 n\u00ean ta c\u00e0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> h\u01a1n. Khi m\u1edbi quen nhau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ee3t n\u1edf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nghe ti\u1ebfng nhau hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 d\u00e0i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf<\/span> k\u1ef7. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec \u0103n m\u1eb7c<\/span> l\u00f4i th\u00f4i<\/span> nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u trau chu\u1ed1t<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p. L\u00fac m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi ta mong mau h\u1ebft gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i nhanh v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau d\u1ea5u<\/span>, d\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau tu\u00f4n ra nh\u01b0 su\u1ed1i ch\u1ea3y l\u00e0m ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4i b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m<\/span> t\u00ecnh, chia s\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau m\u00e0 chia tay th\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu<\/span> hay kh\u1ed5 \u0111au s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t sinh, d\u00f9 ta c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf c\u00e1ch m\u1ea5y th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u1eabn \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> ch\u00e0ng trai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, hoan h\u1ef7<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn<\/span> ngh\u00e8o h\u00e8n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng danh<\/span> s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd<\/span> n\u00ean th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra th\u1ecd kh\u1ed5. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> vui bu\u1ed3n<\/span> l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ecd l\u1ea1c<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ecd kh\u1ed5. C\u00f4 g\u00e1i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin nh\u1eafn c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai \u201ch\u00f4m nay em \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 c\u00f3 m\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng, em \u0103n c\u01a1m ch\u01b0a, em \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec, em c\u00f3 nh\u1edb anh kh\u00f4ng\u201d th\u00ec th\u1ea5y trong l\u00f2ng d\u00e2ng tr\u00e0o ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00ec t\u1eeb n\u00e3y \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u0111ang ch\u1edd tin nh\u1eafn. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> suy ngh\u0129<\/span> v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> sung s\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> qua d\u00e2y th\u1ea7n kinh<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span> v\u00e0 ta mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i di\u1ec5n<\/span> l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c t\u00ecnh ca<\/span>, n\u1ebfu ta \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span> b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c \u0111\u00f3 ta s\u1ebd m\u1edf \u0111i m\u1edf l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 nghe v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c \u1ea5y. Khi g\u1eb7p duy\u00ean \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span> ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00e1i nhi\u1ec5m<\/span> v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> ho\u00e0i. Th\u1ecd g\u00e2y ra n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span>, t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o ch\u00fang r\u1ed3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> s\u1ef1 th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n<\/span>. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ecd nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng khi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> th\u00ec n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 c\u01a1n s\u00f3ng th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ed3ng th\u1ee7y<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf gian<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span><\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u<\/b>.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110i sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec \u01a1n ngh\u0129a<\/span> sinh th\u00e0nh<\/span><\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ph\u1eadt khi x\u01b0a <\/b>g\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ebfu c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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S\u00f3ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> tr\u1ea7n gian h\u00e3y c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3<\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhung nh\u1edb <\/b>m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span><\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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V\u00ec ta bi\u1ebft trong ta c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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V\u00cc SAO TA LUY\u1ebeN \u00c1I<\/span> V\u00c0 CH\u1ea4P TH\u1ee6<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c khi\u1ebfn ai c\u0169ng \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span>, nhi\u1ec1u khi n\u00f3 l\u1ea5n l\u01b0\u1edbt c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 cha, m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 m\u00e3nh l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n<\/span>, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u0169ng b\u00f3 tay ch\u00e0o thua. Nhi\u1ec1u doanh nh\u00e2n v\u00ec t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kinh doanh sa s\u00fat<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia<\/span> v\u00ec \u00e1i t\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111i\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9ng<\/span>, ngo\u00e0i chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 ch\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u1ed5 ch\u00e2n tr\u00e2u n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ee9c hay r\u00fat v\u00e0o h\u1eadu tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Nhi\u1ec1u tu s\u0129<\/span> v\u00ec t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 b\u1ecf tu ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi<\/span> con tim \u0111\u1ec3 sau \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> ch\u1ecbu tr\u1ea7m lu\u00e2n<\/span> trong sinh t\u1eed<\/span>. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> cho r\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> nh\u01b0ng trong \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00ec khi mong c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> th\u00ec n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ni\u1ec1m \u0111au b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, cho n\u00ean t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> l\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ta hay th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c<\/span>, danh v\u1ecdng<\/span>, l\u1eddi khen<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c th\u00fa<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i<\/span> l\u1ea1c, m\u1ea5t danh v\u1ecdng<\/span>, b\u1ecb ch\u00ea bai hay r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>. L\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c<\/span> n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span> d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o<\/span> nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ai n\u1eafm gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c<\/span> m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i nhau. Danh v\u1ecdng<\/span> cao sang t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh tr\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nhi\u1ec1u khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3 m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ho\u1eb7c khi l\u1eddi khen<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> s\u1ef1, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 khen l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng<\/span>, khen theo ki\u1ec3u n\u1ecbnh h\u00f3t, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 l\u1eddi khen<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng nhau, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ra d\u00ednh m\u1eafc ho\u00e0i n\u00ean m\u1edbi kh\u1ed5. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i vui c\u0169ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> duy tr\u00ec<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 \u0111au s\u1ebd x\u00e2m chi\u1ebfm t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/span>. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, c\u00f3 khi l\u00e0m t\u00e0n h\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng v\u1eady th\u00f4i, n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0o m\u00f2n s\u1ee9c<\/span> kho\u1ebb, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> b\u1ea1c nh\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1ecd<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec to l\u1edbn, ta \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i th\u00ec c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c<\/span>. \u0110am m\u00ea<\/span> trong l\u1ee3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span>, trong h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 sa \u0111\u00e0 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c vui<\/span> ch\u01a1i tr\u00e1c t\u00e1ng<\/span> th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft ta trong t\u1eebng \u00fd ni\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e3nh l\u1ea5y h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3<\/span> \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong nay mai. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c.\u00a0Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0m ta th\u00eam m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 hay h\u1eddn m\u00e1t, ghen tu\u00f4ng, d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, tan n\u00e1t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. Ham tu qu\u00e1 n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng sinh m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>, nh\u01b0 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y \u0111\u00e0n c\u0103ng qu\u00e1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee9t d\u00e2y. \u00cdt ai mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7<\/span> trong ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t n\u00ean trong khi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng nhau. Ta khi sinh ra ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi hai b\u00e0n tay tr\u1eafng v\u00e0 khi ra \u0111i c\u0169ng hai b\u00e0n tay tr\u1eafng, ta ch\u1ec9 mang theo<\/span> nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 th\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i. D\u00f9 cho v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con xinh, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span> d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o<\/span>, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> c\u00f4ng danh<\/span> hi\u1ec3n h\u00e1ch<\/span> th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i h\u1ebft n\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 0. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c lo l\u1eafng<\/span> cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, v\u1ee3 con<\/span>, c\u01a1m \u00e1o g\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00ean ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ch\u1eb3ng ai kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/span> ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> ch\u1ec9 lo \u0111i l\u00e0m, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 th\u00ec ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian<\/span> ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cha m\u1eb9<\/span>; nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ed3i c\u00f4 ph\u1ea3i lo toan \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9, n\u00e0o l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng danh<\/span> s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>, chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ed3ng, chuy\u1ec7n con, chuy\u1ec7n cha m\u1eb9<\/span> hai b\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n \u00e2n ngh\u0129a<\/span> kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u1ec9 khi ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c<\/span> trong m\u1ecdi sinh ho\u1ea1t<\/span>, bi\u1ebft bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> nh\u1eefng lo toan, tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i hay l\u00e0m ta th\u00eam m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>. Nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 tu hay kh\u00f4ng. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef gi\u1edbi<\/span> trong s\u1ea1ch<\/span>, trang nghi\u00eam<\/span> th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh<\/span> gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> nhau m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng chung th\u1ee7y, con c\u00e1i hi\u1ebfu thu\u1eadn<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> san s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> h\u01a1n. \u00d4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u00e1i c\u00f9ng nhau s\u1ed1ng theo l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y<\/span> m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tu t\u1eadp<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au d\u00ednh m\u1eafc \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi; do \u0111\u00f3 h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> s\u1ebd tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp, lan to\u1ea3 kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i<\/span>. M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> bi\u1ebft tu t\u1eadp<\/span> t\u1ea1i gia<\/span> gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0o ch\u00f9a m\u1edbi tu; v\u00ec th\u1eddi gian<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00f9a m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y? <\/span><\/p>\n

