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CON NG\u01af\u1edcI<\/span> L\u00c0 M\u00c2U THU\u1eaaN<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n


Th\u00edch \u0110\u1ea1t Ma<\/span> Ph\u1ed5 Gi\u00e1c<\/span><\/span>
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Ai s\u1ed1ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span> v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. Tuy c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129<\/span> v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span> nh\u01b0th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng m\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00f2n t\u00e2m nguy\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i ch\u00f4ng gai<\/span>, c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby<\/span>. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i<\/span>. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1eed nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh xem nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u. Ai c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y s\u1edf d\u0129<\/span> c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> l\u00e0 do con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf ngay n\u01a1i th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, do t\u00e2m \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> m\u00e0 ra. Ch\u1eafc ai c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y t\u1eeb khi ta m\u1edbi l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi tr\u00fat h\u01a1i th\u1edf<\/span> cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> th\u00ec trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n vui. C\u01a1n vui v\u1eeba tho\u00e1ng qua, c\u01a1n bu\u1ed3n l\u1ea1i k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ebfn; \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e0nh sanh-gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> ho\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3nh ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3<\/span>, thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span>, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, \u00e2n \u00e1i<\/span> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ph\u1ea3i xa l\u00eca<\/span>, r\u1ed3i o\u00e1n th\u00f9 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> l\u00f4i k\u00e9o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0m ta ch\u1ecbu \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ed1n bi\u1ec3n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa n\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3n n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft<\/span> \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 si m\u00ea<\/span> cu\u1ed3ng v\u1ecdng<\/span> c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ng\u1eebng r\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> duy nh\u1ea5t<\/span> l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span>, v\u1ecb tha<\/span>. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n<\/span> x\u01b0a nay<\/span> c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1i B\u1ed3 t\u00e1t<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn nh\u1edd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tu t\u1eadp<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n, d\u1ee9t \u00e1c l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh. \u0110\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span> gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> – t\u1ef1 l\u1ee3i<\/span>, l\u1ee3i tha<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 san s\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp h\u1ecdc r\u1ed9ng<\/span>, nghe nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u1edb h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 Ph\u00e1p m\u00f4n<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng b\u1eb1ng chuy\u00ean tu<\/span> h\u1ea1nh gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi; n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc su\u00f4ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tu th\u00ec kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 r\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1eafm xem ho\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 tu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i xa gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e9p m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea3i che m\u1eaft b\u1ecbt tai<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span>, v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf<\/span> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> r\u1ed3i \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u1ea7n quy\u1ec1n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u mong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai tr\u01b0\u1eddng sanh<\/span>, b\u1ea5t t\u1eed<\/span>. N\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u ch\u1eef \u201ctu\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 \u00edch cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span>, l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh tr\u00e1nh d\u1eef, bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/span> ph\u1ee5c t\u1eeb th\u00e2n-mi\u1ec7ng-\u00fd n\u00ean th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an l\u1ea1c<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. V\u1eady tu l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00f3m t\u1eaft<\/span> th\u00ec tu c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 s\u1eeda, x\u1ea5u xa<\/span> s\u1eeda th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>, t\u00e0 v\u1ea1y<\/span> s\u1eeda th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c<\/span> s\u1eeda th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh<\/span>, m\u00ea m\u1edd s\u1eeda th\u00e0nh s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> \u2026 C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, “Ph\u1eadt t\u1ee9c t\u00e2m<\/span>, t\u00e2m t\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 tu c\u00e1i t\u00e2m \u1ea5y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i\u201d; m\u1edbi nghe qua t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd<\/span>, song x\u00e9t k\u1ef9 m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a b\u00e2ng qu\u01a1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u01b0 \u00f4ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i “cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn\u201d; v\u1eady ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/span> tham-s\u00e2n-si l\u00e0m \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>; tuy m\u1edbi nghe qua r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1 nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t k\u1ef9 th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> t\u1ea1i gia<\/span> c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia<\/span> lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 bu\u1ed3n vui, th\u01b0\u01a1ng gh\u00e9t, ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea5y<\/span>, t\u1ed1t x\u1ea5u, h\u01a1n thua. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> hay than v\u00e3n<\/span> t\u1ea1i sao gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, ho\u1eb7c \u1edf trong ch\u00f9a sao kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m hi\u1ec7p l\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. T\u1eadp th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u1ebft. L\u00fd do<\/span> g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n<\/span>, b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i xem con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00ecnh ra sao. Ai c\u0169ng ng\u1ee1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1ng<\/span> v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, kh\u00f4ng ai ngh\u0129 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf s\u1eb5n ngay n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi do t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> g\u1ed3m b\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t-n\u01b0\u1edbc-gi\u00f3-l\u1eeda h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> l\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh; \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1edbi gi\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, gi\u00f3 th\u1ed5i m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t rung rinh<\/span>, l\u1eeda \u0111ang ch\u00e1y b\u1ecb n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m s\u1ee9c<\/span> n\u00f3ng n\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng thu\u1eadn h\u1ee3p. Ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> k\u1ecbch li\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ea5t k\u1ef5 gi\u00f3, n\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef5 l\u1eeda, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ed \u201cnh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi l\u1eeda\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3<\/span> s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch nhau; n\u00ean th\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> khi n\u00e0o l\u1ea1nh qu\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c n\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u1ea5m l\u1ea1i, khi n\u00f3ng qu\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 d\u1ecbu l\u1ea1i; v\u00ec c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3ng l\u00e0 l\u1eeda nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00edt, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eeda \u00edt, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/span>. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, n\u1ebfu n\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 b\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u sinh ra b\u1ec7nh. C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/span> nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o tr\u00fang gi\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ecb gi\u00f3 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp<\/span> l\u00e0m to\u00e0n c\u01a1<\/span> th\u1ec3 \u0111au nh\u1ee9c, gi\u00f3 th\u1ed5i m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t rung rinh<\/span>, do \u0111\u00f3 ta ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea1o gi\u00f3, c\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i th\u00ec th\u1ea5y trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i<\/span>. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1edbi gi\u00f3 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi nhau, c\u00e1i n\u00e0o tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n c\u0169ng sinh ra b\u1ec7nh, n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng<\/span> l\u00e0m sao cho ch\u00fang qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> th\u00ec c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> m\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00e9o d\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e3i t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y th\u00e1ng n\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m kia, c\u00f3 hay l\u1eafm c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m n\u0103m l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng. Con s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean tr\u0103m tu\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfm hoi v\u00ec t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span> h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u1eed \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o t\u1eebng ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 x\u00e9t th\u1eed ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Ai \u0103n u\u1ed1ng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> trong vi\u1ec7c ti\u00eau th\u1ee5<\/span> th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m<\/span> th\u00ec th\u00e2n n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 sinh b\u1ec7nh b\u00e9o ph\u00ec, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef trong th\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span>. \u0110\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i, ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p<\/span>, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>, \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i<\/span>. Do \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ho\u00e1 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i<\/span> trong th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf<\/span> trong \u0103n u\u1ed1ng<\/span> n\u00ean ph\u00e1t sinh nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh l\u1ea1 k\u1ef3<\/span>. Vi\u1ec7c x\u00e9t nghi\u1ec7m, ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh theo chu k\u1ef3 l\u00e0m ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n n\u00ean n\u00f3i chung trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9a qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea5t th\u00ec b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t gi\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 khi gi\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea5t rung rinh<\/span>, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u00ea \u1ea9m<\/span>, \u0111au nh\u1ee9c r\u00e3 r\u1eddi<\/span> khi\u1ebfn th\u00e2n n\u00e0y s\u1ed1t l\u1ea1nh, nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u, ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea1o gi\u00f3 v\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c m\u1edbi h\u1ebft. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1edd l\u1eeda n\u00f3ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 th\u00e2n n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u1eeda qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ee9c r\u1ee9c<\/span>, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y<\/span>, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ta ph\u1ea3i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n tay sao cho to\u00e1t m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i<\/span> c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi d\u1ecbu l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec7t. C\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> g\u1ea7n 70% l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> th\u00e2n n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc qu\u00e1 th\u1ecbnh, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u00e2m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1nh l\u1ebdo, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>, \u00edt mu\u1ed1n ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ng\u1ee7 v\u00ec th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span> b\u1ea7n th\u1ea7n, r\u00e3 r\u01b0\u1ee3i nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu ng\u1ee7 c\u1ea3 th\u00e1ng tr\u1eddi. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> g\u1ed3m b\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t-n\u01b0\u1edbc-gi\u00f3-l\u1eeda lu\u00f4n ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y th\u00e1ng n\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m kia, n\u1ebfu trong b\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o th\u1ecbnh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd sinh b\u1ec7nh, \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> n\u00e0y tan r\u00e3, b\u1ea1i ho\u1ea1i<\/span>. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> do \u0111\u1ea5t-n\u01b0\u1edbc-gi\u00f3-l\u1eeda h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>; c\u00f2n ph\u1ea7n tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta bao g\u1ed3m<\/span> t\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m \u00e1c. T\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 t\u00e2m hay c\u1ee9u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap v\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u1ed9t ai, t\u1eeb \u00fd<\/span> ngh\u0129 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> chung. T\u00e2m \u00e1c th\u00ec m\u01b0u m\u00f4, x\u1ea3o tr\u00e1, qu\u1ef7 quy\u1ec7t<\/span>, chuy\u00ean l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u xa<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb suy ngh\u0129<\/span>, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u00e2m \u00e1c khi kh\u1edfi l\u00ean th\u00ec hay s\u00e1t sinh<\/span> h\u1ea1i v\u1eadt, tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp l\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u phi ph\u00e1p<\/span>, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i<\/span> h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 hay ti\u00eau th\u1ee5<\/span> c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i<\/span> nh\u01b0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u-x\u00ec ke-ma tu\u00fd. T\u00e2m \u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed nh\u01b0<\/span> c\u1ecf d\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang v\u1eabn t\u1ef1 m\u1ecdc, t\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed nh\u01b0<\/span> c\u1ecf ki\u1ec3ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, t\u01b0\u1edbi t\u1ea9m chu \u0111\u00e1o h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span> m\u1edbi xinh \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>, t\u1ed1t t\u01b0\u01a1i. C\u00f3 khi t\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n th\u1eafng t\u00e2m<\/span> \u00e1c nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi t\u00e2m \u00e1c th\u1eafng t\u00e2m<\/span> thi\u1ec7n, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng t\u00e2m \u00e1c th\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1edfi l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> do ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng<\/span> ho\u1eb7c n\u1ea1t n\u1ed9 ai n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ec5 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh<\/span>, t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i l\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng<\/span> v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb<\/span> h\u1eb1n h\u1ecdc<\/span>, kh\u00f3 nghe. N\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n, t\u00e2m \u00e1c gi\u1eb1ng co<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> n\u00ean khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t an<\/span> ho\u00e0i l\u00e0 v\u1eady.<\/span><\/p>\n

X\u01b0a c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n m\u00e2u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i v\u0169 kh\u00ed th\u1eddi x\u01b0a<\/span> d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0 thu\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u00e1i khi\u00ean d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng ta rao b\u00e1n \u201cc\u00e2y m\u00e2u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i s\u1eafc, b\u00e9n, nh\u1ecdn, \u0111\u00e2m v\u1eadt g\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u1ee7ng h\u1ebft\u201d; r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i rao ti\u1ebfp, \u201ckhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ch\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2m th\u1ee7ng\u201d. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe v\u1eady m\u1edbi r\u1eafn m\u1eaft h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i, \u201cv\u1eady l\u1ea5y m\u00e2u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2m thu\u1eabn c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng th\u00ec s\u1ebd ra sao?\u201d \u00d4ng ta b\u1ecb h\u1ecfi b\u00ed n\u00ean \u0111\u1edb l\u01b0\u1ee1i, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u00e0nh ng\u1eadm mi\u1ec7ng<\/span> \u0111i n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c<\/span>. X\u01b0a nay<\/span>, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 2 m\u1eb7t \u00e2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch nhau. Trong \u00e2m c\u00f3 d\u01b0\u01a1ng, trong d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 \u00e2m. \u00c2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd sinh ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, chi\u1ebfn tranh, h\u1ea1n h\u00e1n v\u00e0 l\u0169 l\u1ee5t. Trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n-\u00e1c lu\u00f4n song h\u00e0nh b\u00ean nhau. T\u00e2m thi\u1ec7n m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>.T\u00e2m \u00e1c m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1eadt. Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh hai m\u1eb7t<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt trong b\u1ea7u v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> bao la<\/span> n\u00e0y: trong \u00e2m c\u00f3 d\u01b0\u01a1ng, trong t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u v.v\u2026 v\u00e0 v.v\u2026 M\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 \u00e2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> trong m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span>, \u00e2m th\u1ecbnh th\u00ec d\u01b0\u01a1ng suy, \u00e2m suy th\u00ec d\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ecbnh, do n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch nhau n\u00ean g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>. M\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> b\u00ean trong v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u0129nh. Khi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt c\u00f2n v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> th\u00ec m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t sinh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea5u, v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u00fap cho mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, m\u1edf mang. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n<\/span> n\u1eefa, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp, tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span>, do \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi theo th\u1eddi gian<\/span>. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ebd ng\u1eebng sinh ho\u1ea1t<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ea1nh tranh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>, khi \u1ea5y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ebd \u00f9 l\u00ec nh\u01b0 c\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea5t s\u00e9t nh\u00e3o. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>, t\u1eeb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> h\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> l\u00e0m sao cho n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vu\u00f4ng tr\u00f2n, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch<\/span> t\u1eeb ng\u1eef<\/span> m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> l\u00e0 g\u00ec? M\u00e2u l\u00e0 c\u00e2y gi\u00e1o d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2m, thu\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u00e1i khi\u00ean d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1ea1i. Khi gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e2m th\u00ec khi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i<\/span>. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ta l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> b\u1edfi b\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t-n\u01b0\u1edbc-gi\u00f3-l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch nhau, trong t\u00e2m ta hai anh thi\u1ec7n \u00e1c<\/span> c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1ng<\/span> nhau. T\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n m\u1ea7m m\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> r\u1ed3i th\u00ec trong quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp, l\u00e0m \u0103n, sinh s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> s\u1ef1 va ch\u1ea1m<\/span> v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span>, l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t suy ngh\u0129<\/span> ri\u00eang v\u00e0 t\u1eadp kh\u00ed<\/span>, th\u00f3i quen<\/span> kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00ean kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p<\/span>. Th\u00e2n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> v\u00ec b\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t-n\u01b0\u1edbc-gi\u00f3-l\u1eeda lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch nhau. T\u00e2m t\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> h\u01a1n v\u00ec \u00f4ng lu\u1eadt s\u01b0<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa, bi\u1ec7n minh<\/span>, l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n<\/span> \u00e1i bi\u1ebft bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>; do \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi b\u1edbt x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1ng<\/span> nhau. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, trong th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c l\u1eabn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

CON NG\u01af\u1edcI<\/span> V\u00c0 S\u1ef0 S\u1ed0NG <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa n\u1ecd v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n con trai m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 t\u1eadn m\u1eaft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n qu\u00ea<\/span> lam l\u0169 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3<\/span>, \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9i tr\u1eddi, ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3<\/span>. Hai cha con<\/span> ngh\u1ec9 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u00e0ng qu\u00ea xa x\u00f4i, h\u1ebbo l\u00e1nh, n\u01a1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span>, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t. Sau m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n qu\u00ea<\/span> v\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1<\/span> nh\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1edbi h\u1ecfi con, \u201ccon th\u1ea5y chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i ch\u01a1i n\u00e0y ra sao?\u201d \u201cD\u1ea1 th\u01b0a cha, chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed5 \u00edch cho con.\u201d \u201cCon c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1c kh\u1ed5<\/span>, thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span>, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n qu\u00ea<\/span> kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201cD\u1ea1, c\u00f3!\u201d \u201cCon nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y<\/span> g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd?\u201d \u201cD\u1ea1 th\u01b0a cha, con th\u1ea5y nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t con ch\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u1edbi s\u00e1u con. Nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3 b\u01a1i nh\u1ecf \u1edf gi\u1eefa v\u01b0\u1eddn c\u00f2n h\u1ecd th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng t\u00e0u thuy\u1ec1n ch\u1ea1y su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi h\u1ebft. Nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadp c\u1ea3ng nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e8n ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec7u t\u1eeb Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 treo trong v\u01b0\u1eddn c\u00f2n h\u1ecd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn, v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y sao chi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng l\u00fac ban \u0111\u00eam. Nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span> n\u00ean nh\u00ecn tho\u00e1ng qua l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y h\u1ebft t\u1eeb trong nh\u00e0 ra \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ed5ng, c\u00f2n nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i nh\u00ecn xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t t\u1edbi t\u1eadn ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi. Nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 gieo tr\u1ed3ng hoa m\u00e0u, c\u00e2y tr\u00e1i, c\u00f2n h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng ru\u1ed9ng bao la<\/span> c\u00f2 bay th\u1eb3ng c\u00e1nh. Nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c c\u00f2n h\u1ecd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n, v\u00ec h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 lo cho nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ti\u1ec1n ra \u0111\u1ec3 mua \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng<\/span>, c\u00f2n h\u1ecd th\u00ec t\u1ef1 tr\u1ed3ng tr\u1ecdt, ch\u0103n nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u00fac v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m<\/span>. Nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1eddng cao bao quanh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> c\u00f2n h\u1ecd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, tr\u00f4ng ng\u00f3, d\u00f2m ch\u1eebng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau\u201d. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u00fd lu\u1eadn<\/span> s\u1eafc b\u00e9n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 con m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp, \u201cd\u1ea1 th\u01b0a cha, con r\u1ea5t c\u00e1m \u01a1n cha \u0111\u00e3 cho con m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn tham quan kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00fa v\u1ecb<\/span>, so v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n qu\u00ea<\/span> th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ta c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n<\/span>, l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu<\/span>, con s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o h\u01a1n h\u1ecd m\u1edbi th\u00f4i\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u1ede \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u00f3, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> th\u00eam m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt mong u\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. \u0110\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady! H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9ng u\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111ang c\u00f3, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111ang chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ta. Qua c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/span> nh\u00e0 t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con trai \u0111\u00e3 cho ta m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc l\u00fd th\u00fa<\/span> c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span> thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 n\u0103m nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n tr\u00f4i trong t\u00edch t\u1eafc nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 l\u0169 l\u1ee5t, nh\u00e0 ho\u1ea3 ho\u1ea1n, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, nh\u00e0 vua quan t\u1ecbch th\u00e2u<\/span> v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n<\/span>. Th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span> v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> th\u00ec coi ch\u1eebng<\/span> t\u00e1n gia b\u1ea1i s\u1ea3n trong nay mai, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam th\u00f4i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3, ti\u1ec1n mu\u00f4n b\u1ea1c v\u1ea1n nay th\u1eddi c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u00e0 t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa n\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n cho con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn xa tr\u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng n\u00ean m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho c\u1eadu t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3<\/span>, ch\u00e2n l\u1ea5m tay b\u00f9n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f9ng s\u00e2u, v\u00f9ng xa m\u00e0 v\u1eabn thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ee5t sau. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft gieo nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> t\u1ed1t trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 cao ng\u1ea1o m\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> gieo tr\u1ed3ng ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1u th\u00eam, nh\u01b0ng l\u00f2ng tham c\u1ee7a<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt<\/span> nh\u01b0 gi\u1ebfng s\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1y<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf n\u01a1i t\u1ed1i t\u0103m<\/span> m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n d\u00f9ng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng tr\u00ed<\/span> tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> si m\u00ea<\/span>, u t\u1ed1i th\u00e0nh trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c<\/span>. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec qu\u00fd b\u1eb1ng an vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. V\u00e0ng b\u1ea1c<\/span>, g\u1ea5m v\u00f3c, l\u1ee5a l\u00e0, th\u1ee9c \u0103n<\/span> s\u01a1n h\u00e0o h\u1ea3i v\u1ecb<\/span>, v\u0169 kh\u00ed t\u1ed1i t\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> th\u00eam l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, s\u00e2n si<\/span>, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau; c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u, tham \u0111\u1eafm ri\u00eang t\u01b0 th\u00ec c\u00e0ng th\u00eam kh\u1ed5 \u0111au ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n mu\u1ed1n \u00edt bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7 theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> th\u00ec ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3<\/span> v\u1eabn an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Tr\u1edb tr\u00eau<\/span> thay, th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nh\u00e0 t\u1ec9 ph\u00fa \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf m\u1ea1ng sa tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng b\u00ean b\u1edd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 m\u1ea3i m\u00ea ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> danh l\u1ee3i<\/span>, quy\u1ec1n cao<\/span> ch\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i ra \u0111i trong t\u1ee7i h\u1eadn \u01b0u phi\u1ec1n<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ee9 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean quanh n\u0103m<\/span> su\u1ed1t th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb n\u00f3 tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c<\/span>. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u1ec9 ph\u00fa \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n<\/span>, ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3<\/span> nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 t\u1eed? H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u1eeb n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/span> trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, thanh t\u1ecbnh<\/span>. Tuy s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m<\/span>, \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby tham lam<\/span>, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, si m\u00ea<\/span> nh\u01b0ng ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi cu\u1ed1n tr\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n ch\u00ecm, v\u1eabn l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, \u0111\u1eafm nhi\u1ec5m. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span> r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn. C\u00f3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span> trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t:<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n<\/span> b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ee9t \u00e1c l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Th\u1ee9 hai: c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span>, b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> con ch\u00e1u ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o<\/span> v\u1edbi \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, bi\u1ebft k\u00ednh tr\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng d\u01b0\u1edbi, s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, thu\u1eadn th\u1ea3o<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1eb5ng s\u00e0ng c\u01b0u mang<\/span>, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p<\/span>. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3 ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft tu\u1ef3 theo nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong su\u1ed1t<\/span> qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tu h\u1ecdc<\/span>, d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0m b\u1eadc hi\u1ec1n Th\u00e1nh<\/span> nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span>, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u1ea1i qu\u00ean \u0111i tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> b\u1eadc hi\u1ec1n Th\u00e1nh<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 mai sau<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u1eeb b\u1ecf<\/span> th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1eadc hi\u1ec1n Th\u00e1nh<\/span> c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 ra; nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc? Ta ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh, t\u00ecm l\u1ed7i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda sai<\/span>; ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft xem x\u00e9t<\/span> t\u1eebng \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span>, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span>, h\u00e0nh vi<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1c d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh, \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n d\u00f9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb nan v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t; ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft thanh l\u1ecdc n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/span>, bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> t\u00e2m v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh; ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> lu\u00f4n khoan dung<\/span>, t\u1eed t\u1ebf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n e ng\u1ea1i l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>; t\u1eed t\u1ebf, s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, bao dung<\/span>, bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh<\/span> to\u00e1n so \u0111o ta-ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c-m\u1ea5t; d\u00f9 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span> m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u danh<\/span> l\u1ee3i, ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1o<\/span>; ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i<\/span> b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> ra s\u1ee9c tu t\u1eadp<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5<\/span> b\u1eb1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> n\u00ean khi \u0111em l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta c\u1ea7n san s\u1ebb th\u00eam \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd<\/span> l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00e0o nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> v\u00e0 tin ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a bao \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1 ph\u00fac. Ta \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc Th\u00e1nh v\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> tu t\u1eadp<\/span> th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o<\/span>, ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 hay \u0111em ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Khi ta kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span>, b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> \u201ct\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi”. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cao h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/span> v\u00e0 trong s\u00e1ng<\/span>, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u1ec9 trao \u0111i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ee5 l\u1ee3i, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh<\/span> to\u00e1n, ngh\u0129 suy, th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 li\u1ec1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 san s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd<\/span> lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> trong b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p<\/span> c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1i tim, c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim bi\u1ebft th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> cho nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

Theo quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> x\u01b0a, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o, sang h\u00e8n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t<\/span> s\u1eb5n tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i thay. Ai theo quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> n\u00e0y th\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng b\u1ecb kh\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> tha nh\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i<\/span>, c\u1ea7u c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec ngh\u0129 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1eafm chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra cho ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea5u tranh, gi\u00e0nh gi\u1ef1t, ch\u00e9m gi\u1ebft l\u1eabn nhau ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u201cc\u00e1i ta\u201d h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i, gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i<\/span>. V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n<\/span> \u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00f9 h\u1eadn th\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> t\u1eeb quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> ch\u1ea5p c\u00f3<\/span> b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1eadt ta\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 dung h\u00f2a<\/span> v\u1edbi mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u xa<\/span>, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> duy tr\u00ec<\/span>, b\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eafp, tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 th\u00ed<\/span>, c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, s\u1ebb chia. S\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> x\u00e9t ra ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3; n\u1ebfu ta bi\u1ebft c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> vun b\u1ed3i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> n\u00ean ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n v\u01a1 v\u00e9t<\/span> v\u1ec1 cho m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> gia t\u00e0i<\/span> c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i, ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> khi kh\u00f4ng hay do \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi n\u00e0o ban cho<\/span> m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> t\u1ed1t trong nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi. Quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec h\u1ebft ph\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft gieo t\u1ea1o ph\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9. Ta h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> di\u1ec7t b\u1edbt l\u00f2ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span>, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn. \u201cTu\u201d ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> l\u00f2ng ki\u00eau m\u1ea1n<\/span>, ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 th\u00ed<\/span>, c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u1ee9u v\u1eadt, khoan dung<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> v\u00e0 r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i<\/span>. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> n\u00e0o ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1eadt th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> l\u00e0m theo. \u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng<\/span> \u201ct\u00e2m t\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt – Ph\u1eadt t\u1ee9c t\u00e2m\u201d, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd<\/span> c\u00f2n l\u00e0m ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n m\u00ea l\u1ea7m<\/span>, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m Ph\u1eadt<\/span>, v\u00ec t\u00e2m Ph\u1eadt<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>, t\u1eeb bi<\/span> v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt<\/span>, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/span> l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh, nghi\u1ec7m x\u00e9t n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea5u xa<\/span>, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>; \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed9c<\/span>, t\u00e0 v\u1ea1y<\/span>; \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00ea l\u1ea7m<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> khi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span> m\u1edbi th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u00ec m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> qua th\u00e2n-mi\u1ec7ng-\u00fd, kh\u00f4ng cho nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u01b0, v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u \u00e1c ph\u00e1t sinh. S\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> h\u00e0nh vi<\/span> t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u \u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span>, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Th\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i, tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, t\u00e0 d\u00e2m<\/span>. Mi\u1ec7ng th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i<\/span>, d\u00e8m pha, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch<\/span>, ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n \u0111\u00fang sai, ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea5y<\/span>, h\u01a1n thua\u2026 \u1ea4y l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi<\/span> h\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh, h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 \u00edt ai tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span>. Ng\u00e0y nay, to\u00e0n nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng trong h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p<\/span>, lo \u00e2u<\/span>, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span>, b\u1ea5t an<\/span> v\u00ec c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi<\/span> gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i, tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i<\/span>, u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u say s\u01b0a gieo t\u1ea1o qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u tai h\u1ecda<\/span> gh\u00ea g\u1edbm. Khi ta s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> h\u00e0nh vi<\/span> c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> t\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh, v\u00ec t\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh x\u1ea5u xa<\/span> g\u00e2y nguy h\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Tham lam<\/span>, s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span>, ki\u00eau m\u1ea1n<\/span>, nghi ng\u1edd<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u00e1nh<\/span> x\u1ea5u c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb. Ai c\u00f3 th\u00e2n c\u0169ng tham s\u1ed1ng s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/span> th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/span> th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> l\u00f2ng tham nh\u01b0 gi\u1ebfng s\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1y<\/span>, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n v\u01a1 v\u00e9t<\/span> cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, mu\u1ed1n cho ta l\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft c\u00f2n ai \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00e1t<\/span> m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7<\/span>; xem ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span> h\u01a1n m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; v\u00ec tham ch\u00fat l\u1ee3i danh m\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i<\/span> b\u1ecb \u0111i\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9ng<\/span>. Song, mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> t\u00e2m t\u00e1nh<\/span> x\u1ea5u xa<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn g\u1ed1c th\u00ec ta tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> tham lam<\/span>, h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> \u0111\u00fang ch\u1eef “Tu” trong \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft d\u1ee9t \u00e1c, l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eeda sai<\/span> v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m<\/span> tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, o\u00e1n h\u1eddn, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, ngu si<\/span>, t\u1ed1i t\u0103m<\/span>, ganh gh\u00e9t<\/span>, t\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1 th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef0 M\u00c2U THU\u1eaaN<\/span> GI\u1eeeA CON NG\u01af\u1edcI<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ta n\u00f3i t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay b\u1ea3o nam th\u00ec m\u1ea1nh, n\u1eef th\u00ec y\u1ebfu, m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p nhau<\/span> th\u00ec h\u01a1i b\u1ecb ch\u1ecfi; n\u00ean khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> nam m\u1ea1nh, n\u1eef y\u1ebfu c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecfi v\u00ec m\u1ea1nh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng hi\u1ebfp y\u1ebfu. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> c\u00e3i v\u00e3 nhau. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef ham th\u00edch<\/span> th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i<\/span>. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> gi\u1eefa nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hay kh\u00f3? \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 hai t\u00e1nh ch\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; th\u1ebf m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o t\u1eeb trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>. V\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i h\u00f2a \u00eam \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c<\/span> kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110a s\u1ed1<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ai c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5<\/span> n\u00e0y ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, \u0111\u1ed5i thay li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u chung. N\u1ebfu th\u1ebf<\/span> gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nam kh\u00f4ng n\u1eef th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng nam th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/span>, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a. Nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ta n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eeda, hay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 l\u1eeda m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n; mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111ai, \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng<\/span>; v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 l\u1eeda th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n. B\u1edfi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u1eeda l\u00e0 hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp<\/span> nhau, n\u1ebfu ta d\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eadp t\u1eaft<\/span> l\u1eeda, ho\u1eb7c d\u00f9ng l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1t c\u1ea1n n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i d\u00e0i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> ch\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecbt n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec th\u00e0nh ch\u00e1o, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00edt th\u00ec c\u01a1m s\u1ed1ng, n\u1eb7ng b\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ea3.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef m\u1ed9t b\u00ean c\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t b\u00ean nhu kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> tan n\u00e1t. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u00ean nam hay ch\u1ee7 quan<\/span> ta l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh, hay quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ph\u00e1i n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo<\/span> nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00ec trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9c, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng<\/span> g\u00e2y g\u1ed7<\/span>, c\u00e3i v\u00e3, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp nhau ho\u00e0i th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i<\/span> v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>, b\u1ec1n ch\u1eafc; cho n\u00ean y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ph\u1ea3i xa l\u00eca<\/span> l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5, \u1edf chung<\/span> g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t nhau m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a nhau c\u0169ng kh\u1ed5. Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p<\/span> b\u1edfi hai th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea5m \u00eam, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/span> h\u00f2a l\u1eeda v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/span>; nh\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/span> h\u00f2a n\u01b0\u1edbc, l\u1eeda m\u00e0 ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u01a1m ngon \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ta kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, tr\u00ean cung k\u00ednh<\/span> \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, d\u01b0\u1edbi bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span>, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> gi\u1eefa nam n\u1eef<\/span>; c\u00f2n v\u1edbi t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 th\u00ec sao? T\u1eadp th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> ri\u00eang, sinh ho\u1ea1t<\/span> ri\u00eang, s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> ri\u00eang n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gi\u1ed1ng nhau. \u0110\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i nhau, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> v\u00e0 lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p<\/span> chung cho t\u1eebng ban ng\u00e0nh \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Do \u0111\u00f3, nh\u00ecn chung t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> cho t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> th\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span>. N\u1ebfu trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> hay x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c vui bu\u1ed3n<\/span> x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec ta c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd xem h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span>. Ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng ri\u00eang trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u1ea3<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn bao dung<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> h\u01a1n, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ta m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/span> v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee9 l\u1ea5n l\u01b0\u1edbt, \u0103n hi\u1ebfp<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu b\u1edfi ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u01a1n, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c<\/span> l\u00e0 g\u00e2y tai ho\u1ea1 v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au cho nhau. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng xem ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng, bi\u1ebft kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ta s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3 bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn<\/span>, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng chung ch\u0103n x\u1ebb g\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, ho\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 nhau l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span>. N\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf chung<\/span> nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 th\u1ea5y nhau nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span> th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, tan n\u00e1t li\u1ec1n trong nay mai.<\/span><\/p>\n

MU\u1ed0N H\u1ea0NH PH\u00daC<\/span> TA PH\u1ea2I TU H\u1ea0NH NH\u1eaaN NH\u1ee4C<\/span> V\u00c0 T\u1eea BI<\/span> H\u1ef6 X\u1ea2<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y, mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> <\/b>v\u00e0 t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ec9-x\u1ea3, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 t\u1eadp nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb<\/span> tha th\u1ee9<\/span>. S\u01b0 \u00f4ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i, \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u201d. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> s\u00e2n gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i tu l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span>, qu\u00e1n s\u00e1t<\/span> r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam l\u00e0 cha ta v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ta. Ta s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1edd cha m\u1eb9<\/span> m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra ta v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3n ng\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng lao<\/span> kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 sinh th\u00e0nh<\/span>, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> trong 6 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng<\/span> \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9<\/span> ta s\u1ebd b\u1edbt tham lam<\/span>, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 si m\u00ea<\/span> m\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady, ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>, bi\u1ebft k\u00ednh tr\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, thu\u1eadn th\u1ea3o<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. Ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i<\/span> trong 3 c\u00f5i, 6 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng do nghi\u1ec7p duy\u00ean<\/span> chi ph\u1ed1i<\/span> n\u00ean ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, anh em, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau b\u1edfi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00e2n ngh\u0129a<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1edd qu\u00e1n s\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i, h\u1ec5 g\u1eb7p ngh\u1ecbch duy\u00ean<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt, chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u l\u1ea1i tr\u00fat \u0111\u1ed5 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen<\/span> th\u00e2m c\u0103n c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tu t\u1eadp<\/span> t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3 th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tan n\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t Ph\u00e1p qu\u00e1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 qu\u00e1n t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ai c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eadn th\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u1ecb k\u1ef7<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> m\u00e0u da, d\u00f2ng m\u00e1u, ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 con chung v\u00e0 con ri\u00eang v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> hay kh\u00f4ng? V\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o ta c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u01a1n n\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i khi ta ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i m\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u00edch l\u00f2ng<\/span> nhau. Qu\u00e1n t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> x\u00f3t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m ta b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i th\u1ea7m<\/span> trong mi\u1ec7ng \u201cgi\u1eadn l\u00e0 ngu, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ee9 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n sinh<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1<\/span> c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span>. Khi m\u1edbi v\u00e0o ch\u00f9a tu, m\u1ed7i khi g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u00ec d\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y tuy \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u nghi\u1ec7m<\/span>, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh<\/span> n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y<\/span>, hay \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> l\u1ea5n \u00e1t t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh. Khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u1edbi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m<\/span> hay sai s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ta c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch<\/span>, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef<\/span>, r\u1ed3i l\u00e0m l\u1edbn chuy\u1ec7n ra. Khi b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/span> l\u1ea1i ta m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y \u0103n n\u0103n<\/span>, h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng<\/span>. H\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft<\/span> gi\u00fap ta b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/span>, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span>, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> b\u00ean trong. Vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/span> c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00f9i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span>. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span>, c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n sinh<\/span> khi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y th\u00ec ph\u1ed5i s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn<\/span> m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u00ed v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng lan t\u1ecfa kh\u1eafp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Th\u1eddi gian<\/span> t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng gi\u1eefa l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh<\/span> b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i<\/span> s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/span>, nh\u1edd v\u1eady t\u00e2m t\u01b0 l\u1eafng d\u1ecbu n\u00ean bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> v\u00e0 d\u1eebng h\u1eb3n c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span>. M\u1ed7i khi th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1eafp n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y xem. Ri\u00eang b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span>, n\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> an b\u00ecnh<\/span>, th\u01b0 th\u00e1i<\/span>, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi<\/span> gi\u00fap t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i<\/span> tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u1eadp kh\u00ed<\/span> th\u00e2m c\u0103n c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ebf thu\u1ed9c c\u0103n b\u1ea3n phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/span> l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, c\u00f3 g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 s\u00e2u xa<\/span> tr\u1ea3i qua<\/span> t\u1eeb v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> ki\u1ebfp. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u00e3i tr\u00f4i l\u0103n trong sinh t\u1eed<\/span> c\u0169ng b\u1edfi ba th\u1ee9 tham-s\u00e2n-si l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong 3 c\u00f5i 6 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u1eadp kh\u00ed<\/span> n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc hi\u1ec1n Th\u00e1nh<\/span>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span>, ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef<\/span> nh\u01b0 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda ch\u00e1y ph\u1eebng b\u1ed1c l\u00ean cao ng\u1ecdn. D\u00f9 ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5c<\/span> c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c<\/span> nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1eebng h\u1eb3n c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> trong ch\u1ed1c l\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> d\u1ea1y ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> c\u01a1n s\u00e2n gi\u1eadn. Khi ta gi\u1eadn ai ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111ang b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng<\/span> v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. Ta c\u00f3 n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u1eadt th\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang gi\u1eadn. M\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn h\u1ecd v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba \u00fd<\/span>, h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng<\/span> m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. M\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> n\u00f3i r\u00f5 l\u00fd do<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n; ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn h\u1ecd v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp<\/span> truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng<\/span>, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd<\/span>, k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng nhau c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span>. Ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span>, ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> th\u00f9 h\u1eadn trong l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 sanh t\u00e2m o\u00e1n gh\u00e9t d\u00e0i l\u00e2u. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> kh\u00f4n ngoan trong c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef<\/span> th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean<\/span> ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1 chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i. Do \u0111\u00f3 ta c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t<\/span> h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang b\u1ecb v\u00f4 minh<\/span> chi ph\u1ed1i<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00f4ng n\u1ed7i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n, ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y n\u00ean l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay cho l\u1eafm. H\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng<\/span> gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n \u1ea9n t\u00e0ng s\u00e2u k\u00edn t\u1eadn t\u00e2m<\/span> th\u1ee9c n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf. Mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span> th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng<\/span> ph\u1ea3i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng! N\u00f3 v\u1ed1n d\u0129 kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 n\u01a1i, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i duy\u00ean x\u00fac c\u1ea3nh<\/span> m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t sinh. Mu\u1ed1n v\u00f4 hi\u1ec7u<\/span> h\u00f3a c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t<\/span>, \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> d\u1ea1y ta h\u00e3y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span>, xem x\u00e9t<\/span> s\u00e2u v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> trong t\u1eebng t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m<\/span>, ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, cay c\u00fa, \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9c<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i<\/span> cho c\u1ea3 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ta kh\u00e9o nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u1eb7t m\u0169i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> n\u1ed5i l\u00ean th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t<\/span>. Ta h\u00e3y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> s\u00e2u n\u01a1i t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1eadt k\u1ef9. Ta c\u1ea7n l\u1ea5y g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi l\u1ea1i m\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh khi s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c<\/span>, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn n\u1ed5i l\u00ean. M\u1ed9t g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u00f9 qu\u1ef7 qu\u00e1i, hung d\u1eef s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00e2n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 cho ra c\u00e1i qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi sau<\/span> gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u x\u00ed<\/span> b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u0169ng gi\u00fap ta b\u1edbt \u0111i ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00e2u ai mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u x\u00ed<\/span> nh\u01b0 qu\u1ef7 La S\u00e1t<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/span> hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/span> ta ph\u1ea3i tu h\u1ea1nh nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng<\/span> th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u0103n b\u1ea3n<\/span> sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> gi\u1eef ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m<\/span> t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch theo d\u00f5i<\/span> h\u01a1i th\u1edf<\/span>, th\u1edf v\u00e0o<\/span> m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft th\u1edf v\u00e0o<\/span>, th\u1edf ra<\/span> m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft th\u1edf ra<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t<\/span> k\u1ef9 li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t<\/span> n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/span> qu\u00e1n ni\u1ec7m<\/span> th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> tr\u1ea3i r\u1ed9ng l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt<\/span>; h\u00e3y m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u00e2u v\u00e0o t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng<\/span> s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span> n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ea9y m\u1ea7m s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>; ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> n\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n trong tr\u1ee9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>; mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3 th\u00ec m\u1edbi chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. T\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span> n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span> l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft<\/span> su\u00f4ng. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span>, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/span> v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> tha nh\u00e2n<\/span>. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ebd v\u00f4 v\u1ecb<\/span> l\u00e0m sao khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> d\u1ec5 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ri\u00eang t\u01b0, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec n\u00ean ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m. Khi \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span>, Ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> trong tr\u00e1i tim. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9a con duy nh\u1ea5t<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 con s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t khi h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ra sao. C\u00f2n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ri\u00eang t\u01b0. T\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t<\/span> c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khi ta th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 b\u1ecb t\u00e9 xe \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i kh\u00f3c, ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee1 em d\u1eady v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecfi han, an \u1ee7i<\/span>; ho\u1eb7c khi th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 \u0111i qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00ecu \u0111\u1ee1 th\u00ec ta li\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00fap c\u1ee5 qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ba tr\u1ea1ng tr\u00e1i t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span>. Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1edd<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau m\u1edbi b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng. T\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0m ru\u1ed9ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> c\u00e1c ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng<\/span> kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c<\/span> v\u00e0o nhau. L\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> t\u1ed1i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span> cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111i\u00eau t\u00e0n<\/span>, v\u00f4 v\u1ecb<\/span>. Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n h\u1eefu<\/span>, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n<\/span>, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ta. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n<\/span> qua s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/span>. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> r\u1ed3i b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, k\u1ebb gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ta luy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfc, nh\u1edb nhung, r\u1ed3i \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t; do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau trong s\u1ea1ch<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vun b\u1ed3i b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> ta ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>, qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn<\/span> ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1<\/span> \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> sung s\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o<\/span> s\u1ef1 sinh t\u1ed3n<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu, m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a ta \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc. Ta b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00ec s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t h\u1ecd. Ta t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd m\u00e3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t th\u00ec ta l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c<\/span> ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n c\u00f3 n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd hay kh\u00f4ng; c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd b\u1ecf r\u01a1i<\/span> ta th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, tr\u00e1i tim ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn<\/span> v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u00fac y\u00eau, l\u00fac gh\u00e9t. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gh\u00e9t. N\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd x\u1ea5u, tham lam<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span>; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt<\/span> s\u1ef1 h\u1eadn th\u00f9<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129<\/span>, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/span>, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Ta t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> gi\u1eadn d\u1eef<\/span>, ghen gh\u00e9t<\/span> d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00edt \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> lu\u00f4n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span>, trao \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Khi \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> l\u00e0m thinh, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span>. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i<\/span>, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n<\/span>, lo \u00e2u<\/span>, r\u1ed3i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n, l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edch l\u1ee3i<\/span> g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta<\/span> thanh t\u1ecbnh<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u1edbi tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> th\u00ec ta m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh an<\/span> v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc trong c\u00f5i n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span> c\u1ee7a c\u00f5i n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u00ecnh th\u00eam. Ta s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i<\/span>, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/span> m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u00e1i tim ta th\u00eam bao la<\/span>, r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn v\u00ec t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta c\u00e0ng bao la<\/span> th\u00ec ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u1ea1i. Ta c\u00e0ng cho bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau. Ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfm th\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ban ph\u00e1t t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> cho ai kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu ta ban ph\u00e1t t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec t\u1ef1 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ta v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, ta ban ph\u00e1t cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ta mu\u1ed1n cho, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u00e0 ta cho v\u00ec tr\u00e1i tim ta \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 tu t\u1eadp<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m qua, l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd soi s\u00e1ng<\/span> l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> lu\u00f4n t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh<\/span> cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00eam y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi \u0111am m\u00ea<\/span>, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> tr\u1edf n\u00ean tham lam<\/span> v\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> n\u1eefa khi ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u1eeda, thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u1ec3 x\u00e2m h\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 sau khi ch\u1ebft<\/span> ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span>, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> d\u00f9ng t\u00ean l\u1eeda, thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 hu\u1ef7 di\u1ec7t l\u1eabn nhau. Th\u1eddi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng n\u1eefa m\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u00fang \u0111\u1ea1n v\u00e0 bom nguy\u00ean t\u1eed. Nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/span>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ai ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd ph\u00fat sinh ly<\/span> t\u1eed bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n<\/span> khi ra \u0111i r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3n ch\u1edd c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft v\u1edbi t\u00e2m t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c<\/span> n\u00ean h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta l\u00e0m v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd theo ta \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1eadn gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat l\u00e2m chung<\/span>. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen<\/span> x\u1ea5u ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t, ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00ecnh y\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> cho m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ph\u00fat cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng ai theo ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00f2ng bi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n<\/span> khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> chia s\u1ebb l\u00f2ng x\u00f3t th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 li\u1ec1n gi\u00fap v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. L\u00f2ng bi ph\u00e1t sinh khi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ta m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00ec ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span>, nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng trong v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m, th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n<\/span> d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng<\/span>, d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng<\/span>. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. Th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta<\/span> d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m<\/span> th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea9y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ra xa nhau<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> chia r\u1ebd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd theo \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> x\u00e2u x\u00e9<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ta soi l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng thi\u1ebft tha, th\u00e0nh kh\u1ea9n<\/span>, ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u201ct\u1ef1 ng\u00e3\u201d. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3ng ngh\u0129a<\/span> r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh<\/span> c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span>. D\u00f9 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> sai bi\u1ec7t<\/span> nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, t\u00e2m th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> ai ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3<\/span> n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh. T\u00e2m t\u01b0 ta<\/span> lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp nh\u1eefng v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9ng tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> do s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n<\/span> ho\u1eb7c t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ta mong mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t sinh s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> g\u00ec. Ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3 \u01a1n<\/span> m\u00e0 ta gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i d\u00e0i \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00ec th\u00e2n ai c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00e0-b\u1ec7nh-ch\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i<\/span> lu\u00f4n \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t<\/span>, b\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span>, b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, l\u00f2ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e3i. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc! Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i \u0111au, s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1edbi th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi n\u00ean r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00ec khi \u1ea5y h\u1ecd b\u1edbt ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, do \u0111\u00f3 \u00edt ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u00e3 tu t\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00f9y h\u1ef7<\/span>. \u0110\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi t\u00f9y h\u1ef7<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng ganh gh\u00e9t<\/span>, t\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1. S\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00e0 li\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c b\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> m\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa b\u1ecbnh ganh gh\u00e9t<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5<\/span>. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu ta bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> l\u00f2ng o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>. Ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 hay khi c\u00f3 tai bi\u1ebfn<\/span> g\u00ec x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, b\u00ecnh an<\/span>. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u201cTa ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111o\u1ea1n di\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb ch\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>, v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> khi ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1ef1 n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f9ng vui theo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 tu t\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m x\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an nhi\u00ean<\/span>, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n th\u00e2n t\u00e2m<\/span>. L\u00f2ng an nhi\u00ean<\/span>, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n, d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d. S\u1ef1 an nhi\u00ean<\/span> hay t\u00e2m x\u1ea3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0\u01a1m tr\u1ed3ng t\u1ed1t, t\u00e2m x\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong 7 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9<\/span> ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span>; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0o ta m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m x\u1ea3 v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng an nhi\u00ean<\/span>, thanh th\u1ea3n<\/span>, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span> b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 trong m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0\u1edbng duy\u00ean, ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh<\/span>. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> ta s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 \u0111au b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n trong t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Ta l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 hu\u00e2n t\u1eadp<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ai ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0\u1eddng ai, th\u00e0nh ra g\u00e2y l\u1ed9n<\/span>, c\u00e3i v\u00e3 v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> ho\u00e0i. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau, ch\u1ed3ng n\u00f3i v\u1ee3 nghe, ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m<\/span> g\u00ec th\u00ec v\u1ee3 tha th\u1ee9<\/span>, b\u1ecf qua. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u1ecbn nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau, c\u1ee9 nh\u1edb c\u1ed1 t\u1eadt<\/span> x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nhau ho\u00e0i th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00f4m nay nh\u1ecbn m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ng\u00e0y mai g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i tam b\u00e0nh l\u1ee5c t\u1eb7c<\/span>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh th\u00e2m c\u0103n c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ebf con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta hay ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a<\/span> trong l\u00f2ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> nh\u1ecbn th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf qua lu\u00f4n, \u0111\u1eebng nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi nh\u1eafc lui ho\u00e0i, nh\u1ecbn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu qu\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u ho\u00e0i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh<\/span>, s\u00e2n si<\/span> l\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span>. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p<\/span> theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn b\u1edfi th\u00f3i quen<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n t\u00ednh n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft gi\u1eadn h\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau. Qua s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn \u0111\u00f3 ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span>, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 vui m\u00e0 b\u1ecf ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ecf. Ch\u1eb3ng qua ta c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 kh\u1edd d\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f4ng n\u1ed7i n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00e3i v\u00e3, ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau. Nay bi\u1ebft v\u1eady r\u1ed3i th\u00ec m\u00ecnh b\u1ecf h\u1ebft, \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn g\u00ec n\u1eefa<\/span>. N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea5y th\u00ec c\u1ee9 \u00f4m \u1ea5p, mai m\u1ed1t g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1i c\u00e3i nhau<\/span> n\u1eefa, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c<\/span> th\u00ec kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n<\/span> ho\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cT\u1eeb\u201d l\u00e0 ban vui, \u201cbi\u201d l\u00e0 c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span>, \u201ch\u1ef7\u201d l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, \u201cx\u1ea3\u201d l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf<\/span> kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc m\u1ecdi tr\u1ea7n c\u1ea3nh<\/span>. Ban vui, c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb<\/span>, tha th\u1ee9<\/span>, b\u1ecf qua s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3. S\u1ef1 vui kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem nh\u01b0<\/span> vui kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, chia vui s\u1edbt kh\u1ed5 tr\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> v\u00f4 ng\u00e3<\/span> v\u1ecb tha<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi bao la<\/span> r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn. V\u00ec th\u1ebf khi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ban \u01a1n<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u1ecd \u01a1n<\/span>, \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ecf x\u00edu v\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>. T\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi<\/span>, v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd gi\u1eadn. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> t\u1eeb bi<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00f3a<\/span> kh\u1ed5 vui c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 vui c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean kh\u1edfi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, ban vui, c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span> l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi. C\u1ee9u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ec3 mong \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n<\/span> nhu c\u1ea7u ri\u00eang t\u01b0 l\u00e0 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/span> t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi<\/span> t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> bi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 vui v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>. \u0110\u00e3 xem c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, s\u1ed1t s\u1eafng<\/span> c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh an vui, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1eadu \u00fd<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap. Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chia s\u1edbt v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0y, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span>, mong m\u1ecfi<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, s\u1ebb chia. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f9ng kh\u1ed5<\/span> c\u00f9ng vui m\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/span>. B\u1edfi c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> nhau tr\u00ean n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m vui, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> m\u1edbi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u00f9ng nhau chia vui, s\u1edbt kh\u1ed5. Th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 vui c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t t\u00e2m<\/span> t\u1eeb bi<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span>, song m\u1edbi t\u1eadp t\u1eeb bi<\/span> th\u00ec xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t<\/span> t\u1eeb g\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i lan r\u1ed9ng ra xa. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u1eadp c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, chia s\u1ebb n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quen trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n<\/span> lan r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n<\/span> trong ta th\u00ec m\u1ecdi s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span>, tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span> theo \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb bi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng v\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u1edfi \u0111\u00e1nh k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. Khi l\u1eeda s\u00e2n ch\u00e1y h\u1eebng h\u1ef1c c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb bi<\/span> kh\u00f4 c\u1ea1n. Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3nh kh\u1ed5, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng n\u1ee1 l\u1ea5y m\u1eaft ng\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee9u<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn x\u00f3t xa, \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn<\/span>; hu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p<\/span> ta d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef<\/span>, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb bi<\/span> \u0111\u00e2u n\u1ee1 tranh gi\u00e0nh<\/span> h\u01a1n thua, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t v\u1edbi k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, b\u1edfi k\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec vui, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5, gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt nhau l\u00e0 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho nhau. T\u1eeb bi<\/span> l\u00e0 ban vui, c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi th\u00ec m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1nh c\u00e1ch tranh \u0111ua<\/span>, gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111em ra gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111em v\u1ec1 cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n chi\u1ec1u theo s\u1edf nguy\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i \u00fd ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>, thu\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb bi<\/span> l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1i \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n<\/span> c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang sanh<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> d\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed7 an vui l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch h\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb bi<\/span>. H\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb bi<\/span> n\u00e0y v\u1eeba m\u1edbi tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb \u00e1c nh\u01b0ng mai kia<\/span> m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bao la<\/span>, r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n<\/span> l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, hi\u1ec3u xa tr\u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean m\u1edbi d\u00f9ng ngh\u1ecbch h\u1ea1nh. D\u00f9 thu\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh hay ngh\u1ecbch h\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n ban vui, c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span>. B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/span> t\u1eeb bi<\/span> l\u00e0 an \u1ed5n<\/span>, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, m\u00e1t m\u1ebb<\/span> n\u00ean m\u1ecdi ch\u00fang sanh<\/span> khi g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span> khi m\u1ecdi v\u1ecdng th\u1ee9c<\/span> ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n, v\u00ec v\u1ecdng th\u1ee9c<\/span> ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> nghi\u1ec7p ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> c\u00f3 y\u00eau, c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t, bu\u1ed3n vui l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n<\/span> n\u00ean kh\u00f3 \u0111em t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>, b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang sanh<\/span>. Khi nghi\u1ec7p th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 trong s\u1ea1ch<\/span>, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m th\u1ec3 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, th\u00eanh thang<\/span>, b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> bao tr\u00f9m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sanh<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> ta-ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00e2y-kia n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng-gh\u00e9t ph\u00e1t sinh l\u00e0m d\u00ednh m\u1eafc. S\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u00e2m th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y th\u00ec hay s\u00e1ng soi mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i, mu\u00f4n v\u1eadt b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. T\u1eeb bi<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 toan t\u00ednh h\u01a1n thua, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 li\u1ec1n gi\u00fap. B\u1ecdn ma v\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, \u00e1c qu\u1ec9 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, tham lam<\/span>, t\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1 g\u1eb7p n\u01b0\u1edbc cam l\u1ed9<\/span> t\u1eeb bi<\/span> th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1eafp tay<\/span>, qu\u00ec g\u1ed1i qui h\u00e0ng. L\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec m\u1ecdi kh\u1ed5 \u0111au \u0111\u1ec1u tan bi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft. T\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o nh\u01b0 d\u00f2ng s\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u00e1t d\u1ecbu nh\u01b0 ng\u1ecdn gi\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u thu, trong s\u00e1ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 \u00e1nh tr\u0103ng r\u1eb1m<\/span> v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t sanh mu\u00f4n ng\u00e0n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> nh\u01b0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t<\/span> ph\u00ec nhi\u00eau nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng<\/span>, k\u00ednh m\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 mang s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi; t\u00e1n th\u00e1n<\/span>, ca ng\u1ee3i<\/span> ai m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t t\u00e2m<\/span> t\u1eeb bi<\/span> v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span>, mong m\u1ecfi<\/span> m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1eeb bi<\/span>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y g\u1eafng c\u00f4ng kh\u01a1i d\u1eady d\u00f2ng su\u1ed1i t\u1eeb bi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kia n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp, t\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1t tr\u1ea7n gian \u0111ang b\u1ecb n\u00f3ng b\u1ee9c<\/span> b\u1edfi s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, si m\u00ea<\/span>. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u1edf nh\u00e2n gian<\/span> n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ngu\u1ed3n n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb bi<\/span> tr\u00e0n v\u1ec1. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng mong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee9u kh\u1ed5<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1eafp tay<\/span> c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi<\/span> t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> bi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a s\u00e2n h\u1eadn<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au b\u1ecb d\u1eadp t\u1eaft<\/span> khi tr\u1eadn m\u01b0a t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n<\/span> kh\u1eafp nh\u00e2n gian<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/span> nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u1edbi b\u1ebfn<\/span> b\u1edd y\u00ean vui, an \u1ed5n<\/span>. Nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn l\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbc d\u1eadp t\u1eaft<\/span> l\u1eeda hay \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1t c\u1ea1n n\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau; ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p<\/span> th\u00ec bi\u1ebft k\u00ednh tr\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau; nh\u1edd th\u1ebf m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. Do bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a b\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb-bi-h\u1ef7-x\u1ea3. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span>, h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span> th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> bi th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai l\u00e0 th\u00f9. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb<\/span> bi th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>, tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau; n\u00ean ta \u0111\u1eebng th\u1ea5y ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Ch\u00ednh do t\u00e2m t\u1eeb<\/span> bi ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi<\/span> n\u00ean ta m\u1edbi nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9<\/span> cho nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/span> t\u1ed1i \u01b0u \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Tuy bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/span> n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ph\u1ea3i r\u00e1ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span>, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec<\/span>, b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 m\u00e0 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng<\/span> l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span> th\u00ec \u1eaft c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, mu\u1ed1n cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ee7 3 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh: t\u1eeb bi<\/span>, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span>. N\u00f3i theo th\u1ebf gian<\/span> l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn, vui v\u1ebb<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> n\u00ean nh\u1edb v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec tr\u00e1i \u00fd nhau th\u00ec h\u00e3y th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau m\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua, mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0m sao cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>, con c\u00e1i \u0103n h\u1ecdc n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00edch cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ri\u00eang t\u01b0 ta<\/span> n\u00ean b\u1ecf qua h\u1ebft. D\u00f9 trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u00e1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, do v\u1eady mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u00ec t\u1eeb l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a. C\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ecbn con c\u00e1i v\u00ec quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> \u201c\u00e1o m\u1eb7c sao qua kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecbn cha m\u1eb9<\/span> ch\u1ee9 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ecbn con; nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc g\u00ec s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf; m\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 cha m\u1eb9<\/span> ch\u1ec9 sinh ra th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/span> n\u00e0y th\u00f4i ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/span> r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i \u01b0u nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> n\u00e0o n\u1eefa n\u00ean m\u1edbi v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span> Ph\u1eadt nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> tu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t<\/span> vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span>. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ai ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m bi\u1ebft s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, thanh t\u1ecbnh<\/span> m\u00e0 Kinh Ph\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh<\/span>; n\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u01a1i m\u1eaft th\u00ec th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea7m l\u1eabn<\/span>, th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y, th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c bi\u1ebft; n\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u01a1i tai nghe ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nghe, c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng nghe c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfng nghe kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfng v\u00ec t\u00e1nh nghe th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng<\/span>; m\u0169i, l\u01b0\u1ee1i, th\u00e2n, \u00fd c\u0169ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Khi ta s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi t\u00e1nh bi\u1ebft s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n<\/span> th\u1eadt r\u1ed3i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn hay tha th\u1ee9<\/span> g\u00ec n\u1eefa<\/span>; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb bi<\/span>, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn, h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span> th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi y\u00ean. Khi t\u00e2m c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 thi\u1ec7n t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i<\/span> v\u1edbi \u00e1c, v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> ta ph\u1ea3i bu\u00f4ng c\u1ea3 thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00e1c th\u00ec t\u00e2m m\u1edbi y\u00ean. T\u00e2m y\u00ean m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n<\/span> th\u1eadt, c\u00f2n t\u00e2m ngh\u0129 thi\u1ec7n ngh\u0129 \u00e1c v.v\u2026 ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n<\/span> th\u1eadt. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd h\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Song, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a qua kh\u1ecfi thi\u1ec7n-\u00e1c th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp tu t\u1eeb bi<\/span>, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span> th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi y\u00ean l\u00e0nh. B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> n\u00ean t\u1eadp t\u1eeb bi<\/span>, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ef7 x\u1ea3<\/span> tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> trong m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi b\u00ecnh an<\/span>. N\u1ebfu l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi nghe k\u00eau m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u00e0 \u201ctri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh an\u201d. L\u00e2u nay qu\u00fd Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> v\u00ec s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh<\/span> s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m sao n\u00ean ai c\u0169ng nu\u00f4i phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/span> tham-s\u00e2n-si trong m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i mang l\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> m\u00e0 k\u00eau tr\u1eddi, tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea5t. Khi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. N\u1ebfu v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i<\/span> th\u00ec th\u00e0nh Th\u00e1nh<\/span> lu\u00f4n r\u1ed3i, v\u00ec c\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh th\u00ec c\u00f2n gh\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u00e1c n\u00ean c\u00f2n c\u00f3 hai t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i<\/span> v\u1edbi nhau<\/span>. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai b\u00ean ta-ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c-m\u1ea5t, h\u01a1n-thua th\u00ec m\u1edbi h\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span>. \u00dd ngh\u0129a<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> r\u1ea5t cao si\u00eau l\u00e0 v\u1eady! S\u01b0 \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> n\u00f3i, \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

BI\u1ebeT C\u00c1CH GI\u00daP NG\u01af\u1edcI V\u01af\u1ee2T QUA<\/span> B\u1ebe T\u1eaeC<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con c\u00f2 \u0111ang b\u1ecb n\u1ea1n<\/span> trong h\u1ed3 c\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> v\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u v\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t t\u00fai ni l\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7y n\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u00ecn con c\u00f2 \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u00fai \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00fac c\u1ee7i kh\u00f4 tr\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t th\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> nhanh ch\u00e2n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> c\u1ee9u nh\u01b0ng con c\u00f2 nghe ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> m\u1ea1nh li\u1ec1n gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh, v\u1ed7 c\u00e1nh bay \u0111i. N\u00f3 bay trong d\u00e1ng d\u1ea5p qu\u1edd qu\u1ea1ng v\u00ec m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/span> v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c<\/span>; bay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1eebng v\u00e0i m\u00e9t th\u00ec n\u00f3 r\u1edbt xu\u1ed1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9ng kho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ed9 20 m\u00e9t; h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang run r\u1ea9y v\u00ec s\u1ee3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> b\u1eaft. T\u00f4i b\u01b0\u1edbc g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> th\u00ec con c\u00f2 ho\u1ea3ng v\u00eda bay lu\u00f4n, nh\u01b0ng bay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xa l\u1eafm th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1p xu\u1ed1ng, chui r\u00fac v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t b\u1ee5i c\u00e2y g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi<\/span> g\u1ea7n s\u00e1t con c\u00f2 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean<\/span> trong b\u1ee5i r\u1eb7m, t\u00f4i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng<\/span> l\u1ea5y t\u00fai n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eb7ng tr\u0129u<\/span> tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 ra. Hai con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecf ng\u1ea7u, ch\u1eafc n\u00f3 ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> l\u1eafm n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 d\u00f3c d\u00e1ng b\u01a1 ph\u1edd, thi\u1ec3u n\u00e3o<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con c\u00f2 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? Trong ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed<\/span> mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> nh\u00e2n danh<\/span> t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5ng t\u1ed1i cao<\/span> r\u1ed3i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m h\u1ecd th\u00eam hoang mang, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span>. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> r\u1ed3i l\u00e0 ta mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap h\u1ecd n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng<\/span> thua k\u00e9m<\/span> g\u00ec t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Cho d\u00f9 ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap hay n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf m\u1eb7t con c\u00f2 trong khi n\u00f3 \u0111ang c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap v\u00ec t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1edbi n\u00f3. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t<\/span> v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i b\u1ecbch n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m n\u00f3 ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> tho\u00e1t th\u00e2n<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 con c\u00f2 v\u00ec g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00ean s\u1ebd ngoan ngo\u00e3n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ta gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 th\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7m. Tuy kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u0129 di\u1ec7n<\/span>, v\u1eabn m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span>, t\u1ef1 \u00e1i<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. Ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 khi kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng<\/span> nh\u1eadp vai l\u00e0m c\u00f2 m\u00e0 ta tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, l\u00ean \u00e1n, bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span> cho n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i khi x\u01b0a khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, m\u00ecnh v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y s\u01a1 \u00fd<\/span> n\u00ean v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ea1ch c\u1eeda<\/span> t\u00e9 nh\u00e0o v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c r\u00e9 l\u00ean. M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ta ch\u1ea1y t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee1 d\u1eady r\u1ed3i c\u00f2n b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c, la r\u1ea7y c\u00e1i ng\u1ea1ch c\u1eeda<\/span> sao h\u01b0 qu\u00e1, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m con m\u1eb9 t\u00e9 \u0111au nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi ta h\u1ebft \u0111au th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd khuy\u00ean ta h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ng\u1ea1ch c\u1eeda<\/span> kia ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1eb9 nh\u1eabn t\u00e2m<\/span> ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch<\/span> con c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng c\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft bao dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, v\u00ec tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 bao dung<\/span> nh\u1eefng m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. \u0110\u00f4i khi, tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/span> s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t \u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn lao nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u01b0\u1edfng, ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1i t\u00e2m<\/span> th\u1ee9c h\u1ecd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 n\u00ean h\u1ecd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ebd \u0111\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u sai. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft<\/span> ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n m\u1ed9t m\u00e0u t\u1ed1i \u0111en, m\u1edd m\u1ecbt<\/span>. Khi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, l\u1ea1c lo\u00e0i, ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i, ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi theo d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1eadn<\/span>. Ta nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft bi quan<\/span> ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span> v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc v\u00e0 che ch\u1edf<\/span> ta, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t b\u00ean ta trong t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y, nh\u01b0ng ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, c\u00f2n v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u1ed1t \u0111ang dang tay ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau hay m\u1ed9t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> cao \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Cho n\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng<\/span> c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ebft ch\u00ecm<\/span> trong kh\u1ed5 \u0111au m\u00e3i.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 d\u1ea1y m\u00f4n t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o<\/span> d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng d\u1ea1y h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee9a h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con. Khi tr\u00e1i tim \u00f4ng thi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> trong s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> l\u1eabn nhau th\u00ec \u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng b\u00edt l\u1ea1i c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u00e0 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i nghe theo nh\u01b0<\/span> th\u1ebf. Trong t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 \u00e1i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 uy quy\u1ec1n<\/span>, th\u1ebf l\u1ef1c<\/span>. Ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c m\u1ea1nh v\u00ec quy\u1ec1n uy<\/span>, th\u1ebf l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 v\u00e0o vai cha m\u1eb9<\/span> bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span> con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c<\/span>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ch\u01a1i v\u01a1i, ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi gi\u1eefa d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1eadn<\/span> nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c v\u00e0o r\u1eebng s\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1ebbo v\u1ec1. T\u00e2m h\u1ecd hoang mang, lo s\u1ee3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean<\/span> huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed, m\u00f4ng lung, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a con s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa ch\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9<\/span> m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai. T\u00e2m ta nh\u01b0 khe n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y trong nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng su\u1ed1i nh\u1ecf n\u01a1i r\u1eebng s\u00e2u hoang v\u1eafng<\/span>. Ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au khi \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai hi\u1ec3u ta, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au c\u1ee7a ta v\u00e0 ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ai c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng v\u0103n minh<\/span>, ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9<\/span> l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Ai c\u0169ng r\u00e1ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m<\/span> gi\u00e0u v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t<\/span>, s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span>, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n vinh \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d ph\u00f9 phi\u1ebfm<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/span>. C\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec9nh cao c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u00e0 danh v\u1ecdng<\/span> th\u00ec ta c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y xa v\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, c\u00e0ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span> th\u00ec c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ch\u00f4ng ch\u00eanh, ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ec1nh tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc thuy\u1ec1n n\u1eb1m gi\u1eefa phong ba b\u00e3o t\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 ta lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng trong lo \u00e2u<\/span>, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span>, trong m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au; ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd<\/span> m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u00f4 v\u1ecb<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Ai s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2y khi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn n\u1eb7ng l\u00f2ng ho\u00e0i nghi<\/span>, v\u1eabn b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/span> s\u0129 di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u00ec \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p<\/span> v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> hay mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>. Tuy s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u01b0ng ta v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng. Ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng ch\u00e1y ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb con tim, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00ec nhau, h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng<\/span> cho nhau, c\u00f9ng qu\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y nhau<\/span> nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u1ec3 xa r\u1eddi nhau, v\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> khi v\u1eeba t\u00e1ch ra ta v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf lu\u00f4n \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>, ta ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>, ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng nhau trao \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c n\u00ean c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i ta c\u00e0ng b\u01a1 v\u01a1, l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> nhu c\u1ea7u cho nhau th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t<\/span>, v\u00ec ta ch\u1ec9 l\u1ee3i<\/span> d\u1ee5ng l\u1eabn nhau qua th\u00e2n x\u00e1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n<\/span> m\u1eb7t m\u0169i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c. V\u00ec b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u nay ta c\u1ee9 l\u0103ng x\u0103ng<\/span> ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i, r\u1ed7ng rang trong t\u00e2m l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0n v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ta nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ta l\u00e0 g\u00ec ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, v\u1eady m\u00e0<\/span> ta c\u1ee9 h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n<\/span> t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u1ecd m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn<\/span> t\u00e2m r\u1ed7ng rang, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> n\u00ean khi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi v\u00f4 v\u1ecb<\/span>, l\u1ea1c lo\u00e0i l\u00e0m sao; do \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng<\/span> n\u1eafm b\u1eaft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span>. Thay v\u00ec ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac<\/span> qua l\u1ea1i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1ecbp c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> l\u00e0m ta ph\u1ea3i lao t\u00e2m nh\u1ecdc s\u1ee9c, nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi gian<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea3nh rang<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i quay l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p<\/span> nh\u1eadn n\u00ean c\u1ee9 m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh trong thi\u00ean h\u1ea1<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf khi g\u1eb7p s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1<\/span> g\u00ec b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span> ta l\u1ea1i hoang mang, lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kinh ho\u00e0ng<\/span> n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh<\/span> th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng suy x\u00e9t<\/span>, qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/span> an to\u00e0n<\/span>. Ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t th\u00ec ta h\u00e3y l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn bao dung<\/span>, tha th\u1ee9<\/span>, h\u00e3y m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> l\u00f2ng ra \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn<\/span> m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i<\/span> nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ea7u m\u00e0 ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng<\/span> t\u1eeb l\u00e2u. Khi \u0111\u1ee7 duy\u00ean ta s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f9ng chia ng\u1ecdt x\u1ebb b\u00f9i, c\u00f9ng g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c<\/span> cho nhau, c\u00f9ng t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh trao \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ef7<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, b\u00ed quy\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a<\/span> n\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span> l\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft quay l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> l\u00f2ng ra \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Ta s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 khi bi\u1ebft chan h\u00f2a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng<\/span> v\u1edbi tha nh\u00e2n<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f9 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> v\u1edbi ta m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span> d\u00f9 \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> n\u00e0o, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tri k\u1ef7<\/span> ta v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00ec ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> c\u00f3 hy v\u1ecdng<\/span>, ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y mai t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u1edbn lao trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t canh b\u1ea1c sau c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng, b\u01a1 v\u01a1 cho b\u1eb1ng khi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u, hay n\u00f3i<\/span> \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n ta \u0111ang v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span> tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t, nh\u01b0 con c\u00f2 kia \u0111ang ch\u1ebft d\u1ea7n trong s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t. Ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> ta s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft m\u00f2n<\/span> theo ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng tr\u00f4i qua<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tin s\u00e2u nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 xem s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> qu\u00fd b\u00e1u<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>. H\u1ecd tin nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ed5 c\u00f4ng g\u1ea7y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ea5t h\u1eb3n, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed5 qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i l\u1ef1c v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh n\u00ean s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u1ea5t<\/span> n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng than v\u00e3n<\/span> hay b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e1 tr\u1eddi l\u1ea5p bi\u1ec3n v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au th\u00e0nh an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ngay t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o b\u1ebf t\u1eafc, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> ta s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Ai khi\u1ebfn ta ra<\/span> n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i n\u00e0y? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ta m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m cho ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> m\u00e0 ta \u0111ang s\u1edf h\u1eefu<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang<\/span> ta, ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> hay h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i n\u00f3 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng lao<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9<\/span>, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i d\u00e0i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7<\/span> \u00f4ng b\u00e0, t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean<\/span>. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span> lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong ta, trong t\u1eebng t\u1ebf b\u00e0o v\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf<\/span>, h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u00f9ng ta \u0111i h\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 n\u1eeda ch\u1eebng th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ta t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> hay b\u1ebf t\u1eafc th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ta khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u00f9ng c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi con m\u1eaft bi quan<\/span>, ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ec3 kh\u1ed5 trong khi \u0111\u1eddi v\u1ed1n v\u1eabn \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng v\u00ec sao l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh. B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, ch\u1ec9 t\u00f9y theo<\/span> suy ngh\u0129<\/span> v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> hay \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> tr\u1ea7n gian. T\u1ea1i sao ta c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, t\u1ea1i sao ta tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng? Ai \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y ta v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3? Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf<\/span> \u01b0? Th\u1ea7n linh<\/span> \u01b0? Vua quan \u01b0? Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span> \u01b0? B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u01b0? X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> \u01b0? Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ta l\u00e0m cho ta tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng ai ngo\u00e0i ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00ecnh h\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y theo<\/span> nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee5p c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, b\u1eaft c\u00e1i kia v\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e0ng t\u00edch ch\u1ee9a nhi\u1ec1u, c\u00e0ng ti\u1ec7n nghi<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho n\u1ed9i l\u1ef1c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00eam suy y\u1ebfu<\/span>. T\u00e2m ta c\u00e0ng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i<\/span>, lo s\u1ee3 khi b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, hao h\u1ee5t, khi\u1ebfn cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed<\/span> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u00ea m\u1edd, u t\u1ed1i. Ta hay hoang mang, lo l\u1eafng<\/span>, ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3, \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3<\/span> m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u00e1y m\u00f3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y trong \u0111\u00eam t\u1ed1i m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 con r\u1eafn n\u00ean c\u00e0ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span>, \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span> h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ebft c\u00f2n hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft<\/span> h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi \u0111en t\u1ed1i<\/span>, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> v\u00e0 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 khai m\u1edf con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u00e2m linh<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng, b\u01a1 v\u01a1 gi\u1eefa d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1eadn<\/span>. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span>, h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> qu\u00e1 ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng<\/span>, tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> qu\u00e1 \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>, bu\u1ed3n t\u1ee7i. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u01a1i n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a<\/span>, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> l\u1ea1c lo\u00e0i, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/span> nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3<\/span> b\u1ed7ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd tr\u1eafng tay s\u1ea1ch s\u00e0nh sanh. M\u1ecdi c\u00e1i, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/span> n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 nhanh n\u00ean h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/span> ch\u1edbi v\u1edbi, b\u01a1 v\u01a1 nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng, \u0111\u00e0nh cam ch\u1ecbu<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ai t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span> c\u1ef1c, tr\u00e1i tim h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 s\u1eafp v\u1ee1 ra t\u1eebng m\u1ea3nh v\u1ee5n v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 dung ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au. H\u1ecd c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span>, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch h\u1ecd v\u00ec quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> \u1ea5y. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai n\u1ee1 tr\u00e1ch gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 l\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i<\/span>. Li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean n\u01a1i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> ti\u1ebfp theo<\/span> hay b\u1ecb \u0111o\u1ea1 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c<\/span> ngu si<\/span> v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 hu\u1ef7 ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh? T\u01b0\u01a1ng lai lu\u00f4n \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ta hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, an l\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00ec nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o qu\u1ea3 n\u1ea5y. Kh\u1ed5 \u0111au t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim th\u00ec c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ee9ng g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u0169ng n\u1eb1m trong tr\u00e1i tim ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf n\u01a1i n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ta \u0111\u1eebng o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n<\/span> k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh cho l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh<\/span>. D\u00f9 ta c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong l\u00f2ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0nh l\u1eb7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 th\u00eam l\u1edbn m\u1ea1nh h\u1eadn th\u00f9<\/span>. Khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn ta hay tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i g\u1eb7m nh\u1eafm n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u00e0 than th\u00e2n<\/span> tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t. Ta t\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb kh\u1ed5 \u0111au nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu cho ai k\u00e9o m\u00ecnh tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi<\/span> v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m<\/span> \u0111en t\u1ed1i<\/span> \u1ea5y.