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B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t Qu\u00e1n Th\u1ebf \u00c2m<\/span> \u0111i v\u00e0o<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> tho\u00e1t kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui. Khi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i th\u00ec B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3; c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3ng vai cha m\u1eb9<\/span> hay v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 xa h\u01a1n<\/span> n\u1eefa B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t<\/span> \u1ee9ng th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u vai tr\u00f2<\/span>, ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> kh\u00e1c nhau. Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y, m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap con, con th\u01b0\u01a1ng cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, ch\u00e1u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e2n t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau v\u00ec t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> n\u00e0o c\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t<\/span> v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec nhau m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> n\u00ean b\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/span> h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft<\/span> tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u1ebft. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu tu t\u1eadp<\/span> v\u00ec c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n cao<\/span> ch\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u1ea3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ea5t t\u00edch trong th\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn tranh lo\u1ea1n l\u1ea1c<\/span>, b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 ch\u00f4n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n x\u00e1c m\u1ea5t t\u00edch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd m\u1edbi ng\u1ea9n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra v\u00e0 tin hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span>. R\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> m\u00e0 tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> v\u00e0 tin ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta tu t\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/span> n\u00ean ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tu cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, con c\u00e1i, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span>, khi ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft tu ta r\u1ea5t si\u00eang n\u0103ng, \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, ta th\u1ea5m th\u00eda nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i \u0111au b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> do kh\u00f4ng tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y tin v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 si\u00eang n\u0103ng tinh t\u1ea5n<\/span> m\u00e0i d\u00f9i, g\u1ea1n l\u1ecdc<\/span>, \u1eaft s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 th\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong nay mai. Trong tu t\u1eadp<\/span> c\u0169ng v\u1eady, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t ta ph\u1ea3i tin s\u00e2u Tam b\u1ea3o<\/span>, tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span>, tin ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a bao \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecda ph\u00fac v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi ph\u00e1p<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201c\u00c1i\u201d hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tham \u00e1i<\/span>, t\u1ee9c luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, y\u00eau th\u00edch, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef ch\u1ea5t \u00e1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam n\u00ean s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e2u h\u01a1n, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u1ea1t d\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u00ean ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng n\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span>, do \u0111\u00f3 th\u00edch c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span>, tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef th\u00ec kh\u00e1c, khi h\u1ecd t\u00f4n th\u1edd ai ho\u1eb7c y\u00eau ai, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> danh gi\u00e1<\/span> trong s\u1ea1ch<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ch\u1eb3ng may<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ra \u0111i s\u1edbm khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u1ee7 ti\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i con v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m ni\u1ec1m vui cho h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00ec t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd<\/span> h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> t\u1eadn t\u00e1m ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f3<\/span> th\u1ec3 sinh ho\u1ea1t<\/span> t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ra \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ham th\u00edch<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span>, m\u00e0y m\u00f2, khai th\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1<\/span> trong \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sao \u0111em lai c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef khi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> ai th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ecd m\u1edbi ti\u1ebft ra ch\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00e1i th\u1ea5m d\u1ea7n h\u1ebft kh\u1eafp th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span>, t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng r\u00ean khe kh\u1ebd. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00f3 bao b\u1ecdc l\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nh\u01b0 con t\u1eb1m x\u00e2y k\u00e9n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh bao b\u1ecdc ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> lu\u1ed9c ch\u00edn.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp<\/span>. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tham, tham nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span> n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9, mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i hay xua \u0111u\u1ed5i<\/span> n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span> th\u00ec luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp trong t\u00e2m, khi ta ham th\u00edch<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Trong s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u201csi\u201d, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> v\u1ec1 \u00e1i n\u00ean \u00e1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 khi m\u1ea5t \u0111i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n. T\u1eeb \u201c\u00e1i\u201d sinh ra n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft v\u00ec \u00edt khi<\/span> c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o nh\u01b0 ta mong mu\u1ed1n, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u01b0a v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n theo n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 sinh phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Th\u00edch nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i th\u00ec b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat m\u00e0 m\u00ea m\u1eabn theo h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i li\u1ebfc m\u1eaft hay m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i th\u00ec l\u00f2ng d\u1ea1<\/span> x\u1ed1n xang kh\u00f3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3<\/span>. C\u1ea3nh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh s\u1eafc<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u00e2m thanh<\/span>, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m tho, v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m \u00eam \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 k\u00fd \u1ee9c nh\u1edb ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh. \u00c1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00ec n\u00f3, n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00f4ng cu\u1ed3ng.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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D\u00e2n gian Vi\u1ec7t Nam<\/span> c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cth\u01b0\u01a1ng ai th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u2013 gh\u00e9t ai gh\u00e9t c\u1ea3 t\u00f4ng ti h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng\u201d. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng-gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 hai c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh tr\u1ea7m kha c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, n\u00f3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng l\u00e2y lan l\u00e0m cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> n\u00e0o c\u0169ng cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t ca s\u0129<\/span> n\u00ean \u0103n m\u1eb7c<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i nh\u1ea1c do th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u00e1t. C\u00f4 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng khen ng\u1ee3i th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, n\u1ebfu ai n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 th\u00ec c\u00f4 quy\u1ebft \u0103n thua<\/span> \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span>. T\u1eeb si m\u00ea<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span>, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang hay sai, ch\u00e1nh hay t\u00e0, m\u1ed9ng hay th\u1ef1c, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> hay \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh minh bu\u1ed5i s\u1edbm, c\u00f3 \u00e1nh n\u1eafng<\/span> m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi<\/span> chi\u1ebfu qua song c\u1eeda s\u1ed5, c\u00f3 gi\u00f3 m\u00e1t, c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng chim h\u00f3t hay ch\u1eadu hoa h\u1ed3ng<\/span> \u0111\u1eb9p; nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0a h\u00e8 n\u00f3ng b\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u1edbi bao gi\u1ecdt m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i, r\u1ed3i bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u m\u00e2y \u0111en che k\u00edn c\u1ea3 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi, che m\u1ea5t v\u1ea7ng tr\u0103ng t\u1eeb thu\u1edf n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u201cta sinh ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau\u201d. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng sai ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, ta c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, t\u00ecnh cha con<\/span>, t\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 con<\/span>, t\u00ecnh b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3, t\u00ecnh l\u00e0ng ngh\u0129a x\u00f3m, t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c; nh\u01b0ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ta m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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L\u1eafm l\u00fac ng\u1ed3i suy ngh\u0129<\/span> th\u1ea5y sao \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> hay qu\u00e1, t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb<\/span> cao nh\u1ea5t trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p con xinh, c\u00f3 th\u1ea7n d\u00e2n thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span> trong tay m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf<\/span> h\u1ebft. Ta b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong tay m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 ch\u1ea5p gi\u1eef ho\u00e0i? Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi hai b\u00e0n tay tr\u1eafng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> b\u1ecf gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u00f4m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 l\u1ee3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span>, s\u1ef1 cung k\u00ednh<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt<\/span>. H\u1ed3i m\u1edbi tu ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec, ta khuy\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1ed1 th\u00ed<\/span>, h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span> nh\u01b0ng ta l\u1ea1i \u00f4m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 n\u00ean c\u00e0ng \u1edf l\u00e2u trong ch\u00f9a th\u00ec hai vai c\u00e0ng qu\u1eb1n xu\u1ed1ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7i. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u00e1ng trong, b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi th\u00ec khi t\u1ed1i khi s\u00e1ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00eam, v\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> ta c\u1ee9 \u0111em con m\u1eaft si m\u00ea<\/span> m\u1edd \u0111\u1ee5c nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 v\u1ecb<\/span>. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 chia ng\u1ecdt x\u1ebb b\u00f9i th\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> n\u00e0y b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn s\u00e1ng trong, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi con m\u1eaft \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, bi lu\u1ef5 trong ta th\u00ec g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span>. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 duy\u00ean k\u1ebft t\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3 th\u00ec ta xin l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a nhau, hay k\u1ebft t\u00ecnh anh em, ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1i ta c\u1ee9 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> l\u1ea7m m\u00ea. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc<\/span>, b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean ta m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 do<\/span>. Khi ta luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 sinh ra v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc<\/span> th\u00ec t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 lo s\u1ee3, ghen gh\u00e9t<\/span>, m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7<\/span> m\u00e0 sinh ra h\u1eddn gi\u1eadn<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span>. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, v\u1ec1 sau d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> th\u00ec sinh ra th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span>, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00f4i k\u00e9o. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, t\u01b0 duy<\/span> s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> trong n\u00f3i n\u0103ng m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng cho \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean t\u00ecm t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> xa l\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec sinh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> \u0111em l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u \u01b0u phi\u1ec1n<\/span> m\u00e0 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf c\u0169ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ea7u kh\u1ed5<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng \u0111an d\u1ec7t y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean \u0111an d\u1ec7t th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span> trong gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf. S\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> sinh ra gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>. Ai kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> trong l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng gh\u00e9t, kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> sinh lo s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> th\u00ec c\u00f2n lo s\u1ee3 g\u00ec n\u1eefa<\/span>. Nh\u1eefng ai ham tu h\u1ecdc<\/span> theo gi\u1edbi ph\u00e1p<\/span> xa l\u00eca<\/span> s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span>, \u0111em t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m<\/span> cung k\u00ednh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> l\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1i, l\u00eca bu\u1ed9c r\u00e0ng m\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u00edch nhi\u1ec1u cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng trong kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u1ea5m th\u00eda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i \u0111au lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> si m\u00ea<\/span>, m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng<\/span> m\u1edbi quy\u1ebft ch\u00ed<\/span> t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> v\u00e0 tu h\u1ecdc<\/span> c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9, tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a xong l\u1ea1i tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c, c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t<\/span> l\u00ean nhau. Ta ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong th\u1ebf gian<\/span> th\u00ec ta \u1edf m\u00e3i n\u01a1i c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c<\/span> n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. D\u00f9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> m\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 \u00edt \u1ecfi nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1eabn tha thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi \u00e1i t\u00ecnh<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau tay trong tay cho\u00e0ng vai nhau \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eadt \u00e2u y\u1ebfm<\/span>, ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00ean h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt<\/span> xung quanh<\/span>. Trong t\u00e2m ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00ean ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u1eafm, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea7y tu b\u1ecb c\u1ecdp tha ra<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f9ng x\u00e2y t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u00e0 chim tr\u1eddi c\u00e1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta y\u00eau nhau v\u00ec c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m<\/span> x\u00fac n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00e1i r\u1ec9 ch\u1ea3y m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh g\u1ee5c l\u00fd tr\u00ed<\/span> c\u1ee7a con tim. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y k\u1ebft th\u00e0nh n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft, ch\u00ednh n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1eafn r\u0103ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span>. D\u00e2n gian th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4n ba n\u0103m, d\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd\u201d l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> nh\u1ecbn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t hai ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m nh\u01b0ng trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7<\/span> th\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m trong ch\u00f9a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> con s\u1ed1 0.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d n\u00ean tham \u0111\u1eafm, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d. N\u1ebfu cho th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d, ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d, thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d th\u00ec ta \u0111ang d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> v\u00e0o ch\u00fang m\u00e0 sinh ra bu\u1ed3n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1eadn gh\u00e9t. Ngay th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> v\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft th\u00ec th\u1eed h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0m sao ta n\u1eafm gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, nam c\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1eef nhu, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ebf gian<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nhau \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, s\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng ai th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai lo. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb<\/span> nhau v\u00e0 h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> khi c\u1ee9 b\u1ecb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1eafm n\u00edu. S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n ti\u1ebfn<\/span> c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span>, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> sinh \u00e1i, \u00e1i sinh lo s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> khi\u1ebfn ta t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u1ebfu y\u00eau qu\u00e1 sinh ra luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 ghen, c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t, c\u00f3 h\u1eddn, c\u00f3 gi\u1eadn. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> ta \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao<\/span> s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span>, l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00ecnh. Sau khi h\u1ecdc xong ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00e9o \u00faa, phai t\u00e0n v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Hoa l\u00e1, c\u1ecf c\u00e2y, s\u00f4ng h\u1ed3, ao su\u1ed1i v\u00e0 mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/span>, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp nhau c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang ki\u1ebfp n\u1ecd, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 h\u1ebft khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ecbu c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c trong t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. \u00dd th\u1ee9c<\/span> tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> trong trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> qua t\u1eebng h\u01a1i th\u1edf<\/span>, hai tr\u00e1i tim c\u00f9ng h\u00f2a quy\u1ec7n nhau trong n\u1ed7i nh\u1edb ni\u1ec1m th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 5 lo\u1ea1i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 tan si m\u00ea<\/span> trong m\u1edd t\u1ed1i. 5 lo\u1ea1i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span>, s\u1ef1 si\u00eang n\u0103ng, s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m<\/span>, s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span>. Ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u1eadt n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau. S\u1ef1 si\u00eang n\u0103ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u1eabn nhau l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. C\u00f4ng danh<\/span> s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m cho h\u1eb1ng h\u00e0 sa s\u1ed1<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch. Mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u<\/span> ta ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 d\u1ecbp k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi, l\u00e2u l\u00e2u t\u1eb7ng cho b\u00e0 x\u00e3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f3a hoa h\u1ed3ng<\/span>, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> quan t\u00e2m<\/span> ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. S\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u0129nh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ngay \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ta s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00e0 ta lu\u00f4n v\u1eefng ch\u1ea3i, bao dung<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u0129nh th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft<\/span> c\u00e1c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tu t\u1eadp<\/span> s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c<\/span> v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong kinh doanh, khoa h\u1ecdc, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span>, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span>, t\u00e2m linh<\/span> m\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. \u0110\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5, \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span> nh\u01b0ng m\u00e3nh l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng d\u1eef d\u1ed9i<\/span> h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u hay k\u1ebb ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, r\u1ed3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 sinh con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i. Do kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o sinh con nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0m g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng<\/span> cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng<\/span> d\u00e2n s\u1ed1. T\u1eeb th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> n\u00ean sinh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> r\u1ed3i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span>, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch. Ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim hay m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> cao si\u00eau n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 phim n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u00ec ta \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span> theo d\u00f5i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong phim. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng<\/span> s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ni\u1ec1m \u0111au th\u00ec ta th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> theo v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> n\u00ean ta b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ch\u00fang r\u1ed3i sinh n\u1eafm gi\u1eef. Ngay \u0111\u1ebfn suy ngh\u0129<\/span> ta c\u0169ng cho hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang n\u00ean b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn \u00fd ki\u1ebfn<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, do \u0111\u00f3 tranh c\u00e3i, bi\u1ec7n lu\u1eadn<\/span>, t\u1ea1o ra \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau. Khi ta y\u00eau ai ta mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e3i m\u00e3i<\/span>, v\u00ec s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t n\u00ean ta qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd<\/span> ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng<\/span>, kh\u00f3 b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi<\/span> ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> n\u00ean d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ecb k\u1ef7<\/span>, ai ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfn tranh b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5<\/span>; nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ta ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb<\/span>, \u0103n ngon<\/span>, m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb9p; khi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau coi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p, vun b\u1ed3i, l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh cho nhau. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1eefa c\u01a1m ai n\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p, s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t<\/span> th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng<\/span> h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u1ec1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m<\/span> chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c th\u00ec s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong nay mai. Trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> hay do tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0<\/span> khi\u1ebfn cho sinh ho\u1ea1t<\/span> v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u<\/span> v\u00e0 khuy\u00ean b\u1ea3o l\u1eabn nhau n\u00ean ti\u1ebft d\u1ee5c<\/span> n\u1ebfu tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Do ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, c\u00f3 th\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> trang nghi\u00eam<\/span> hay c\u00f3 th\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> d\u1ecb h\u1ee3m. Mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>. Do ham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ta c\u0169ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec5m \u00e1i<\/span> n\u00ean ta ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span>, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf ki\u1ebfp sau<\/span>. Lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i-t\u00e1i sinh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1eb9n \u01b0\u1edbc, k\u00fd k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> \u0111\u1ed3ng ki\u1ebfp sau<\/span> xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nhau ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm<\/span> trong bi\u1ec3n kh\u1ed5 s\u00f4ng m\u00ea. Th\u00f4i th\u00ec t\u00f9y theo<\/span> nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00ean nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> sinh t\u1eed<\/span> khi \u00e2n ngh\u0129a<\/span> oan tr\u00e1i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 h\u1ebft v\u00ec nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00e9o t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ec9 ki\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn nay<\/span>. Do ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm n\u00ean k\u1ebft th\u00e0nh n\u1ed9i k\u1ebft m\u00e0 sinh ra t\u00e2m \u01b0a v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t. \u01afa th\u00ec th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n n\u00edu l\u1ea5y, b\u00e1m gi\u1eef cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng khi h\u1ebft duy\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ai n\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111i. Khi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> oan tr\u00e1i m\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u00ean h\u1eadn th\u00f9<\/span>. Luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nam n\u1eef<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m r\u00fang \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i tim con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ee9 s\u1ed1ng loanh quanh<\/span>, l\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong v\u00f2ng<\/span> luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean; nh\u01b0ng ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span>, c\u00f3 s\u1ebb chia b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi y\u00eau ai ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> n\u00f3i l\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1edb nhung, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9<\/span> \u00e2u y\u1ebfm<\/span>, chia s\u1ebb, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, h\u1ecfi han, \u01b0\u1edbc h\u1eb9n<\/span>, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nam n\u1eef<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> th\u00ec ta c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i theo<\/span> con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> g\u1ea7y d\u1ef1ng. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf gian<\/span> s\u1edf d\u0129<\/span> ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, m\u1edf mang, ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1edd trong m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u00e0 do c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, th\u1eddi gian<\/span> l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd<\/span> tr\u00f4i qua<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd phai nh\u1ea1t theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng ch\u00f3ng qua. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1ebf gian<\/span> ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i? <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> c\u00f3 hai th\u1ee9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n. Ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span>, n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1edd c\u1ea3 m\u1eaft m\u00e0 qu\u00ean c\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/span>, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n cao<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd tham nh\u0169ng, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, l\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> s\u1ebd t\u00e1n t\u1eadn l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/span>, t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sao ki\u1ebfm th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n n\u00ean b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n<\/span>. Th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span>, th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng<\/span> nhi\u1ec5m \u0111\u1ed9c qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 do l\u00f2ng tham kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1y<\/span> c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. \u0110\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n<\/span> l\u00e0m ra kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>, \u0111\u1ebfn khi ph\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft th\u00ec ho\u1ea1 \u1eaft \u0111\u1ebfn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan bi\u1ebft lo cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng<\/span> r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb<\/span> bi\u1ebft bao. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec tham lam<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00ec l\u1eabn ch\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0o hoa, h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n<\/span>, t\u00ecnh t\u1ee9. B\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i<\/span> h\u1ecd tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u1eafm nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t<\/span> h\u1ecd hay hoang mang, lo s\u1ee3 v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gian d\u1ed1i<\/span> v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Do ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> v\u00e0o \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d n\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span>, n\u1eafm gi\u1eef m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh<\/span>, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> \u00e2m thanh<\/span>, m\u00f9i th\u01a1m<\/span>, h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb, s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m \u00eam \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Do ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1eadt c\u00f3 n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n n\u1eafm gi\u1eef ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecd h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>; khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ta vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n n\u1eafm gi\u1eef ho\u00e0i; khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec sinh phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> nh\u01b0 h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng<\/span>, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span>, m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u1ecb n\u1ebfm, s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m ho\u1eb7c \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1p tr\u1ea7n<\/span>. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00e3nh l\u1ef1c thi\u00eang li\u00eang<\/span>, thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng n\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>. T\u1eeb quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> khi sinh ra v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea7y d\u1ef1ng gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>. Trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chia tay, ly h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c hay c\u00e3i nhau<\/span> m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0 do ai c\u0169ng ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o c\u00e1i t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span>, ch\u1ea5p th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u00e3. Chung quy l\u1ea1i, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u1eeb ch\u1ea5p n\u00ean sinh b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>, c\u1ed1 th\u1ee7. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n<\/span> c\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f2n trong c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 kinh doanh, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, khoa h\u1ecdc, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> l\u1ea7m m\u00ea. Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m duy\u00ean cho h\u1eefu (c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi<\/span> do nghi\u1ec7p chi\u00eau c\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>) ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi<\/span> m\u00e0 t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> v\u00e0o c\u00f5i l\u00e0nh hay c\u00f5i d\u1eef. N\u1ebfu ta ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o \u0111o\u1ea1n ki\u1ebfn<\/span> (ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u1ebft) th\u00ec s\u1ebd ra s\u1ee9c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span>, tin kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi sau<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh gieo t\u1ea1o t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>. Vi\u1ec7c tin v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n<\/span> khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> trong l\u00f2ng<\/b>,<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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\u0110\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00eam l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>.<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n