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf d\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> th\u00ec em b\u00e9 d\u1ec5 h\u1eddn d\u1ec5 kh\u00f3c, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1<\/span> \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat l\u00e0 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i<\/span> tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>. V\u1eady n\u00ean ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng b\u00ecnh minh, mu\u1ed1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t tho\u00e1t c\u01a1n kh\u1ed5 \u0111au tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra<\/span> l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t. C\u00e2y kh\u00f4 m\u1ecdc theo tri\u1ec1n n\u00fai m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u00f3 phong ba b\u00e3o t\u00e1p c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e2y nghi\u00eang ng\u00e3. Ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean<\/span> su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1<\/span>. N\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/span> ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m \u01a1n<\/span> nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh d\u00e0y v\u00f2, \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>, v\u00ec nh\u1edd h\u1ecd ta m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> trong m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> tu t\u1eadp<\/span> chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta th\u00eam th\u00e2m h\u1eadu v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>. Ta h\u00e3y tin ch\u1eafc<\/span> m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5i thay v\u00e0 ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng<\/span> n\u1eefa b\u1edfi trong m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong kho\u1ea3ng<\/span> tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t bao la<\/span> n\u00e0y, t\u00f9y theo<\/span> ph\u01b0\u1edbc nghi\u1ec7p<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f3 n\u00ean h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng sai kh\u00e1c; t\u00f9y theo<\/span> nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra th\u00f3i quen<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Cho n\u00ean, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u1ed1ng ai. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng chi\u1ebfu soi kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> c\u0103n t\u00e1nh<\/span> c\u00f3 sai bi\u1ec7t<\/span>, do \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra thi\u00ean h\u00ecnh v\u1ea1n tr\u1ea1ng<\/span>, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i c\u1ea3nh. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebb \u0111en ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1eafng, k\u1ebb th\u1ea5p ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao, k\u1ebb t\u1ed1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u, k\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t, k\u1ebb h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua, k\u1ebb th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1i\u2026 Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> sinh ra c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n cao<\/span> ch\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng, gi\u00e0u sang<\/span> t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh hay b\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f3i r\u00e9t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Kh\u1ed5 \u0111au hay h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> \u0111\u1ec1u do con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> t\u1ea1o l\u1ea5y. M\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/span> b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span> gi\u00e1ng h\u1ecda<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m<\/span> v\u1ec1 ki\u1ebfp nh\u00e2n sinh<\/span> nh\u01b0 quan ni\u1ec7m<\/span> c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi xa x\u01b0a cho r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 an b\u00e0i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111o\u1ea1t<\/span>, s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/span> gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> lu\u00f4n \u00e2m th\u1ea7m t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span>, chi ph\u1ed1i<\/span> m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y, l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>, l\u00e0m \u00e1c ch\u1ecbu qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o<\/span> kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, v\u00ec th\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c<\/span> \u0111\u1eddi s\u00e1ng hay t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec1u do m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o l\u1ea5y. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi<\/span> ch\u00e2n l\u00fd<\/span> lu\u00f4n soi s\u00e1ng<\/span> kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i, soi r\u1ecdi kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n sinh<\/span> v\u00e0 chan h\u00f2a c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/span> h\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/span> cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span>. V\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 sai bi\u1ec7t<\/span> t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed7i h\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i v\u1ebd, m\u1ed7i c\u1ea3nh m\u1ed7i hoa. \u0110\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt<\/span> kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn h\u1ea9m hiu<\/span> hay ph\u00f3 th\u00e1c cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 an b\u00e0i m\u00e0 m\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh th\u1ea3 tr\u00f4i<\/span> theo d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 than th\u00e2n<\/span>, tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn trong khi hoa v\u1eabn n\u1edf, tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn trong, m\u00e2y v\u1eabn bay, su\u1ed1i v\u1eabn reo nh\u01b0 h\u00f2a c\u00f9ng kh\u00fac nh\u1ea1c l\u00f2ng lu\u00f4n vang v\u1ecdng kh\u1eafp mu\u00f4n n\u01a1i. M\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c<\/span> x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> s\u00e2u xa<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, s\u00e1ng hay t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec1u do m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span> v\u00f4 gi\u00e1<\/span> l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft \u0111em t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span> v\u00f4 gi\u00e1<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 ra x\u00e0i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/span>, m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf<\/span> gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span>, lu\u00f4n v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> ch\u00fang sinh<\/span> m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>, cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh an<\/span> v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span>. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u0110i\u1ec3m thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Vai tr\u00f2<\/span> gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed<\/span>, ch\u1ee9c danh m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00edch cho tha nh\u00e2n<\/span> v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft<\/span> su\u00f4ng m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng<\/span> thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c<\/span> trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span>, s\u00e1ng hay t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec1u do con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5ng si\u00eau h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t<\/span>, \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111o\u1ea1t<\/span> s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> th\u00ec v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ta \u0111\u1ea9y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed<\/span> t\u1ed1i t\u0103m<\/span>, m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7<\/span> ph\u1ee5c d\u1ecbch<\/span> cho \u0111\u1ea5ng t\u1ed1i cao<\/span>. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc<\/span> hi\u1ec3u, t\u01b0 duy<\/span>, qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu<\/span>, l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00e0 c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span>, nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span> v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1edd. S\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i lu\u00f4n \u0111an xen l\u1eabn<\/span> nhau. Khi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t th\u00ec b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t; nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1i t\u0103m<\/span> l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u1ea5n chi\u1ebfm \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd<\/span> n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1edbi thi\u00ean h\u00ecnh v\u1ea1n tr\u1ea1ng<\/span>. <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

TH\u1ea4T B\u1ea0I HAY TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1<\/span> nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do ai ban ph\u00e1t cho m\u00e0 do nh\u1eefng nghi\u1ec7p nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> t\u1ea1o n\u00ean t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n t\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o t\u00e1c s\u1ebd tr\u1ed5 qu\u1ea3 x\u1ea5u, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd tr\u1ed5 qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t. Nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cmu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 gieo nh\u00e2n g\u00ec th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn c\u00e1i qu\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111ang l\u00e3nh trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ra sao th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn c\u00e1i nh\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111ang gieo trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i\u201d. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span> m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/span> b\u1edfi tr\u00f9ng tr\u00f9ng<\/span> duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi<\/span>, ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 do tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> li\u1ec5u \u0111\u1ea1o m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y nghi\u1ec7p ch\u01b0\u1edbng<\/span> x\u01b0a nay<\/span> l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt ra, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ta s\u1ebd thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng<\/span> trong c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ta nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh r\u00f5 h\u01a1n. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t<\/span>, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, s\u1ef1 h\u00e1o th\u1eafng hay ch\u1ee7 quan<\/span> trong ta c\u0169ng r\u01a1i r\u1ee5ng b\u1edbt. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do<\/span> c\u00e1c b\u1eadc tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m lu\u00f4n r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng<\/span> khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u1eb7t h\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. H\u1ecd ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> x\u1ea5u khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea3o \u0111i\u00ean<\/span> khi g\u1eb7p kh\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1n. S\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> tai h\u1ecda<\/span> cho ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> h\u1ecd v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> chung quanh. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn<\/span> r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> vang d\u1ed9i<\/span> nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i mau ch\u00f3ng ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> c\u1ed1ng cao<\/span>, ng\u00e3 m\u1ea1n<\/span> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> l\u00e0 g\u00ec m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft bao k\u1ebb b\u1ecf c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng? Hay n\u00f3i<\/span> c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t<\/span>, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3<\/span>, sang tr\u1ecdng<\/span>, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/span> ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. Song, ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span> h\u01a1n, gi\u00e0u kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng<\/span> \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/span> l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> ta \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span>. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i l\u00ean<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ai trong ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta lui s\u1ee5t v\u00ec s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, hao t\u1ed1n<\/span> t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 d\u0169ng kh\u00ed<\/span> s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5t ch\u00ed n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nu\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed s\u1eaft \u0111\u00e1<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i<\/span> con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i. N\u00f3i chung, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f9y theo<\/span> n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 lu\u00f4n hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span>, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> ta ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang, thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span>, ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span>. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> kh\u00e1ch quan b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/span> h\u1eb3n hoi<\/span> m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 logic h\u01a1n. V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta<\/span> ch\u1edb lo s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3<\/span> h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 ta b\u1ecf qua nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c<\/span> m\u00ecnh. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean<\/span> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n<\/span> \u00fd ch\u00ed<\/span>, s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec<\/span> ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span> trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> trong khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i bi quan<\/span>, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n th\u00ec ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> n\u00e0o h\u1ebft v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc<\/span>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1eefng ch\u00ed b\u1ec1n l\u00f2ng, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec<\/span> kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu ta bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> th\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y cho ta c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cao h\u01a1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua<\/span> th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua<\/span> nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i cay \u0111\u1eafng<\/span> n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ed5i. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi<\/span> nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y th\u00f4ng qua t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>. H\u00e3y r\u00fat ra cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> qu\u00fd b\u00e1u<\/span> c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/span> h\u01a1n. D\u00f9 sao \u0111i n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d ? \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/span> trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng hay<\/span> bi quan<\/span>, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c n\u1eeda ch\u1eebng; nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed<\/span>, h\u1ecd ki\u00ean tr\u00ec<\/span>, b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby<\/span> c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Sau khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> qu\u00fd b\u00e1u<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1eefa. Ngo\u00e0i ra<\/span>, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f2n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n<\/span> th\u00eam \u00fd ch\u00ed<\/span> c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1eefa m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> cho m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span> h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span>, t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 th\u00eam kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span>. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta<\/span> m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3<\/span> m\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp theo<\/span>. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> ki\u00ean tr\u00ec<\/span>, b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc. Khi ta l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn th\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do ch\u1ee7 quan<\/span> ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1ch quan g\u00e2y n\u00ean. Khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ng\u00e3 l\u00f2ng<\/span> th\u00ec s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span>, m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft \u00fd ch\u00ed<\/span>, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng<\/span> l\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00fat t\u1ec9a kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> th\u00ec \u00fd ch\u00ed<\/span> s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng th\u00eam v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng<\/span>, kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta s\u1ebd d\u00e0y d\u1eb7n h\u01a1n, ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> nh\u01b0 \u00fd<\/span> mu\u1ed1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eef \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u201d \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ta hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m<\/span> l\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3, ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> tr\u1eafng tay. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7y d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e2u? Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n, nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c<\/span> t\u00edch l\u0169y<\/span> c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1<\/span> thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng gom l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng<\/span> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh<\/span> hay \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, khi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> n\u00e0y \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean vai c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/span> c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n<\/span> n\u00e0o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ra t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nho nh\u1ecf ban \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span>. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, an \u1ee7i<\/span> n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111i ti\u1ebfp. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u qua nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7<\/span> nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi<\/span> nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta<\/span> tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t<\/span> t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> trong nay mai th\u00ec ta c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1<\/span> \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/span> v\u1edbi n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u1eafm h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m tay c\u1ee7a ta. D\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u00f3 khi n\u1eb1m ngay trong ta v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf t\u00e1c ra, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/span> v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t<\/span> n\u00ean ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00eam b\u1edbt<\/span> th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> cho n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u00e1o ch\u00ed<\/span> t\u1eebng vinh danh m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 ngh\u00e8o thi \u0111\u1eadu \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc<\/span> v\u1edbi v\u1ecb tr\u00ed<\/span> th\u1ee7 khoa. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1eadu, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> l\u1edbn; nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> kh\u00e1c th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3<\/span>, nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha g\u1ea7n 20 n\u0103m tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1p x\u00edch l\u00f4 nu\u00f4i con \u0103n h\u1ecdc. Bao nhi\u00eau \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/span> v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc<\/span> nay \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c<\/span>. Ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai \u0111\u1eadu \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc<\/span> c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t kho\u00e1 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ai c\u0169ng n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi b\u00ed quy\u1ebft<\/span> \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gian<\/span> n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh<\/span> c\u00f5i thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi<\/span> th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a h\u1ee3p l\u00fd<\/span>, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec d\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span>; nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai trong khi ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> n\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c mau ch\u00f3ng \u0111i\u00eau t\u00e0n<\/span>, s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5. Khi t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ta ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn ra<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng d\u1ec7t l\u00ean nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u1ed9ng<\/span> \u1edf t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u1ebfu ta cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec t\u00e0i n\u0103ng<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh c\u00f3 th\u1eeba, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ta r\u1ea5t gh\u00e9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ta c\u00f2n cho r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u xa<\/span>, nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3 n\u00ean khi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> v\u1edbi n\u00f3 ta d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb chao \u0111\u1ea3o<\/span> v\u00e0 ng\u00e3 qu\u1ef5. Nhi\u1ec1u khi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/span> v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 bao, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o danh d\u1ef1<\/span> m\u1edbi l\u00e0m cho ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ec7t tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> r\u1ea5t n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, ph\u1ea3i ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian<\/span> v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ed7ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra<\/span> s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span> c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 trong tho\u00e1ng ch\u1ed1c. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ecf qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ecfi m\u00f2n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/span> m\u00f4ng lung c\u1ee7a ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. Ta v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i<\/span> lo thu d\u1ecdn bao nhi\u00eau th\u1ee9 t\u00e0n d\u01b0 sau khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i<\/span> t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn<\/span> s\u0129 di\u1ec7n<\/span> ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ta v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> coi khinh c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> khi h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ta th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec s\u0129 di\u1ec7n<\/span> \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea5n ch\u00ecm cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> ta trong u m\u00ea<\/span>, t\u0103m t\u1ed1i. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi ta ch\u01b0a quen th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i bao gi\u1edd hay b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean ta r\u1ea5t hoang mang, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c<\/span> th\u00ec t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm<\/span> ngay vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00ec mau ch\u00f3ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/span> th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau<\/span>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> sau s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1<\/span> g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta c\u1ed1 b\u00e1m v\u00edu<\/span> trong khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua<\/span> s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc. Ta l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/span> h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t<\/span> ta \u0111ang c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1<\/span> \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/span> s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u<\/span> nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u<\/span>. Ta n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i<\/span> t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng<\/span> s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d thu\u1ea7n ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng<\/span> m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/span> nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c<\/span> \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, l\u1ef1c b\u1ea5t t\u00f2ng t\u00e2m, ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i<\/span> day d\u1ee9t hay tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn<\/span> ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span>. Khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/span> t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m<\/span> l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5, ni\u1ec1m \u0111au v\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng<\/span>, ta c\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n \u0111eo b\u00e1m m\u00e3i s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> hay kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft<\/span> cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a ta trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3<\/span> b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/span> ch\u1ec9 \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a<\/span>. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i d\u00f9 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i<\/span> t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> m\u00e0 ta \u0111ang n\u1eafm gi\u1eef trong t\u1ea7m tay.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n<\/span> hay ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/span> c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span> c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfa l\u1ea5p n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c cao c\u1ea3 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd xoa d\u1ecbu<\/span> b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 qua. Khi b\u1ecb g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ta hay t\u00ecm t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> danh v\u1ecdng<\/span>, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u1edbt \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm h\u01a1n. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng<\/span> kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch<\/span> th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n<\/span> sau nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta<\/span> hay hy v\u1ecdng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 mong g\u1ee1 g\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp chuy\u1ec7n \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> c\u0169, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb ch\u01a1i b\u1ea1c li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh<\/span> l\u1ea5y h\u1ebft s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0m v\u1ed1n li\u1ebfng sinh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t v\u00e1n b\u00e0i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/span> sinh t\u1ed3n<\/span> c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> v\u1ed1n lu\u00f4n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t, ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 th\u1ea5t<\/span> b\u1ea1i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 n\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u1ecbu ph\u00e1t ra, nh\u1edd v\u1eady con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u1edbi v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/span> c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby<\/span> cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span>. Cho n\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3<\/span> th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span> ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c<\/span> uy\u00ean b\u00e1c<\/span> h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> trong thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i<\/span> d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u1ecdi tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh s\u1ed1ng. B\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi ch\u00fang ta<\/span> \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra sao. Ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng minh ghi nh\u1eadn<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n trong d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c<\/span> m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u00fd ch\u00ed<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p<\/span> hay ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn<\/span> ri\u00eang t\u01b0, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tham v\u1ecdng<\/span> qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng<\/span>. Khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i<\/span> ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n, ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 quan<\/span> m\u1edbi l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> ch\u00ednh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/span> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2<\/span> ph\u1ee5 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng<\/span> v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/span> tu\u00e2n theo<\/span> quy lu\u1eadt<\/span> nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3<\/span> t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan, ta bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc<\/span> chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, trau d\u1ed3i tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c<\/span> gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u1edf mang tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng su\u1ed1t<\/span>, th\u1ea5u r\u00f5 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt<\/span>. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, \u00f4ng cha ta ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a<\/span> th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u201ctr\u0103m hay kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng tay quen”, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m h\u1ecdc l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft<\/span> su\u00f4ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng<\/span> th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> th\u00ec khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/span> nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. M\u1ed9t b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c<\/span> l\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc r\u1ed9ng<\/span> hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span> r\u1ea5t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/span>, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/span> hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n<\/span> “ch\u00e2n l\u1ea5m tay b\u00f9n” su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y “b\u00e1n m\u1eb7t cho \u0111\u1ea5t, b\u00e1n l\u01b0ng cho tr\u1eddi” kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh<\/span>, \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o<\/span> qua tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp m\u00e0 tay ngh\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> trong s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t. Do \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u<\/span> t\u1eeb ng\u00e0n x\u01b0a cho \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span> ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span>. Ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a nh\u01b0 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span> v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn<\/span> h\u1ebft th\u1eddi<\/span> gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span> m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/span> \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/span> r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/span> m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o<\/span> \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/span> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ch\u00fat \u00edt v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft dung ho\u00e0 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao d\u1ecbch l\u00e0m \u0103n v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> lu\u00f4n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/span>, trau d\u1ed3i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> l\u00f2ng khoan dung<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/span>. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch<\/span> chung cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n s\u1ef1 t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng trong tham lam<\/span>, \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/span>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady<\/span>, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i<\/span> v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n<\/span> trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/span> x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

_ Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 theo k\u1ecbp<\/span> s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn ho\u00e1 c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i<\/span>, h\u1ecd xem \u0111\u00e2y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/span>. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m<\/span> \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft<\/span> v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n<\/span> \u0111\u00ea h\u00e8n<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 cho m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/span> v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng<\/span> ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/span> nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u0169ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/span>. N\u1ebfu ta gi\u1eef ch\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> sai l\u1ea7m<\/span> c\u00f3 khi l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c<\/span>. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span> khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd hay bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, n\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n<\/span> nhanh ch\u00f3ng b\u1ecb suy s\u1ee5p<\/span> r\u1ed3i h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh trong men say t\u00ecnh \u00e1i<\/span> m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i<\/span>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00e2m b\u1ec7nh r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3<\/span>, hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c<\/span> h\u1ec7. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/span> ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t<\/span> m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/span> sao qu\u00e1 \u0111en t\u1ed1i<\/span> n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c trong s\u00e1ng<\/span> h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt<\/span> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp trong Kinh l\u00e0 \u201cnguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u201d. D\u1ef1a theo b\u1ea3n Kinh<\/span> t\u1ea1ng Nikaya ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/span> r\u00fat g\u1ecdn l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 sau: C\u00f3 h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>; nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/span> h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/span> nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a n\u00ean sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0103n, mua b\u00e1n<\/span> g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a n\u00ean sau khi qua \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd t\u00e1i sinh<\/span> ch\u1ed7 m\u1edbi, c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0103n mua b\u00e1n<\/span> g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 l\u00fd<\/span> gi\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111a s\u1ed1<\/span> c\u00e1c h\u00e0ng doanh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng<\/span> th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn xa tr\u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng, bi\u1ebft n\u1eafm b\u1eaft th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c may m\u1eafn<\/span>. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi k\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0103n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a g\u1eb7p th\u1eddi v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i khi ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u thua k\u00e9m<\/span> ai, ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1i \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi qu\u00e1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng ai ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7<\/span> m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft<\/span> v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1o<\/span> qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/span> h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gieo tr\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kinh doanh l\u00e0m ch\u01a1i \u0103n thi\u1ec7t th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1o<\/span> do nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean ch\u1edb v\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>; v\u00ec l\u00e0m ph\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u1ebfu hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u00edt m\u00e0 \u0103n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec ph\u01b0\u1edbc mau h\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ho\u1ea1 ngh\u00e8o thi\u1ebfu v\u1ec1 sau. S\u1ef1 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5<\/span> kinh t\u1ebf th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c<\/span> l\u00f2ng tham v\u1ed1n s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> trong su\u1ed1t<\/span> m\u1ea5y ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m qua, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u1ee9 nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft lao v\u00e0o tranh gi\u00e0nh<\/span> quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i<\/span>, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/span> t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/span> \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span> c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 sinh s\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean<\/span>, n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft gieo tr\u1ed3ng ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1o<\/span> nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c mua b\u00e1n<\/span> l\u00e0m \u0103n c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> d\u00f9 c\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/span>, si\u00eang n\u0103ng, t\u1eadn tu\u1ef5 v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c; v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1u n\u00e0o l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 duy\u00ean<\/span> v\u00e0 c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span> cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu h\u00e0nh<\/span> ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/span> \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u<\/span> vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span>, tr\u00ean c\u1ea7u th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt<\/span>, d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9<\/span> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang sinh<\/span>. Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c vun tr\u1ed3ng<\/span> ph\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1o<\/span> t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i si\u00eang n\u0103ng tinh c\u1ea7n<\/span> l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m<\/span>, d\u00e8 s\u1ebbn trong chi ti\u00eau<\/span> v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ti\u00eau x\u00e0i hoang ph\u00ed<\/span> qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/span>. Ngo\u00e0i ra<\/span>, ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gian tham<\/span>, tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, l\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/span> d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m \u0103n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i<\/span>, ch\u00fang ta<\/span> mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span> ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eddi sau<\/span> l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span> h\u1ebft th\u00ec khi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n v\u1edbi ai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef cho \u0111\u00fang. Ngo\u00e0i ra<\/span>, ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng<\/span> t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng chia vui s\u1edbt kh\u1ed5; khi c\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u<\/span> cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9c<\/span> th\u00ec ta vui v\u1ebb<\/span> c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span>; khi th\u1ea5y ai b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh<\/span>, ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5<\/span> th\u00ec ta t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch<\/span> san s\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1<\/span>. Ta l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 toan t\u00ednh, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i tim y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/span> v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/span>; c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec<\/span> ta l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/span> vi\u00ean m\u00e3n<\/span>.<\/span><\/div>\n

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