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H\u1ea0NH PH\u00daC<\/span> HAY KH\u1ed4 \u0110AU L\u00c0 DO AI?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u1ebb th\u01a1. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 bi\u00ean k\u1ecbch, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n<\/span> v\u00e0 ki\u00eam lu\u00f4n di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 vai di\u1ec5n, c\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n th\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u1eadn gh\u00e9t, s\u1ea7u bi<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u1ea3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i<\/span> b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span>, \u0111\u1ea1m b\u1ea1c<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang di\u1ec5n tu\u1ed3ng tr\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u, khi h\u1ebft di\u1ec5n th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1<\/span> c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng thu\u1eadn bu\u1ed3m xu\u00f4i gi\u00f3<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u00ean gia chuy\u00ean t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed m\u1ec1m d\u1ebbo<\/span> trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf v\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> hay kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 do c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span>. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a kh\u1ed1i \u00f3c v\u00e0 con tim s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> v\u1ecb k\u1ef7<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ed5 \u0111au.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do c\u00f3 \u00fd ni\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng sau khi ch\u1ebft<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh<\/span> s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tan r\u00e3 c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> theo nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 gieo trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Th\u1eadt ra, c\u00f5i \u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f5i ch\u1ebft, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. Th\u1ef1c ra<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n<\/span> n\u00e0o m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 trong b\u1ea7u v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> bao la<\/span> n\u00e0y, do n\u00f3 si\u00eau vi t\u1ebf<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00e2m sinh ra t\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edbng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb t\u00e2m<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ecba<\/span> ng\u1ee5c s\u1ebd sinh ra \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00ec t\u00e2m t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> dung th\u00f4ng<\/span> nhau. T\u00e2m ngu si<\/span>, m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span> s\u1ebd sinh l\u00e0m s\u00fac sinh<\/span>. T\u00e2m th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> s\u1ebd sinh lo\u00e0i qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u00f3i. T\u00e2m gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh<\/span>, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u1ebd sinh l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u00e2m gi\u1eef gi\u1edbi<\/span> tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0nh th\u00ec sinh c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta c\u00f3 t\u00e2m gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 x\u00fai b\u1ea3o k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> hi\u1ec7n ti\u1ec1n<\/span>. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 an nhi\u00ean<\/span>, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, tham \u0111\u1eafm trong bu\u1ed3n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1eadn gh\u00e9t th\u00ec c\u00f5i Ph\u1eadt<\/span> hi\u1ec7n ti\u1ec1n<\/span>. C\u00e1c c\u00f5i l\u00e0nh hay d\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eeb t\u00e2m<\/span> th\u1ee9c sinh ra n\u00ean n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 t\u00e2m luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi<\/span> t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u00e2n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng sinh, c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> sinh. N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> c\u1ee7a tinh cha, huy\u1ebft m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u00e2m mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p ba m\u1eb9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Do mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span> v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ed1ng n\u00ean c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi<\/span> li\u1ec1n \u1ee9ng hi\u1ec7n<\/span> theo th\u00f3i quen<\/span>, t\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp<\/span> t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u00e1c lo\u00e0i chim s\u1ebb<\/span>, chim b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u\u2026 khao kh\u00e1t luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng<\/span> th\u1ea5p h\u00e8n<\/span> n\u00ean sinh l\u00e0m chim. Con c\u00f2 khao kh\u00e1t c\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1ed9ng bao la<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ea7u an<\/span> l\u1ea1c, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> khao kh\u00e1t c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho ta sinh v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> khao kh\u00e1t trong s\u1ef1 tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi<\/span> t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng; nh\u01b0 lo\u00e0i heo ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0103n r\u1ed3i ng\u1ee7. H\u1eefu trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp<\/span> Thi\u1ec1n trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, nh\u1edd v\u1eady trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a b\u00ecnh an<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Th\u1edf v\u00e0o<\/span> ta bi\u1ebft ta \u0111ang th\u1edf v\u00e0o<\/span>, bu\u1ed3ng ph\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ta s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn<\/span> d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u00ed t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span>, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Th\u1edf ra<\/span> ta bi\u1ebft ta \u0111ang tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. B\u00e0i Thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp<\/span> lu\u00f4n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>. S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u1edd c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 an l\u1ea1c<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> nhau h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111i\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9ng<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span>. Khi ta lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, nghi ng\u1edd<\/span> s\u1ebd l\u00e0m tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>. Ta hay ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00eam r\u1ed1i r\u1eafm, cay \u0111\u1eafng<\/span>.\u00a0T\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e1 c\u1ee9ng c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh m\u1ec1m, tuy kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 v\u1eabn b\u00ean nhau ta m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> qua s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft s\u1ebb chia v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 thay h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ea1ng<\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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T\u1ea0I SAO C\u00d3 S\u1ef0 S\u1ed0NG CH\u1ebeT<\/span> TI\u1ebeP N\u1ed0I<\/span> NHAU? <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span> l\u00e0 ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span>, ai c\u0169ng mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7<\/span> mai sau<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kinh t\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef cho m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m<\/span>. Ta bi\u1ebft ki\u1ebfn thi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00e1i t\u1ea1o t\u00e0i nguy\u00ean thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft truy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> qu\u00fd b\u00e1u<\/span> cho con ch\u00e1u th\u00ec m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span>. Ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd<\/span> hay x\u1ea5u x\u00ed<\/span>, tr\u1ebb trung hay gi\u00e0 nua<\/span>, c\u01b0 s\u0129<\/span> hay tu s\u0129<\/span>, lo\u00e0i n\u00e0y hay lo\u00e0i kia \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm v\u1ec1 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 \u0111i h\u1ecdc, \u0111i l\u00e0m, tham gia<\/span> c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh<\/span> h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span>, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span>, hay t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, do l\u00f2ng tham c\u1ee7a<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00ean ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng<\/span> m\u00e0 lo t\u00ecm c\u1ea7u b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Sinh l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u00f3, \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span> hay \u0111ang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 sinh th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 di\u1ec7t, khi c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tan r\u00e3 hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> n\u1eefa th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span>, hay \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 sinh ra v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i, n\u00f3i cho d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u<\/span> l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng sinh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec7t. Ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> c\u0169ng th\u1ebf<\/span>, h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi s\u1ebd sinh ra qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t, th\u1ecd m\u1ea1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> n\u00ean sinh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n<\/span> ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u<\/span> m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u s\u1eafc n\u00ean h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, t\u01b0 duy<\/span> v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00f9y theo<\/span> nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 cung b\u1eadc c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3<\/span> theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> ri\u00eang kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u1ea7m lu\u00e2n<\/span> trong lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i-sinh t\u1eed nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> c\u0169ng chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span>. Khi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt<\/span> v\u00ec bi\u1ebft bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0m ng\u00e3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do t\u00ednh v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> c\u1ee7a v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span> n\u00ean th\u00e2n n\u00e0y sinh ra r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy r\u1ea5t tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft; tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh ch\u1ebft, thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean<\/span> ch\u1ebft, thanh ni\u00ean ch\u1ebft, trung ni\u00ean ch\u1ebft; t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a gi\u00e0 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, c\u00e0nh gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e3y m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5 c\u00e0nh non. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n<\/span> bi\u1ebfn li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> trong m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd ph\u00fat tr\u00f4i qua<\/span>. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y qua l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> ng\u1eafn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1eadn k\u1ec1. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u t\u1ebf b\u00e0o trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 sinh ra c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o m\u1edbi. Khi v\u1eeba m\u1edbi sinh ra l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ebft theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span>. S\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> c\u1ee9 sinh ra r\u1ed3i ch\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i sinh ra, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 d\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> trong \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, v\u00ec ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang<\/span> m\u00ecnh n\u00ean s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5y, s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf ta b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> trong \u00fd ni\u1ec7m<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 ly th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c ly d\u1ecb<\/span> nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t<\/span> con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tr\u00f2n vai di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n mang theo<\/span> y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> v\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u00fd h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, l\u00fac b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an to\u00e0n<\/span> v\u00e0 che ch\u1edf<\/span> nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> c\u00e1c h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au do s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> \u1ea5y. Khi th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c<\/span> b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do<\/span>, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> lu\u00f4n mong m\u1ecfi<\/span> t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> th\u1ecd l\u1ea1c<\/span> trong th\u00fa \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 mong n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. B\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c cho d\u00f9 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 tho\u00e1ng qua mau. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n r\u1ee7 nhau l\u00ean ch\u00f9a s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i<\/span>, c\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3<\/span>, nghe ph\u00e1p<\/span>, ni\u1ec7m Ph\u1eadt-B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh Thi\u1ec1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> bi\u1ebft tu t\u1eadp<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. \u0110\u1ee9a con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, \u0111i h\u1ecdc, l\u1edbn l\u00ean, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, lo cho v\u1ee3 con<\/span>, trung ni\u00ean, gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft; h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ai c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i, danh v\u1ecdng<\/span>, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1i phao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong l\u00fac ch\u1ebft ch\u00ecm<\/span>, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> u\u1ed1ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong s\u00e1ng<\/span> t\u1ea1o; nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb 5 nh\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n tr\u00f4i n\u00ean c\u00f3 khi ta c\u0169ng tr\u1eafng tay; danh v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u1ee5t s\u00e1ng r\u1ed3i ch\u1ee3t t\u1eaft; t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i v\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i t\u00e0n phai. N\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>, quay l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hay nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 do<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> bu\u1ed3n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1eadn gh\u00e9t. <\/span><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1t b\u1ee5i<\/span> v\u00e0 to l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ecba c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i qua<\/span> giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh-tr\u1ee5-ho\u1ea1i-kh\u00f4ng hay sinh-gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft, ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f9ng. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta<\/span> sinh l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vui bu\u1ed3n<\/span> l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n<\/span>, l\u00fac th\u00ec h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1o<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, l\u00fac l\u1ea1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> o\u1eb1n o\u1ea1i trong mu\u00f4n v\u00e0n<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn cho ra ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a sinh t\u1eed<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u1eeb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> m\u00e0 ra. Bao nhi\u00eau tham \u00e1i<\/span>, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, ngu si<\/span> t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh oan gia<\/span> tr\u00e1i ch\u1ee7 hay k\u1ebft n\u00ean \u00e2n ngh\u0129a<\/span> v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 l\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i; nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra ta v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 b\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng<\/span>, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u. Ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft th\u00ec n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span>, danh v\u1ecdng<\/span> hay t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Sinh ra v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft \u0111i l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng<\/span> cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng<\/span> cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span> t\u1eeb v\u1eadt v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> lo\u00e0i c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n<\/span> linh thi\u00eang<\/span>, m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi ta m\u1edbi sinh ra, nh\u1edd c\u00f3 ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1eadn<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> \u0111\u1eb7t ra qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/span> khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ph\u1ea3i m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>, lao t\u00e2m nh\u1ecdc s\u1ee9c c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 ch\u00fat v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ecfn con m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 lu\u1ef5 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c<\/span> cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> th\u00ec t\u1ed1t; y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nhu\u1ed9m v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0u \u0111en t\u1ed1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tranh gi\u00e0nh<\/span>, chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t, gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00ec v\u00f4 minh<\/span> l\u00f4i k\u00e9o d\u1eabn \u0111i m\u00e0 lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i-s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f9ng, c\u1ee9 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp nhau trong ba c\u00f5i<\/span> s\u00e1u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu Ph\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t sanh t\u1eed<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t sanh t\u1eed<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i d\u1eb9p s\u1ea1ch v\u00f4 minh<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ph\u1ea3i d\u1ee9t tr\u1eeb luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p th\u1ee7<\/span>, t\u1ee9c ch\u1ea5p th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 ng\u00e3 s\u1edf<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 v\u00f4 minh<\/span>. T\u1eeb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> duy\u00ean h\u00e0nh, h\u00e0nh duy\u00ean<\/span> th\u1ee9c, th\u1ee9c duy\u00ean danh s\u1eafc<\/span>, danh s\u1eafc<\/span> duy\u00ean l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span>, l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span> duy\u00ean x\u00fac, x\u00fac duy\u00ean th\u1ecd, th\u1ecd duy\u00ean \u00e1i, \u00e1i duy\u00ean<\/span> th\u1ee7, th\u1ee7 duy\u00ean h\u1eefu, h\u1eefu duy\u00ean<\/span> sinh, sinh ra r\u1ed3i gi\u00e0, ch\u1ebft. C\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i-s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> nhau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f9ng do v\u00f4 minh<\/span> m\u00e0 ra. Trong nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n Kinh Ph\u1eadt<\/span> d\u1ea1y v\u00f4 minh<\/span> ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1eafc th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> n\u00e0y duy\u00ean h\u1ee3p gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 m\u00e0 ta l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, r\u1ed3i sinh ra ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span>. T\u00e2m suy t\u01b0, ngh\u0129 t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> duy\u00ean theo b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> m\u00e0 cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eadt ta\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft, c\u00f3 ai s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft tu th\u00ec th\u1ea5y gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ebd th\u1eadt, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> t\u1edbi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 Ph\u1eadt c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu Ph\u1eadt tr\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 nh\u1eadp di\u1ec7t<\/span> n\u0103m 80 tu\u1ed5i. Ai c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ee9c<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ai c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ee3 gi\u00e0, s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft<\/span> c\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec hoang mang, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> l\u00e0m chi cho v\u00f4 \u00edch<\/span>. Thay v\u00ec s\u1ee3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb<\/span> \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn th\u00ec c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta<\/span> qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> khi ch\u1ebft r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u n\u00ean m\u1edbi kh\u1ed5. L\u00fac c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb kho\u1ebb ta h\u00e3y lo l\u00e0m ph\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 tu t\u1eadp<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac gi\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd b\u1edbt kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> hay n\u00f3i<\/span> b\u1ec7nh kh\u1ed5<\/span>, v\u1eady \u0111au b\u1ee5ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u1ed5 to\u00e0n th\u00e2n<\/span> hay ch\u1ec9 kh\u1ed5 c\u00e1i b\u1ee5ng? Ta \u0111au ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o th\u00ec th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> l\u00e2u nay ta c\u1ee9 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m<\/span>, c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 \u0111au c\u00e1i tay th\u00ec c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111au n\u00ean than van, r\u00ean r\u1ec9 \u201c\u0111au qu\u00e1!\u201d; nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra ta \u0111au hay ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i tay \u0111au? Tay \u0111au th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u0111au m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ngay tay ch\u1ee9 c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 \u0111au. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> hay c\u00f3 t\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00f3a<\/span> n\u00ean khi tay \u0111au th\u00ec ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111au n\u00ean qu\u1eb1n qu\u1ea1i, r\u00ean xi\u1ebft. Th\u00e2n t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00ec khi n\u00f3 h\u1ebft th\u1edf m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tan r\u00e3 theo ch\u1ee9? Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> n\u00e0y r\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ebft n\u00ean m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu<\/span>, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> ai ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> s\u1ef1 t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> khi b\u1ec7nh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i xem th\u00e2n t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1<\/span> ta \u0111au nh\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ta ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n can \u0111\u1ea3m<\/span> nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y<\/span> s\u1ef1 \u0111au l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111au ch\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111au, n\u1ebfu ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eady ta s\u1ebd b\u1edbt \u0111au. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec trong l\u00fac \u0111au c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ea5y \u0111au l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 s\u1ebd k\u00e9o d\u00e2y d\u01b0a<\/span>, nay nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u, mai \u0111au b\u1ee5ng, m\u1ed1t nh\u1ee9c l\u01b0ng, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ec7nh l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5.<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f2n c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng? Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3i theo con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian<\/span> v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e0m t\u1ee5c<\/span> r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd th\u00e2n, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft th\u00ec th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5. V\u1eady ch\u1ebft kh\u1ed5<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o th\u00e2n do mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef n\u00f3 m\u00e3i. Cho n\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian<\/span> khi g\u1ea7n ch\u1ebft<\/span> s\u1ebd ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tu t\u1eadp<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> khi \u0111ang c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d, l\u00e0 \u201cta\u201d, l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00f4i\u2019, khi m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5; nh\u01b0ng th\u00e2n n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i<\/span>, t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3, \u0111\u1ee7 duy\u00ean th\u00ec n\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh, h\u1ebft duy\u00ean n\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn<\/span> theo d\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c; n\u00ean khi th\u00e2n s\u1eafp ho\u1ea1i, ta ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t h\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do \u0111\u00f3, ta ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec1 d\u1eb9p \u00e1i, th\u1ee7; nh\u01b0ng \u00e1i l\u00e0 \u00e1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec? Th\u01b0\u1eddng trong nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i \u00e1i n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u00e1i ng\u00e3. \u00c1i ng\u00e3 t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 y\u00eau qu\u00fd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec \u00e1i ng\u00e3 n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00ean ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u qua c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean th\u00e2n n\u00e0y s\u1eafp ho\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh kh\u1ed5, kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 ho\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t t\u00ecm th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e1 v\u00e0o, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f4 minh<\/span> sinh h\u00e0nh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. T\u1eeb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u00e1i ng\u00e3 n\u00ean t\u00ecm th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1a v\u00f4 r\u1ed3i sanh ra ng\u00e3 k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp<\/span>, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> n\u00f3 d\u1eabn m\u00ecnh \u0111i trong sanh t\u1eed<\/span> d\u00e0i d\u00e0i. Sinh t\u1eed<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ba \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ean th\u00ec c\u00f2n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, sinh t\u1eed<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111i ba \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span>, qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u00f3i, s\u00fac sinh<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1eadn<\/span>. Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ba \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ean th\u00ec \u00edt nh\u1ea5t<\/span> ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> 5 gi\u1edbi, tu 10 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ph\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ed1 th\u00ed<\/span> c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. N\u1ebfu trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> e r\u1eb1ng th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> v\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p<\/span> c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 g\u1eb7p h\u01a1n. Do \u00e1i ng\u00e3 m\u00e0 sanh t\u1eed<\/span> ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng nh\u01b0ng ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> d\u00f9 sao c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee1 h\u01a1n. D\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1i ng\u00e3 th\u00ec v\u00f2ng sanh t\u1eed<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi sau<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n, n\u1ebfu d\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111i tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, d\u1eb9p \u00e1i ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t cay \u0111\u1eafng<\/span>; m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh<\/span> g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng d\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 v\u00ec ai c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh h\u1ebft; \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n d\u1eb9p th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao d\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2y? <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y th\u00e2n n\u00e0y v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>, t\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft th\u00e2n<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d th\u1eadt th\u00ec b\u1edbt th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 d\u1eb9p t\u1eeb t\u1eeb t\u00e2m<\/span> ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>, c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201cta\u201d th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o n\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1n th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, qu\u00e1n c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>. C\u00e1c ph\u00e1p v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> th\u00ec th\u00e2n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3, c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u1eadt th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t, c\u00f2n c\u00e1i th\u00e2n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> r\u1ed3i. N\u1ebfu th\u00e2n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 th\u00ec ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec? Ta nh\u1edd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 tr\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh tr\u00ec ng\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p<\/span> ki\u00ean c\u1ed1<\/span> t\u1eeb b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u nay. Do \u00e1i ng\u00e3 n\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1eadt chung quanh ta m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u00e1i theo v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef<\/span> m\u00e3i. M\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u1edbi th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n ngon<\/span>, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0103n c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u1edbi th\u00edch m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m<\/span> trau chu\u1ed1t<\/span> th\u00e2n n\u00e0y n\u00ean l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng th\u00eam d\u00ednh m\u1eafc. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> cho th\u00e2n n\u00e0y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eeba \u00fd<\/span> th\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00e1i ng\u00e3 th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span>, chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span> th\u00ec sinh ch\u1ea5p gi\u1eef r\u1ed3i d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f9ng. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u00e2n do t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3, khi h\u1ebft duy\u00ean th\u00ec t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> ph\u00e2n ly, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean ta soi th\u1ea5y s\u1eafc th\u00e2n<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. M\u1eaft th\u1ea5y s\u1eafc li\u1ec1n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1eb9p x\u1ea5u, \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu<\/span>, x\u1ea5u th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e1n b\u1ecf. Tai nghe m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c t\u00ecnh t\u1ee9 li\u1ec1n th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> vui l\u00f2ng<\/span>. M\u0169i ng\u1eedi h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m d\u1ecbu ng\u1ecdt th\u00ec \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u00edch, th\u1ea5y m\u00f9i h\u1ed1i th\u1ed1i th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. L\u01b0\u1ee1i n\u1ebfm th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> r\u1ed3i ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> ngon d\u1edf, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1edd c\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1ee1i ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> ngon d\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span>. V\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0103n m\u00f3n g\u00ec ngon th\u00ec khen, d\u1edf th\u00ec ch\u00ea, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> ta \u0111ang l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ecd u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu d\u00f9ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span> soi s\u00e1ng<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y th\u1ecd u\u1ea9n<\/span> do s\u00e1u c\u0103n (m\u1eaft-tai-m\u0169i-l\u01b0\u1ee1i-th\u00e2n-\u00fd) v\u00e0 s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> (s\u1eafc-thanh-h\u01b0\u01a1ng-v\u1ecb-x\u00fac-ph\u00e1p) h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span>. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> ngon d\u1edf nu\u1ed1t qua li\u1ec1n h\u1ebft, \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1eadt. Cho n\u00ean, qu\u00e1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u1ecd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ch\u00fang.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u01b0\u1edfng u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> hay t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u00e1u tr\u1ea7n<\/span> c\u1ea3nh. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 qua, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. Do v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> d\u00f9ng tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c<\/span> th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang duy\u00ean h\u1ee3p gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> ch\u1edb c\u00f3 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e2u. <\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u00e0nh u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy t\u01b0, ngh\u0129 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ch\u1ee3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u00ednh mua n\u1ea5m, mua th\u1ecbt, mua tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y hay mua rau c\u1ea3i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3\u2026 ta t\u00ednh tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi ra ch\u1ee3 mua. Khi mua v\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i t\u00ednh ch\u1ebf bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u00f3n g\u00ec \u0103n cho ngon, c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i ta h\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129<\/span> r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i t\u00ednh to\u00e1n. V\u1eady suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, t\u00ednh c\u00e1i n\u00e0y t\u1edbi c\u00e1i kia c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. S\u1ef1 suy t\u01b0, ngh\u0129 t\u00ednh \u0111\u00f3 khi g\u1eb7p duy\u00ean th\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t ra, h\u1ebft duy\u00ean l\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e0nh u\u1ea9n<\/span> sinh di\u1ec7t<\/span> nh\u01b0 d\u00f2ng n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1ee9c u\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1eb9p x\u1ea5u, tr\u1eafng \u0111en, cao th\u1ea5p, \u0111\u00fang sai \u2026 Th\u1ee9c u\u1ea9n<\/span> t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> hay ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 duy\u00ean t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> m\u1edbi ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t? M\u1eaft th\u1ea5y s\u1eafc li\u1ec1n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1eb9p x\u1ea5u, tai-m\u0169i-l\u01b0\u1ee1i-th\u00e2n-\u00fd c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i do c\u0103n-tr\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> m\u1edbi c\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span>. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> th\u1ecd-t\u01b0\u1edfng-h\u00e0nh-th\u1ee9c (danh) l\u00e0 t\u00e2m sinh di\u1ec7t<\/span> n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> c\u00f3. S\u1eafc th\u00e2n<\/span> do b\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t-n\u01b0\u1edbc-gi\u00f3-l\u1eeda h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i<\/span> n\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao soi s\u00e1ng<\/span> l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecdc su\u00f4ng, hi\u1ec3u su\u00f4ng l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n n\u0103m U\u1ea9n<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u1eadt th\u00ec m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span>, n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n n\u0103m U\u1ea9n<\/span> do duy\u00ean h\u1ee3p gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span>. M\u00ea hay t\u1ec9nh l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1edd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1n<\/span> chi\u1ebfu, xem x\u00e9t<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> ta d\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i s\u1ebd b\u1edbt ch\u1ea5p th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u00e3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span>, hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5<\/span> m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u do s\u1ef1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt l\u00e0 tr\u00f9ng tr\u00f9ng<\/span> duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span>. D\u1ee9t b\u1ecf \u00e1i, th\u1ee7 l\u00e0 c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t d\u00e2y x\u00edch 12 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o qu\u1ea3<\/span> c\u1ee7a Duy\u00ean gi\u00e1c th\u1eeba<\/span>. M\u01b0\u1eddi hai nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u00e2y chuy\u1ec1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> chuy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb kh\u00e2u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e2u kh\u00e1c trong nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi. Do c\u00f3 v\u00f4 minh<\/span> n\u00ean c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u1edf c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eddi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> n\u00ean duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> ra th\u1ee9c t\u00e2m<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Th\u1ee9c t\u00e2m<\/span> \u1ea5y theo nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o<\/span> duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra danh s\u1eafc<\/span>, danh s\u1eafc<\/span> duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span>, l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span> duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra x\u00fac, x\u00fac duy\u00ean sinh<\/span> ra th\u1ecd. Th\u1ee9c, danh s\u1eafc<\/span>, l\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp<\/span>, x\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00e1i qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> d\u1ecb th\u1ee5c<\/span> (qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i nh\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n hay \u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc) c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi t\u00e2m ch\u00fang sanh<\/span> ch\u1ecbu c\u00e1i qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec do s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i<\/span> gi\u1eefa th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh l\u1ea1i sinh ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e1i. Do c\u00f3 \u01b0a-gh\u00e9t m\u00e0 g\u1eafn b\u00f3<\/span> v\u1edbi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh r\u1ed3i ch\u1ea5p l\u00e0 th\u1eadt c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00e2n<\/span> t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span> nh\u01b0 huy\u1ec5n<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee7. Do c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 huy\u1ec5n h\u00f3a<\/span> l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u1eadt c\u00f3. Th\u00e2n c\u0169ng c\u00f3, c\u1ea3nh c\u0169ng c\u00f3, \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u00f3, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3, r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 sinh ra c\u00f3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span>. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu b\u00e1o th\u00ec khi h\u1ebft th\u00e2n n\u00e0y nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e1o<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1eabn d\u1eaft v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c trong v\u1ecb lai<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 sinh, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 sinh th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 gi\u00e0-ch\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, \u00e1i ng\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i<\/span>, tham mu\u1ed1n<\/span> ch\u1ea5p gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec \u00e1i ng\u00e3 n\u00ean ai quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e2n n\u00e0y th\u00ec ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn<\/span>. Th\u1ee9 hai, v\u00ec \u00e1i ng\u00e3 n\u00ean ai \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e2n n\u00e0y th\u00ec ta th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf. Th\u1ee9 ba, v\u00ec \u00e1i ng\u00e3 m\u00e0 lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> sinh t\u1eed<\/span> c\u1ee9 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp, khi m\u1ea5t th\u00e2n n\u00e0y th\u00ec t\u00ecm th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00f9ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n n\u00e0y h\u01b0 d\u1ed1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt<\/span> th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh kh\u1ed5; gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ed5, b\u1ec7nh kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ed5, ch\u1ebft c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ed5. Cho n\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft tu l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f2n \u0111ang kh\u1ed5 th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho tha nh\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> t\u1eeb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u do nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u1edd v\u1eady ta th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng an nhi\u00ean<\/span>, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> soi s\u00e1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea7m ch\u1ea5p m\u00e0 si m\u00ea<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. Khi \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng r\u1ed3i ta m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u1ea1i cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7m ch\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f3. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn Thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n<\/span> l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 soi s\u00e1ng<\/span> ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hay gi\u1ea3, th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh thanh t\u1ecbnh<\/span> hay \u00f4 u\u1ebf\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, m\u01b0\u1eddi hai nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> l\u00e0 ph\u00e9p tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a Duy\u00ean gi\u00e1c th\u1eeba<\/span>, ph\u00e9p n\u00e0y ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu qu\u00e1n s\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> s\u1ef1 lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u do nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi<\/span>. Nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> h\u1ed9i h\u1ee3p th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201csinh\u201d, nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> tan r\u00e3 th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cdi\u1ec7t\u201d. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi Ph\u1eadt ra \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd<\/span> nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> m\u00e0 ra kh\u1ecfi lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> sinh t\u1eed<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u00e1c<\/span>. C\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u00e1c<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00e1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt d\u00f9 th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> hay ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span>, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u do nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> n\u00ean gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3<\/span> c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh. C\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u00e1c<\/span> qu\u00e1n s\u00e1t<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean ng\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>, th\u00e2n c\u0169ng v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>, cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>. M\u1ed7i h\u00e0nh gi\u1ea3<\/span> nh\u1edd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n s\u00e1t<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean d\u1ea7n h\u1ed3i ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 m\u00ea ch\u1ea5p<\/span> th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u00e3, th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> do \u00e1i th\u1ee7 m\u00e0 ra, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9<\/span> t\u1eebng ph\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi n\u00e0o vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span> m\u1edbi th\u00f4i. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ta l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta<\/b> <\/b>chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> <\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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Ta cho nhau trong t\u1eebng h\u01a1i th\u1edf<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/address>\n
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